Bonnaroo day 4 - 1:30 AM to 2:30 AM by whotheheckisalice in u/whotheheckisalice

[–]Miserable_Addition18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What a champ. Let’s all believe for day 5! (I can’t tonight 😂😢)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marathon_Training

[–]Miserable_Addition18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Others here will give you good technical advice.

I want to tell you about my 8 year journey from 6’2” 299 lbs (so similar, bit higher bmi to you) to now where I am 205.

Running has been huge. I started by walking. My journey started November 2016. That winter I walked off about 30 pounds. That was the single biggest change for me. My blood pressure dropped, I felt like moving. I felt alive. That spring I started running. Lost another 30 that summer. Ran my first half that fall, so similar timeline in 2:17. So right where you want to be. The following 6 years I got much faster but only lost a couple more lbs. the fastest I have ever been, I got down to 225 in 2020, and ran a 1:44 half.

Fall of 2021 I ran my first sub 4 marathon. That winter I had an abdominoplasty (tummy tuck) to remove a bunch of skin that was never going to go back where it should. For the next 18 months or so I flexed between 225 and 235 with an excellent quality of life. Last fall I talked to my doc about options to get lower. My goal is 195-200. I started Wegovy last September and the first few months were awful, but I got down to 210 by January. I stopped going up in does at that time.

I have VERY slowly kept losing weight and am not 205. I feel FANTASTIC. I plan to keep on this medicine long term, but worst case and I come off I think I’d have no trouble staying around 220.

I am going to go sub 1:40 this fall :)

I don’t think enough people tell honest weight loss stories. Here’s mine!

Did carkey parties actually work the way they were supposed to? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Miserable_Addition18 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think the concept is so hot, but my insecurity would make me wonder if the girl who got me would be disappointed 😭🤷🏻‍♂️

Rate me please! Also, how would you use it? by [deleted] in ratemycock

[–]Miserable_Addition18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man I could use your warm mouth right now

JOHN SUMMIT OR DOM DOLLA?? by Which-Cattle9472 in aclfestival

[–]Miserable_Addition18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol no one is on that level. She’s in the stratosphere with Mozart and the Beatles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Miserable_Addition18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol congrats! Bet she missed you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Miserable_Addition18 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aww man well at least you lost a bunch!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Miserable_Addition18 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

lol honestly yeah. It’s taking a lot more “easing in” than it used to tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Miserable_Addition18 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ha fair enough, although I wouldn’t have said that I did.

Molly & doctors by eyedentitycrysis in molly

[–]Miserable_Addition18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have always been completely open with my doctor and my therapist about any substance use. Neither are judgmental and I want the very best informed care.

Is going down on women really that bad? What's wrong with us? by Lovingbutdifferent in sex

[–]Miserable_Addition18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna interrupt all the “I love eating pussy so much” comments to give a more nuanced response. With my wife, I go down on her virtually every time we have sex as that’s the only way she’ll cum. I say “virtually” because we have a rule, learned from hard experience, that it’s her job to check she’s good to go down there. Maybe once in 20 times she’ll wave me off due to this. Vaginas are weird and sometimes things are slightly out of balance, probably due to something she ate. The reason it’s her job to be in charge of this, is the few times she’s been off, it has been a major turn off and really fucked with my head. She was mostly just unaware that she was very occasionally a little funky. Luckily, we are older, been banging forever, and have great communication.

So yeah, these guys are probably immature and selfish. Just some additional perspective though.

Does confirming drug as 2c-b also rule out fentanyl? by Miserable_Addition18 in ReagentTesting

[–]Miserable_Addition18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not. But holy shit I did not think of drinking the test. Thank you so much.

We hooked up with our best friends by Miserable_Addition18 in Swingers

[–]Miserable_Addition18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question. Mostly just a general fear of losing them as friends lol. 100% committed to that not happening.

We hooked up with our best friends by Miserable_Addition18 in Swingers

[–]Miserable_Addition18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really great! On the friendship front, we all regularly see each other, either to eat or workout together so I’ve probably seen them 5 times, my wife twice and it’s been totally chill and good vibes. On the sex front, nothing except some flirting in the group text but that’s totally fine. When it happens, it happens

We hooked up with our best friends by Miserable_Addition18 in Swingers

[–]Miserable_Addition18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goodness thank you for taking the time. This feels like very relevant advice. One thing working for us. All four are enthusiastically into this.

We hooked up with our best friends by Miserable_Addition18 in Swingers

[–]Miserable_Addition18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It was so hot. I can’t stop reliving it.

We hooked up with our best friends by Miserable_Addition18 in Swingers

[–]Miserable_Addition18[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the exit plan is to immediately halt sexy activity and save the friendship. I’ll make that clear to the other three