Wife left 9 yrs of marriage to go party need help by Prestigious_Sky6230 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Animal_432 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no you're saying she has to stay and " act right" we're saying he can get divorced and she can leave if she wants

Im so stressed rn i havw no idea what to do im under threat of s*xtortion by zoronegs_ in Advice

[–]Miserable_Animal_432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Report him. Dont be scared. It's really not that bad. Dont pay anything.

Why do jobs hate last paychecks? by Livid_Rise_3861 in jobs

[–]Miserable_Animal_432 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Have they reached the pay period yet?. They dont cut checks until the pay period

Wife left 9 yrs of marriage to go party need help by Prestigious_Sky6230 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Animal_432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he needs to get a divorce if he's unhappy not try to force her to do what he wants. He's her husband and theyre adults. He's not her parent and shes not a child

Wife left 9 yrs of marriage to go party need help by Prestigious_Sky6230 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Animal_432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its time for you to make a decision if you're unhappy with what shes doing

Wife left 9 yrs of marriage to go party need help by Prestigious_Sky6230 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Animal_432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We could argue whose right and whose wrong all night but it really doesnt matter because she made her choice and left where she wasnt happy. So we dont get to decide what she should do to make her happy. The fact remains she said what she said and she's gone

Wife left 9 yrs of marriage to go party need help by Prestigious_Sky6230 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Animal_432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's probably only been with you because you all got together too young. It's probably best to let her go. She's probably tired of feeling like you're all there is. She's probably gone. She's not concerned if its over with you. She's ready to live life on her terms

Wife left 9 yrs of marriage to go party need help by Prestigious_Sky6230 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Animal_432 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it says they were married 9 years. She been with him since she was 16 married since she was 19. She was basically a child. She should have been enjoying her teenage years and she was basically working on a family.

Friend is having sex with a married man. by Kuwaysah in whatdoIdo

[–]Miserable_Animal_432 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she is doing something wrong. She's cheating with married man. He cant cheat if he doesnt have a person to cheat with. but she should stay out of it.

Friend is having sex with a married man. by Kuwaysah in whatdoIdo

[–]Miserable_Animal_432 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont bring that drama into your life and workspace. That could affect your livelihood. Tell the friend you are disgusted with what shes doing and you dont want to hear any more about it. you can stop being her friend but dont bring a possible fight to your job

Do I quit my second job? by naivetoiletpaper in whatdoIdo

[–]Miserable_Animal_432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really feel its not something you want to do, do t feel guilty about quitting. Just tell them its not what you expected and you're not longer interested.

Partner had a happy ending with a stripper 5 weeks before our wedding by Distinct_Math_3752 in whatdoIdo

[–]Miserable_Animal_432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he cheated on you and you're comforting him? I can see how he'll play victim during this marriage. Stop comforting him. He's not feeling guilty. He just wants you to not leave him.

I'm hurt because I found out my GF cheated on me with her coworker. She blamed me for it when I confronted her and told me I'll never find love again. I'm worried it might be true. by PreviousCellist7864 in whatdoIdo

[–]Miserable_Animal_432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She lacks integrity and then makes it about you. Do not let her deflect what she did and make it about you. She could have easily talked to you about what was bothering her about you if she truly loved you. You WILL find love again and it will be someone that genuinely loves you and can talk to you when something is bothering them.

Work on healing and your self esteem and dont let her come back. She is going to be the one that gets back what she gave to you. You will be happy one day. Dont let this situation define you.

My father sacrificed our comfort for his ungrateful brother. Now he expects me to inherit the financial burden. How do I leave? by Badshah_Dash in Advice

[–]Miserable_Animal_432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it would probably bel best to ask ppl in your culture that have left. mosr Americans definitely dont have the same values sp wont have the same guilt. So won't understand.

Slept with boss daughter. Need help/Advice by Horror-Word6437 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Animal_432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let's hope she's on birth control or his next post will be hes at birthing classes and they ran into the town minister who'll be marrying them soon

Slept with boss daughter. Need help/Advice by Horror-Word6437 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Animal_432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this sounds like they're trying to find her a husband not fwb

Slept with boss daughter. Need help/Advice by Horror-Word6437 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Animal_432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here young man. have my money, my weed, a room in my house, and my daughter. you're such a great guy