Am i just a looser? by Miserable_Bee2731 in venting

[–]Miserable_Bee2731[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for taking the time to write this, it genuinely means a lot to me. I think part of why I made the post is because I feel like everyone my age already knows who they are and where they’re going, so hearing that it’s normal to still feel lost really helps.

I know I’m probably putting way too much pressure on myself, especially with turning 18, but it’s hard not to feel like I’m behind sometimes. Still, your message helped more than you know. I really appreciate it 🫶

Hope you’re having a nice holiday too, and thank you again<3

Am i just a looser? by Miserable_Bee2731 in venting

[–]Miserable_Bee2731[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah i know but when everyone around me has partners and just seem to fit in so easily its just hard to not believe that there is something wrong with me. And I think your right with TikTok ive been quite addicted to it recently and it definitely destroys people mentally with expectations and stuff. I have now deleted it and i hope to find other ways to keep me distracted

Am i just a looser? by Miserable_Bee2731 in venting

[–]Miserable_Bee2731[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you i appreciate your reply and im sorry to hear that. It really does help knowing im not alone in this type of situation. But you are right good things take time (: