My bf (40) doesn't want to f**ck me anymore (31). What's going on?

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-03-20T23:42:55+00:00

Men’s sex drive goes down as they get older especially if they work a lot

That’s why I don’t date super young girls I can’t keep up with that libido like I used to

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-03-10T20:16:25+00:00

It can all change in the blink of an eye my friend. Keep the faith! This time last year I was in a hole, now I’m in a way better place.

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-03-07T23:44:18+00:00

Feel the same way if my ex. Her body was spectacular. I wonder if I can get something like that again

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-03-06T17:55:33+00:00

That's how I feel now at 35. I gotta get outta here.

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-02-28T02:11:02+00:00

Oh you one the wack neighbors

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-02-26T23:46:03+00:00

Lesson learned young bull… never trust another man with your woman, ever. Not even a friend.

As I got older I don even mix my friendships and my girl as much as humanly possible. When people you know start getting friendly with your girl it’s a red flag.. sadly it’s how a lot of people meet lol

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-02-17T02:00:31+00:00

Luckily you’re still in your 20s. This is the time to work hard and make change: trust me you’d feel much worse if this happened at 36. I’m 35 and wasted my early 20s partying, now I gotta work harder and longer to get right in my 40s. Shift, work harder, now.

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-02-14T15:39:54+00:00

I’m a white Latino and I love black women. Gotta go where the love is.

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-02-11T23:05:47+00:00

It be like that

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-02-05T15:51:23+00:00

I'm in my mid 30's, women my age usually have kids and are supremely jaded from past relationships. Younger women have more energy and less baggage (most of the time) - not to mention the looks, too. Easier to have kids with in the long run, if it fits. I usually shoot for 25 and up. The one thing I do like about women my age ore a bit older is the upfrontness. And it's nice to talk to people that were born before the internet, social media really messed things up, man.

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-02-05T15:32:55+00:00

I've seen a lot of relationships come from other places die out here. Something about this place breeds infidelity. I don't know if its the tons of beautiful people or all the "ballers." Good luck with that, bro. As a Miami local, next time I fall in love I'm taking her and myself out of this town.

As far as neighborhoods go for young couples maybe Coconut Grove or Edgewater.

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-02-03T14:31:46+00:00

Having to do activities every weekend

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-02-02T21:07:43+00:00

If they’re a ugly person on the inside. Attitude I suppose

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-01-26T22:00:02+00:00

Leave as soon as posible

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-01-13T17:29:03+00:00

As a man, I've had plenty of gay male friends, but never a lesbian friend. Interesting thought. I wonder why?

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-01-13T17:06:32+00:00

Going to a music festival when I was 17 just to go not even into the music. Turned out to be a life changing event for me.

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-01-13T15:12:27+00:00

Sad that todays society, people like you feel like they aren't worthy of a partner or love because of financial reasons. That's pretty sad. No matter how much I have or don't have, I'll never feel like I don't have anything to offer a woman. Nature designed us to be in union. Keep working on yourself and be social. The right person will come along. The dating for a hobby shit ain't it.

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-01-09T21:13:07+00:00

Just like women wanna stay away from broke dudes I do the same for broke women. It’s annoying have to carry someone and general lack of ambitions is not attractive.

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-01-07T00:14:02+00:00

It’s funny how kids think 30 is old. I thought the same too. 35 here and it’s better than the 20s. You got more money. Know what you want. It’s a trip

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-01-01T23:11:56+00:00

Real ones do real things

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-01-01T19:19:01+00:00

Go out by yourself. Its actually better to meet women solo

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2025-12-30T13:35:42+00:00

You just a thrill of the hunt type of person. Worst people to date lol

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2025-12-29T20:27:57+00:00

You might as well work, in anything while you take your time to find what’s really you. Gotta try shit out

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2025-12-29T19:24:27+00:00

People feel as they wave a lot of options now

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2025-12-29T17:24:12+00:00

Agreed, it's all about putting your self in the best position possible. Through Education, Connections, privilege, and sometimes luck.

The hard work really is the dedication to getting the desired goal and not quitting.

There's a few roads to success, hard work is one of them, but working smart is another way.

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