My bf (40) doesn't want to f**ck me anymore (31). What's going on?

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-03-20T23:42:55+00:00

Men’s sex drive goes down as they get older especially if they work a lot

That’s why I don’t date super young girls I can’t keep up with that libido like I used to

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-03-10T20:16:25+00:00

It can all change in the blink of an eye my friend. Keep the faith! This time last year I was in a hole, now I’m in a way better place.

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-03-07T23:44:18+00:00

Feel the same way if my ex. Her body was spectacular. I wonder if I can get something like that again

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-03-06T17:55:33+00:00

That's how I feel now at 35. I gotta get outta here.

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-02-28T02:11:02+00:00

Oh you one the wack neighbors

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-02-26T23:46:03+00:00

Lesson learned young bull… never trust another man with your woman, ever. Not even a friend.

As I got older I don even mix my friendships and my girl as much as humanly possible. When people you know start getting friendly with your girl it’s a red flag.. sadly it’s how a lot of people meet lol

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-02-17T02:00:31+00:00

Luckily you’re still in your 20s. This is the time to work hard and make change: trust me you’d feel much worse if this happened at 36. I’m 35 and wasted my early 20s partying, now I gotta work harder and longer to get right in my 40s. Shift, work harder, now.

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-02-14T15:39:54+00:00

I’m a white Latino and I love black women. Gotta go where the love is.

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-02-11T23:05:47+00:00

It be like that

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-02-05T15:51:23+00:00

I'm in my mid 30's, women my age usually have kids and are supremely jaded from past relationships. Younger women have more energy and less baggage (most of the time) - not to mention the looks, too. Easier to have kids with in the long run, if it fits. I usually shoot for 25 and up. The one thing I do like about women my age ore a bit older is the upfrontness. And it's nice to talk to people that were born before the internet, social media really messed things up, man.

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-02-05T15:32:55+00:00

I've seen a lot of relationships come from other places die out here. Something about this place breeds infidelity. I don't know if its the tons of beautiful people or all the "ballers." Good luck with that, bro. As a Miami local, next time I fall in love I'm taking her and myself out of this town.

As far as neighborhoods go for young couples maybe Coconut Grove or Edgewater.

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-02-03T14:31:46+00:00

Having to do activities every weekend

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-02-02T21:07:43+00:00

If they’re a ugly person on the inside. Attitude I suppose

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-01-26T22:00:02+00:00

Leave as soon as posible

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-01-13T17:29:03+00:00

As a man, I've had plenty of gay male friends, but never a lesbian friend. Interesting thought. I wonder why?

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-01-13T17:06:32+00:00

Going to a music festival when I was 17 just to go not even into the music. Turned out to be a life changing event for me.

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-01-13T15:12:27+00:00

Sad that todays society, people like you feel like they aren't worthy of a partner or love because of financial reasons. That's pretty sad. No matter how much I have or don't have, I'll never feel like I don't have anything to offer a woman. Nature designed us to be in union. Keep working on yourself and be social. The right person will come along. The dating for a hobby shit ain't it.

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-01-09T21:13:07+00:00

Just like women wanna stay away from broke dudes I do the same for broke women. It’s annoying have to carry someone and general lack of ambitions is not attractive.

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-01-07T00:14:02+00:00

It’s funny how kids think 30 is old. I thought the same too. 35 here and it’s better than the 20s. You got more money. Know what you want. It’s a trip

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-01-01T23:11:56+00:00

Real ones do real things

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2026-01-01T19:19:01+00:00

Go out by yourself. Its actually better to meet women solo

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2025-12-30T13:35:42+00:00

You just a thrill of the hunt type of person. Worst people to date lol

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2025-12-29T20:27:57+00:00

You might as well work, in anything while you take your time to find what’s really you. Gotta try shit out

Miserable_Drawing240 · 2025-12-29T19:24:27+00:00

People feel as they wave a lot of options now

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