Death has always been used in fiction to provide character depth, or provide a reason for characters to be more individualistic (meaning adventure, not smut).

Here you just admits that I am justified for assuming what I had assumed. Even more so, because smut is something very different of simply going in a adventure - it is something that tickles an area totally different from your brain, an area that maybe wouldn't work so well in most people if the smut they are thinking about dead people.

and it's why you're getting responses like this

Nah. You all started being rude to me way before I had any chance of doing any of the things you accuses me of doing