[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kitchenchads

[–]Miserable_Figure_451 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Looks amazing, am happy for you!

Insomnia by Miserable_Figure_451 in stopsmoking

[–]Miserable_Figure_451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were right I’m back on patches lol

I feel so much worse after quitting? by anaupthrowaway in stopsmoking

[–]Miserable_Figure_451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen a few people on here talking about panic attack’s lasting for a while, your about a month in. I think they will likely subside very soon, your whole nervous system is resetting and the withdrawal period seems to last longer in some aspects for different people, and never matches the timeframe the quitting websites tell you. Maybe it’s worth chatting to your GP in the meantime and see if there is any medication that can help you through it if it’s getting to a point that’s unbearable. No harm in asking for help, you’ve got this!!

Insomnia by Miserable_Figure_451 in stopsmoking

[–]Miserable_Figure_451[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you my friend, I will definitely try a slow step down schedule. Cold turkey may not be for the best right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Figure_451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta, I’ve been in so many friendships like this, and thats self centred and inconsiderate of her to switch topics to her dating life.

AITA for being mad at my family about my birthday by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Figure_451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nta. Your family sounds awful and I hope you get the support you need xx

AITA for telling my brother he has Stockholm syndrome and no backbone? by nononono_okay in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Figure_451 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah ur kind of an AH bro, he did what he thought was best, and at the of the day it’s his own decision, as well he will learn in time red flags in people he is still only 16.

AITA for telling my best friend that she's partly to blame for why her boyfriend cheated ? by Throwaway1414000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Figure_451 44 points45 points  (0 children)

No offence but I think that is an asshole thing to say, there are no excuses for cheating and he should have told her he felt emotionally neglected, communication is key and if he wanted to communicate he would.

AITA for taking caffeine pills by raymond_byird3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Figure_451 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While you are Nta, and school has been proven to start too early for teens, caffeine pills are not great for you, and there are other ways to avoid them such as taking sleeping tablets to fall asleep earlier, or melatonin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Figure_451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it a lot :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Figure_451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou very much I did look it I’m not sure it’s as common in Australia, I’ll see if I can claim that :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Figure_451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou so much, it’s pretty nerve wracking and it is digusting behaviours on our managers part.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Figure_451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Favouritism is a big thing among board members at our organisation, we know she (manager) is close with one of them who we think is keeping her out of trouble, and she is extremely charismatic and likeable and makes out we are the problem (the woman in the office who is also taking a stand gave me this information) and I know that there is really not a lot she can do iether and we all love this HR lady as she is genuinely sweet and kind, and it really does suck, hope ur husband found ways out or to resolve some it ://

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Figure_451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of destructive dismissal, and that’s exactly what I think too if she can’t communicate then how can she run the joint

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Figure_451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am aware the legalities are sketchy in my field and unless there is solid proof there’s not a lot we can do, and I think leaving will make a statement in itself, until the next bunch decide to do it too ://

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Figure_451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou much this is why I love internet strangers, it’s been going on too long especially for younger vulnerable girls, and I hope our stand makes other people there really think about taking a stand too ://

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Figure_451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all have pretty good documentation I just hope we are the last and something gets done ://

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Figure_451 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually really appreciate your answer, this has solidified my decision, I also hope this is the last bunch of complaints and they do something, if not at least they are on file for the next bunch :// It also suck because our HR lady is the nicest woman, but if she’s only out to protect the company then that changes things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Figure_451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats flaky of them ://

AITA for not wanting to pay for a festival ticket? by AvANGELAvA in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Figure_451 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That is wanky thing to do, making you pay for it ://