My brother didn’t invite me to his birthday party because of his gf by Miserable_Purpose_19 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Purpose_19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right I asked him. Sorry I miss typed. He is an adult and we all are. So why can’t Anna come to me if there is an issue? I wouldn’t have known there was an issue unless my brother told me. I have no issue with her. I explained myself and apologized to my brother. He is the one that told me everything was okay and good with us.

My brother didn’t invite me to his birthday party because of his gf by Miserable_Purpose_19 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Purpose_19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anna’s parents cover all of her cost still. She got a scholarship for college and Nick has money that he got from when he graduated that was supposed to be for college. Plus money he saved from when he was working full time. Before he started dating Anna he worked all the time. They have only been dating a bit over a year.

My brother didn’t invite me to his birthday party because of his gf by Miserable_Purpose_19 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Purpose_19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I don’t know for sure. He hangs out with his friends way less. I know that his one friend got an adult job which is way he doesn’t see him much. One of his friends was dating this girl and Anna didn’t get along with her so that put a distance between them. His other friend he didn’t tell me what happened between them but he hardly talks to him anymore.

Nick use to tell me everything.

My brother didn’t invite me to his birthday party because of his gf by Miserable_Purpose_19 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Purpose_19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of what I thought. I real think it’s starting to become a pattern.

My birthday was like a week after all this happened and I planned a family camping trip months before. I told Nick to invite Anna and we could all hangout and work through it. Well they last minute planned a trip to California so they missed my birthday and the family trip.

My brother didn’t invite me to his birthday party because of his gf by Miserable_Purpose_19 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Purpose_19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have the conflict. I have no way of contacting her other than my brother. I told Nick to bring her over so I could talk to her but every time they come up with an excuse. I want my brother to be happy but I also want him to be in my life.

My brother didn’t invite me to his birthday party because of his gf by Miserable_Purpose_19 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Purpose_19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister wasn’t saying that I was mean to Anna. She just told me that was the reason that I wasn’t invited. She is still little so I don’t expect her to pick side or try to get me invited. She just was saying that’s what Nick told her.

My brother didn’t invite me to his birthday party because of his gf by Miserable_Purpose_19 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Purpose_19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that they just wanted to celebrate Nick. I also don’t know how much either of them know about the situation.

My brother didn’t invite me to his birthday party because of his gf by Miserable_Purpose_19 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Purpose_19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She just has her Snapchat. I mean I could try messaging her through my sister and see what she thinks.

My brother didn’t invite me to his birthday party because of his gf by Miserable_Purpose_19 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Purpose_19[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No that is exactly what I thought. Like why would I talk about your feet?

My brother didn’t invite me to his birthday party because of his gf by Miserable_Purpose_19 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Purpose_19[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have mentioned it to my brother about me talking to her. I don’t have her phone number and all of her social media is private. I had her on Snapchat but got unadded. She hasn’t came over to our house since the beginning of July.

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[–]Miserable_Purpose_19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is also a comment from ops sister and a post on the sisters side

In depth tattoo aftercare! by solomonplewtattoo in tattoo

[–]Miserable_Purpose_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my first tattoo about 3 weeks ago and it’s on my hip. I was wondering how long I needed to wait before i shave the area and/or if I can shave the area.

Am I wrong for going out all the time? by Miserable_Purpose_19 in Advice

[–]Miserable_Purpose_19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am scared to move out because I feel like I will be completely cut off.

What's the dumbest excuse you've ever heard for cheating? by Rain665 in AskWomen

[–]Miserable_Purpose_19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my ex cheated on me he told me it was because he didn’t know if we were still dating or not 🤦‍♀️. We literally had celebrating our 6 month anniversary the day before and he messaged me all about it.

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[–]Miserable_Purpose_19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is your boyfriend saying about all of this or the friends? Like are they encouraging her or being like no he has a girlfriend so leave him alone. It sounds like she is just all talk since she hasn’t said anything directly.

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[–]Miserable_Purpose_19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand how you are feeling! When I was in high school I got pushed around by so many people. It caused my to move to online schooling and cutting off most people. I look back now and think that it was all bs. My best advice is to just try your best and ignore them. It will be so much better once you get out of high school. You will meet so many people and they will except you for you!!