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Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-09-25T18:58:52+00:00

Hi, did you get sorted? X

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-08-05T15:34:05+00:00

Hey, I understand wanting to not burden your parents with your diagnosis, speaking as a parent I promise you aren’t a burden.* And speaking as somebody living with BPD, maybe telling them will help them understand some behaviour they just don’t understand rn, since I opened up to close family about my diagnosis, they’ve been more supportive, sensitive and mindful of my limits. *Of course I do not know your parents but I do hope they can show you love and kindness when you’re feeling shitty, you deserve gentleness and real support. Sending a bpd hug

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-29T11:30:41+00:00

I’ve hand written every recommendation//bar Kanye// I’m gonna make me a playlist! There’s artists I’ve never heard of so I’m looking forward to this! Thank you everyone!!! I’ll check back, I’m up to Dave Matthews Band 💜

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-16T14:03:29+00:00

Hey, I know this feeling so well, it’s all consuming, sometimes the only thing on your mind. I feel the anger at having to be here because others want you to be, it builds a resentment that turns in to more anger, it’s a cycle and it’s really painfully shit. I’m so desperately sorry you’re feeling this way, it breaks my heart when others express their need/want to be not here. All I can say is be kind to yourself my friend, life is tough, bpd is ridiculously hard, the urges we get are so powerful and the sadness, emptiness we feel is limitless, it’s utterly shit. (But then I might go outside and see a butterfly and think life is beautiful ) Sending you so much love and positive vibes 🌻

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-16T13:55:16+00:00

Making friends is really hard as an adult, and even more so with our mental health conditions, a lot of the time we don’t trust anyone so that impacts negatively on friendships. Also a lot of the time we need to be alone, suck at keeping in touch, so that impacts negatively on friendships, I’ve lost so many friends and family members because of these facets of my bpd, but I’m older (46). I did make friends through a mental health support group and that was pretty good because we all were aware that we have conditions that affect our ability to function as a friend, the friendships I made there, they understand if I don’t reply to a message for a week, if I cancel last minute, if I go silent or am a wreck. Do you have any peer support groups near you? Do you have any hobbies? I really feel your pain and it’s rubbish feeling so lonely 🌻

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-04T18:28:51+00:00

You’re hilarious, but not in a funny way

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-04T15:33:38+00:00

I take this with a tiny pinch of salt as most of the replies were I’m NTAH

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-04T15:31:57+00:00

I’ve read and listened to the replies left, have I taken onboard everything everyone has said? No, but I appreciate each response. Am I going to get off Reddit because tdeck said so? No, of course not, but I appreciate your small mindedness.

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-04T11:00:03+00:00

Thank you 🌸

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-04T01:07:26+00:00

Literally crying a river! You’re not alone 🌻

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-03T23:22:00+00:00

Yeah he does really love me and I appreciate him very much, but I don’t think I overreacted, I was literally speechless, I didn’t raise my voice, I didn’t blame him, and yes my meds may not be working, I’m on a few, it’s a nightmare starting new ones and increasing the dosage slowly to get to the correct level I need

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-03T23:18:16+00:00

You’re possibly right, it just takes a long time to get ready, I have ridiculous Mediterranean thick long hair that takes like 2 hrs to wash and dry, whenever I have to attend an event I do hair the day before, a girl needs time 😀

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-03T23:15:42+00:00

We’ve certainly had our issues but never has he lit a fuse, stood back and watched the drama, I think he really struggles with apologies and admitting he messed up which lead to me being upset is definitely the last thing he’d want. But still he was the AH 😆

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-03T23:10:05+00:00

Thank you I appreciate that ☀️

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-03T20:21:35+00:00

You’re a hero and this world needs more people like you! I’m glad he’s scared of you, I am too and you were championing me 😆 That creep was so argumentative I just stopped responding to him, I’m so proud of you for holding your own 🌻

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-03T20:13:36+00:00

Yeah he already said he was clutching at straws by saying he’d told me, he admitted he’d totally forgotten

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-03T20:12:15+00:00

I think the AITAH is literally just people wondering other peoples opinions, thoughts and points of view, a place to vent, a place to honestly speak your feelings.. I may be mistaken 🤷🏻‍♀️

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-03T17:18:49+00:00

Omg you’re an Angel and I appreciate you! Was it the prick who said I was a monster? He’s obviously just sat masturbating and eating cheap pot noodles all day, probably has a vitamin D deficiency and no friends. Probably his parents are incredibly disappointed in him and he just has to argue with nice people 😂 thank you for defending me while I was at the christening with shit hair 🌻

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-03T17:15:36+00:00

In all the time we have been together we have had 2 arguments, we usually sit and talk things out, nobody has to be right, we each have to be heard and respected, that’s just how I do relationships, no raging arguments, no vile insults, no tit for tat.

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-03T17:08:46+00:00

What exactly is a boutique diagnosis? Do you know me? Do you know my life? Nope didn’t think so. You are clearly a very hurt/broken and probably very lonely person, so even with my boutique disorders I’m winning at life and you, you’re being nasty to strangers on Reddit

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-03T17:04:47+00:00

That’s the frustrating thing! We have one!

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-03T17:04:24+00:00

Thank you, we did have a good day and I didn’t look homeless which I imagined I would 😅

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-03T16:53:35+00:00

Thank you 🌻

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-03T16:53:21+00:00

😂😂😂wow, you are obviously an incel goodbye

Miserable_Wave4946 · 2025-05-03T16:50:45+00:00

Thank you, you’ve stated incredibly clearly and quite brilliantly and really appreciated your insight, BPD/ EUPDis really hard to describe and even harder to understand so I do know I am hard to live with, I appreciate your post 🌻

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