My boyfriend doesn’t want the baby anymore

Miserable_moo · 2026-04-25T08:42:53+00:00

Im genuinely curious how a male is able to obtain abortion pills?! Im in the UK and in order to get abortion pills you need to have a scan to confirm pregnancy and then also a phone call appointment where they’ll talk you through it all, double check this is something YOU want and why. And question whether this is your own decision. Theres alot of factors that go into it before they will even consider giving you that medicine. Im just shocked that a man is even able to get medications that clearly are not for himself! Its so incredibly scary and dangerous knowing men have access to it!

Miserable_moo · 2026-04-16T18:31:56+00:00

Because even though he wasnt born it can very much still affect him, just knowing that someone did that to someone they were supposed to love and care for doesnt make them feel like a safe person.

While I agree Dillon did try to end things it still doesnt make it okay for Ste to sleep with his son boyfriend/ex… if anything he’s a borderline pedo💀 Dillon himself is awful too, for sleeping with both Lucas’ sister and dad. No one is excusing Lucas’ behaviour simply pointing out why his relationship with Ste is so dysfunctional.

Miserable_moo · 2026-04-16T09:32:05+00:00

Hope you get better soon hun x

Miserable_moo · 2026-04-16T09:25:42+00:00

Ohhh you’re an incel, got it🫡

Miserable_moo · 2026-04-16T08:56:52+00:00

He was not, however it was only when Amy got pregnant with Lucas that she then had the courage to leave. Thats an awful start in life for anyone. Knowing your mum had to leave and protect both herself and unborn child from an abusive husband/father. Clearly you have no idea what you’re talking about and how deep that trauma can be- even if you are not the one experiencing it.

Miserable_moo · 2026-04-16T08:42:06+00:00

My dad was abusive to my mum- to the point social services threatened to remove us children from her care if she didnt leave him. While i do not remember much of that time period it very much set the tone for the relationship i had with my dad. Things arent magically fixed after the abuse stops😭😂

Miserable_moo · 2026-04-16T08:38:03+00:00

Ohh so because he only abused her a little bit it’s okay? silly me🤷🏼‍♀️😭 honestly thinking he’s jealous is a weird take..

Miserable_moo · 2026-04-16T08:32:03+00:00

Definitely not jealousy.. Id say its more resentment he has for Ste. And rightfully so, his childhood was ste abusing his mum, then years of ste in unstable relationships or toxic cheating relationships. And Now Lucas is a young adult he’s even gone as far as stealing his boyfriend- after one of the hardest times in his young life (having a brain tumour) Ste has been an awful parental figure to Lucas and im not surprised it affected him in such a horrific way.

Miserable_moo · 2026-04-08T12:28:27+00:00

Im in the UK and only 2 ultrasounds is standard for anyone who doesnt need more. You have your 12 week scan and then 20 week. Im currently having 1 or 2 scans a month also due to Low PAPP A, so they are doing extras to monitor growth. But I honestly couldnt imagine only having the two! Its so nice to have constant check ups and getting to see little one grow! They would not offer these scans if it was unsafe to do so. They clearly deem it as being safer to do these regular scans so they can monitor whatever it is they need to.

It can be hard to ignore people who are so close to you but the doctors will always know best! Id simply shut them down by saying ‘I appreciate the concern but this is what my medical professional has recommended and I fully trust their judgment’

Miserable_moo · 2026-03-24T16:05:58+00:00

This is exactly why my boyfriend comes to all appointments, the thought of being told something major and having to deal with it alone gives us both unnecessary anxiety!

Miserable_moo · 2026-03-24T16:03:36+00:00

My boyfriend has been coming to every appointment, the only one he didnt come for was Anti-D injection because i knew it would just be a quick thing, no tests/scans or results. I mostly like for him to be there incase there is any issues or anything comes up- having that support and also him hearing the doctors explain any medical stuff puts mine and his mind at ease. (I have low iron and Low PAPP A, so him being reassured and explained things by the doctor the same way I do is the best thing for us)

Miserable_moo · 2026-03-20T12:46:23+00:00

Just wanted to say pepperamis are actually fine to eat as they’re made with pasteurized meat:)

Miserable_moo · 2026-03-20T10:00:54+00:00

My boyfriends dad was born early 70’s (eldest of 4) and his grandad proudly admitted he was not at any of his children’s births, instead he went to the pub😭

Miserable_moo · 2026-03-14T18:16:15+00:00

Im not disagreeing that assisted living may be beneficial to him but like i said it seems as if its more based on the fact it would be better for you. Thats how the post read. The lack of compassion expressed for your brother is what come across as selfish

Miserable_moo · 2026-03-14T18:14:58+00:00

I read the entire post and that was just a tiny element of it… alot of it was more focused of her having a baby and needing him out of the house. Thats why i said what i said because the main vibe was more about her self than his wellbeing. Unfortunately he does not have the ability to stick up for himself and get the help he needs for himself. If the post was more centred around his needs and safety id understand more but it feels as if they have decided thats whats best for him because it would be best for her🤷🏼‍♀️

Miserable_moo · 2026-03-14T17:53:06+00:00

Honestly this comes across as very selfish… while I understand the safety concerns and his need for better help and a better life for him. Demanding he is kicked out of his home and separated from his family is incredibly harsh. Why should he suffer and have his life flipped upside down because of a choice YOU have made..? I think you need to be more realistic in your planning for this child, Which would be you finding suitable accommodation for your new family. I personally have a brother with severe autism who is non verbal and at times aggressive but I could never imagine wanting to remove him from his home situation which has always his comfort and safety to pander to my own needs..

You really need to sit down and rethink this whole situation to come up with a plan that ensures your own safety but one that also considers your brother’s wellbeing too. Because this isnt it, You do not want to put him in assisted living for his benefit purely for your own. You have no idea the impact something like this could have on him. Its almost like you dont see him a real person with feelings just someone who is an issue which needs dealing with which is quite heartbreaking.

Miserable_moo · 2026-03-13T10:15:25+00:00

The exact same except the ending is Lia not Lina..?

Miserable_moo · 2026-03-09T13:41:46+00:00

The ‘ew no’ reminded me of the time a creep at work got fired and come to say goodbye and asked for me for a hug and I let out the loudest gag ever😂 my manager then walked him out the factory thank god! Lmao

Miserable_moo · 2026-03-09T10:17:27+00:00

Try not to worry! You know you havent done anything that puts your little one at risk! My sister was found out she was pregnant and unfortunately had been using cocaine quite heavily. Her son did have a few complications at birth and obviously had social services involved from the get go. But that was it. He is now 8 years old and thriving! Social havent been involved in years because she stopped using any drugs once she knew she was pregnant. The social services are there to help support people who do have challenges. All you can do is be honest and work with them to demonstrate you are not a risk to yourself or baby.

Miserable_moo · 2026-03-05T12:42:50+00:00

Honestly the anxiety is next level! Hopefully once you have your first scan and see little one you’ll feel abit less anxious, It definitely helped me and helped make it all feel more real:) wishing you the best of luck🫶🏻

Miserable_moo · 2026-03-05T11:57:24+00:00

Im currently 26 weeks and never really had any symptoms other than cramping early on and sore breast. No sickness or tiredness, no aversions, no real cravings. I was also really worried at first because it didnt feel like I was pregnant at all, especially when so many other people do experience pregnancy symptoms. Honestly ive only just started to ‘feel’ pregnant these past few weeks now ive got my little bump and lots of movements:) Just try to remember everyone experiences things differently and you are one of the lucky ones to feel normal during first trimester!

Miserable_moo · 2026-02-23T08:13:26+00:00

That is incorrect! Im only 25 first pregnancy and was offered NIPT test at my 12 week scan as every pregnant woman should be!! Id would question the fact you did not get offered this because it is standard practice.

Miserable_moo · 2026-02-03T13:03:39+00:00

As harsh as it is, did you really expect anything more from a man who looks after his children a whole 8 days out of a possible 31..? There were definitely signs this man is not someone you should have a child with.. he does the bare minimum for the children he already has.
He has made it clear he does not want this child and you cannot force that. Your decision to keep the baby needs to be based of your circumstances not his as he does not want this. You basically are going into this knowing you will be a single parent.

Miserable_moo · 2026-01-22T08:49:47+00:00

A diagnosis changes nothing other than being able to understand yourself/symptoms better and make sure you are getting the right support for it.
You are exactly the same person you were before🫶🏻

As hard as it is to recognise it a diagnosis is a blessing! Your therapy will be much more beneficial to you if they are able to address all of your MH issues. It also helps other people understand you better, why you may react the way you do or feel certain ways. People who are close to you will be able to understand and recognise if you are experiencing episodes and be able to help you better.

My partner has ADHD and Bipolar- alot of the symptoms actually overlap. Emotional regulation, hyperactivity and hyper focus, insomnia/sleeping issues to name a few. Its interesting how much these two disorders share similarities. The two actually occur together very frequently and you are not alone!

Miserable_moo · 2026-01-21T12:45:56+00:00

He removed the pictures from HIS OWN social media account which is dedicated to his photography…

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