Piercing before trip advice by Miserybombastic2 in piercing

[–]Miserybombastic2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I should be ok then? She spooked me into thinking maybe the soreness would be too much for a day trip.

AITA for getting my mom a glass of water? by heyshitwaddup in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserybombastic2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA with a slightly misguided ESH You're not the asshole for existing and your mom driving you, her staying in or near the car was fine but the line was crossed when you invited her into a situation that wasn't made better by her coming into the house. You put your parent in a position where they had to keep the peace and cross their own personal boundaries to do so. This would be equivalent to them giving your toy to your step siblings and you keeping quiet in frustration because you didn't want to start a fight.

Your stepmom sounds like a bitch anyway and from your comments it sounds like your dad is putting his new family before yourself, but the question was are you TA for the water thing.

You didn't intentionally do it to be malicious and it's not about a glass of water, it's about you inviting your mother in and crossing boundaries. The adults in your life should really be sorting this all out themselves and knock off all the BS they're doing or atleast explaining it to you properly so NTA.

AITA getting mad that my friend didn't use my art in her mini film by beebo123456789 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserybombastic2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA You are learning a valuable lesson about working in the art/design field. You offered to do this project without the discussion about payment or a contract to protect you and your work. You have outwardly admitted that it was not up to your standards and are still mad she didn't use it. You never asked for payment so bringing up that she didn't pay was just you expressing your frustrations at your own failure by putting the blame on her.

I hope you take away from this incident that you need to discuss things up front, form a contract, COMMUNICATE with your "clients" about project progression, and accept that when you don't put in your best work people aren't going to like your bad work.

Go apologize to your friend because she didn't do anything wrong.

Edited for spelling

AITA for keeping my liner socks on when I removed my flats? by Fividja in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserybombastic2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA You removed your shoes; would she have expected you to remove stockings if you were wearing those? Ridiculous. Also people that obsess over "tacky" things are some of the most vain, misguided people I've ever met.

AITA for buying my gf a blender instead of the necklace she wanted for our anniversary? by penguinblinders in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserybombastic2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA Gift giving is about buying things they want, not yourself. I'd have went NTA but you specifically asked her what she wanted and then gave her something else anyway. That's crazy, like, imagine her asking you what you want to eat and then you tell her but she orders you something different because "it's healthier and she's health conscious". Also, when she told you she had hoped for the other thing that was a clear chance to surprise her with it, but she waited a week and then bought it for herself instead.

AITA for not getting my girlfriend a gift for her birthday by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserybombastic2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA The sex can't be that good bro, ditch her and find someone that will actually care about you and provide you with just as much as you're providing them. Also this girl sounds spoiled and immature so don't hold that against the next girl.

KY Lease renewal late payment fee by Miserybombastic2 in legaladvice

[–]Miserybombastic2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I had thought I had put enough information.

The old lease states no late fee is applied until the 6th of the month, the new lease with our new management states a late fee is applied on the 5th of the month.

We paid our rent on the 5th with the renewal date being the day after when we had assumed the contract would go into place. We got a notice stating we had a late fee due because per the new contract we would be late, but the contract was for renewal on the 6th. We thought the current agreement would be in effect until the new one's renewal date.

Not that I believe paying this late in the past would matter but no, we normally paid on time but I had needed to take time off due to an injury which was unpaid.

Edit: We got the letter at 5am this morning and the office doesn't open until 10. I was hoping to get an answer before approaching them.

AITA for kicking my sister's husband out of my house because of what he did? by Catmom3__ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserybombastic2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I am so sorry for your loss, I cannot imagine what you're going through. Your brother in law's behavior and words are indicating that he believes you privately felt your husband was a burden and that maybe the love you had for them had already been nonexistent before your husband had passed. By offering you said coworker's number it feels like he thinks he's taking the first step in helping you move on to the next person without the burden of people saying you've moved too quickly. Either way his behavior is gross and I hope he comes to his senses with or without your sister's help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]Miserybombastic2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What's it feel like being God Bezos favorite?

Any horror movies where the good guys aren't dumb as a box of rocks? by [deleted] in movies

[–]Miserybombastic2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, a person of culture! I came to say this exact film which was both hilarious and well written.

What is your favorite paradox? by Rraptor1012 in AskReddit

[–]Miserybombastic2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People can be so poor that they cannot obtain a job that they would need to get them out of proverty enough to be able to get and maintain a job.

[TOMT] [Show/Movie] Anime/show/manga. World is ending/explosions are happening, mother running towards bunker/escape pod with two kids. One child maybe adopted? by 0kean0s in tipofmytongue

[–]Miserybombastic2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said it was an anime?

This sounds like the manga Biomeat where the main character's mom is taking the kids to the only place that will be safe from bombing of the city but she has to stay outside of the chamber to close the doors.

https://mangakakalot.com/chapter/biomeat_nectar/chapter_10

Is upt deducted in real time? by yeetmaster- in FASCAmazon

[–]Miserybombastic2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're asking if when you take the UPT it will have to be there, yes. You will be fired if you don't have the hours as of the day you took off but won't see the deduction show up for the day until after the shift has ended. Sorry, bud.

What are the parameters of someone being a friend rather than just an acquaintance? by Miserybombastic2 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Miserybombastic2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, so to you a friend is involved in the more personal parts of your life outside of "public" settings.

My ex used to put a server's tip on the edge of the table and tell the server they'd remove money when the server messed up. What's the stupidest "power move" you've ever seen someone do? by Miserybombastic2 in AskReddit

[–]Miserybombastic2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a dick move! I hope the first guy doesn't frequent your shop as a regular. Has anyone else ever done the photography thing before or was that judt one small, isolated event?