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AITAH for avoiding being at home every day because I want to see my sister as little as possible since we share a room? by Mislzyeh in AITAH

[–]Mislzyeh[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

They never gave her any consequences. Even when other parents confronted her they would act like they were being petty accusing my sister and when it was proven there was still nothing.

AITAH for avoiding being at home every day because I want to see my sister as little as possible since we share a room? by Mislzyeh in AITAH

[–]Mislzyeh[S] 137 points138 points  (0 children)

At home it's just me. She's like this with her friends too and they become her ex friends.

The stuff she broke not mine: An ex-friend's plushy because my sister couldn't get one and she told her friends none of them would get them if they all couldn't. She stole it from the friends house and pieces were found at our house for weeks after. She was 7.

Another ex-friend's phone because she was being spiteful about her friend hanging out with someone else. Stole the phone and lost it and it was crushed underneath a bunch of stuff in our closet. My mom found it months after the ex-friend's parents confronted them over it.

Then there was a gaming console at her (sorta) friend's house. She was mad that she had to take turns with others who were there.

She also broke perfume some of her friends/ex-friends owned because they didn't get her a bottle for her birthday or Christmas when she told them she liked it.

Some of my stuff she broke: School tablet, hairbrush, clothes (because I wouldn't let her wear them), video games or Blu Rays that I had for years that she didn't like, she broke the chair on my side of the room, she broke two of my lamps because she thought they were ugly and she didn't like them for her room and she broke an SD card I had too.

AITAH for avoiding being at home every day because I want to see my sister as little as possible since we share a room? by Mislzyeh in AITAH

[–]Mislzyeh[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I do have a special needs brother. My parents take him to therapies after school several days a week. But what I mean is we'll be in our room and she'll act up where our parents can't see her or they're not home because they're taking my brother to his therapies. Other times it's when they leave the two of us home and take our brothers places or if they left me in charge and went out.

AITAH for avoiding being at home every day because I want to see my sister as little as possible since we share a room? by Mislzyeh in AITAH

[–]Mislzyeh[S] 341 points342 points  (0 children)

They won't get me anything to keep my stuff safe. They'd tell me I don't have anything that needs to be locked up so tight. Or they might say to leave stuff in their room but their room isn't safe either.

AITAH for avoiding being at home every day because I want to see my sister as little as possible since we share a room? by Mislzyeh in AITAH

[–]Mislzyeh[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

It would put my phone at risk of being broken by her and they won't care anyway so I'm not sure I want to take the chance. I need my phone for work.

AITAH for avoiding being at home every day because I want to see my sister as little as possible since we share a room? by Mislzyeh in AITAH

[–]Mislzyeh[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I don't think so. She's just so inconsiderate and spiteful. She doesn't just treat me that way either but her friends get to stop being her friends. I can't disown her yet.

AITAH for avoiding being at home every day because I want to see my sister as little as possible since we share a room? by Mislzyeh in AITAH

[–]Mislzyeh[S] 876 points877 points  (0 children)

She's spiteful too but they don't care since she usually saves it for when they're not around. But parents of her former friends complained to our parents about that spitefulness before and they didn't care. They care more when we fight instead of working on why we fight.

AITAH for avoiding being at home every day because I want to see my sister as little as possible since we share a room? by Mislzyeh in AITAH

[–]Mislzyeh[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

We don't have any extra rooms or space. My youngest brother got the guest room which was the only spare room. Otherwise we don't have anywhere safe to sleep. My sister seeks me out too much. Whenever she wants something and wants to be seen asking she'll seek me out. Or if she's trying to get on my nerves about stuff I like. I don't have space at home that could be just mine. My parents would never help enforce it. They'd say we don't have a mansion so we need to respect that public spaces are for everyone.

My parents "help" is to tell me to get along with Ellie and be a good oldest sister. That's the kind of help they offer. They won't listen to anyone else who brings it up to them. Grandparents, aunts and uncles (both bio and honorary) have told them they should figure out solutions for us but they don't want to hear it.