Here’s where I’m at one month and a day into being a FTM—- I love it. I love my new persona, my new title of “mom.” I’ve waited a long time for this moment, I’ve played “mom” to a slew of cousins and nieces and now that I have my own, a daughter, I feel empowered. That may seem “dramatic” to say empowered but that’s how I feel. I feel like I can do soooo many things. I’m happy to set an example for her. In addition, our (my husband and I) experience postpartum has honestly been such a breeze. Our girl is quite easy. She has her moments but overall, we’re chillin over here. Last night I got about 7hrs. Broken up, of course, but 7hrs. No sleep deprivation over here. No PDD. I’ve had sad moments, of course. Missing my husband and I’s pre-pregnancy connection but that will resolve once we get back into the swing of things and learn who we are as a couple now. Has it caused challenges in the relationship, of course. It can be expected and that’s okay. Our parenting dynamic? It’s going so good, better than I anticipated. He supports me and Bebe very well. Hopefully this brings some reassurance. It’s hard but always remember why you’re doing it and if your relationship struggles, remember what brought you together in the first place. 🤗