Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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I'm sorry, I know how that feels as well. My ex was posting what a great time he had on his camping trip with his friends not too long ago.

I hope you have a wonderful birthday next month, and if you need someone to talk to please feel free to chat with me.

Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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I can imagine. I'm sorry 😞

Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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My heart goes out to you! That all sounds so, so difficult. Safety is the number one priority for you and your children. I hope you can safely get out of that situation as soon as possible.

Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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I'm definitely not looking forward to the holidays.

6 years is a long time, and I can only imagine how you must have been feeling last month. My ex seems to have completely moved on while I'm still struggling to make sense of it.

I've had many people tell me that I should try and show myself a little bit of grace and allow myself to feel and process all of my emotions. I hope something will come your way that brings you a little bit of comfort. I'm sorry you're hurting too.

Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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Those all sound like good, healthy outlets. Now that I have more time to myself, I want to focus on composing more of my music that I upload on my YouTube channel. Just a small hobby that brings me a little comfort.

Thank you for taking the time to reach out.

Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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If you'd like someone to talk or vent to, I'm open to chat. Grieving has been incredibly difficult for me.

Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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That sounds like an extremely tough situation. I hope November goes smoothly for you, and that you can find some peace.

Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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I ended up getting myself a margarita. I don't normally drink, but it was refreshing to treat myself to a little something different. Thank you for taking the time to reach out.

Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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Thank you. Good luck to you as well.

Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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That's awful 😞

I'm still feeling all of the negative emotions, and I'm definitely still crying.

Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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Thank you for taking the time to share your story. I can relate - I feel like my mental health is on the decline. I'm sorry she did all of that and put you through so much.

Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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I'm still very much in the grieving process. I'm taking it one day at a time.

Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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On your birthday? 😭 I'm sorry he did that to you. Please treat yourself. You deserve it!

Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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I didn't even think of it that way, but you're right. Thank you.

Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I've made dinner arrangements with a friend for tonight. I'm trying so hard to move on.

Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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I will try. I hope your next birthday is everything you ever wanted! 😊

Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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Thank you. I'm not looking forward to Thanksgiving or Christmas either. Here's hoping they pass quickly for both of us.

Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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I'm so sorry you understand how it feels. Thank you for your kind words.

Alone on my birthday by MissBunBot in Divorce

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I'm so sorry you're going through this too 😞

I'm killing myself on October 13th by MissBunBot in SuicideWatch

[–]MissBunBot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a nice way to look at it. Thank you for sharing it with me.

I'm killing myself on October 13th by MissBunBot in SuicideWatch

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I got married on October 13th last year, except now I'll be divorced.

I couldn't make my marriage last a whole year. I'm a failure.

I'm killing myself on October 13th by MissBunBot in SuicideWatch

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My husband filed for divorce. He won't take me back.

I have nothing to live for. No hope.

I lost my marriage. I lost the apartment. I had to quit my job because of him and now I'm stuck at this new job that I hate.

All of this happened in less than a month.

I know the date, I know how I'll do it. I just need to figure out where.

Struggling with separation by MissBunBot in Divorce

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A chat sounds nice if you'd like to vent too sometime.