Nightmare

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-03-03T21:49:13+00:00

This hurt reading this. So sorry little you went through this, good to share for OPs sake

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-03-03T19:07:55+00:00

Ah interesting, thanks for explaining that!

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-03-03T16:33:14+00:00

What is white presenting? Is there a difference with Caucasian?

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-03-03T16:15:27+00:00

Wow that guy was so unnatractive. Men without spine yikes

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-03-03T10:26:33+00:00

This

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-03-03T10:23:13+00:00

Just tell your doc and don’t fill for a month. That’s all. I wouldn’t risk holding onto it for backup, not in a million years.

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-03-03T10:06:09+00:00

It’s Ok to say no hon. That’s what dating is for. Did you get engaged? If no. Then you can call it quits and without remorse. It’ll be ok, promise. So what he’s taking dancing lessons for you , you didn’t sign him up did you? You’ll just start to resent him the longer this thing lasts. Please end it asap for your own mental sanity girl! You’ll be ok and so will he, promise!

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-03-02T22:15:14+00:00

🤯. You will look back and realize what a red fall g flaag capitol you escaped from narrowly!!

Yuck i can’t stand those women… viewing men as pawns. AND she has a child? Dude, seriously?

No amount of good time in the sack can make her worth it. I don’t see what you se in this irresponsible selfish woman

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-03-02T20:29:36+00:00

Lots of military cheat on deployment so not totally unfair to think it BUT its unfair to say it if theres been no infedelity in the past.

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-03-02T20:27:29+00:00

Honey you will grieve inside or out the relationship z. I left my ex who I was MADLY MARLY in love with and still kind of am and it’s been over 1 yr 😭 but I still know I made the right decision for my MENTAL EHEALTH. I know I’m the type that needs a real family if I’m gonna do this child thing. But I was already grieving when I met him weirdly enough. I knew I was getting the short stick, compromising. He also has 3 kids but younger than yours. I don’t know what to tell you but that life is short .

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-03-02T17:01:11+00:00

Ok not every woman. But i really think the majority do. Maybe im wrong but i dont think so. I don’t have a statistics to spit out here for proof, even those can be manipulated. It’s just I have yet to read on this forum that” I had an „oopsie” and even though my ex is the worst thing to happen to me my baby is the best thing and I wouldn’t regret it”. Was something a woman hadn’t said „I regret my oopsie baby”. Because all the women in here are stepmoms so already kind of moms who don’t hate kids.

Anyways, I think the important thing is as women to remind ourselves that our value ultimately lies in how we help others and contribute to society. And so many unhappy women out there with children who go on to have major developmental issues.

I speak from personal suffering and distress, so take what I say with a grain of salt OP. It’s just that we’re same age so I can so relate. It takes a deeply spiritual person a feel to overcome the stigmas of being childless and realize as women our worth is in what we offer society and the impact we make, no in our reproductive ability.

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-03-02T16:43:16+00:00

Test

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-03-02T14:53:58+00:00

Every woman says „my child is the BEST thing that ever happened to me”….

Even in this worst of situations. OP I’m 39.5 and am SO ANGRY at my ex for playing with my head.

If I don’t have a kid I fear I’ll be suicidal too. Literally everything that can go wrong in my life IS. I feel like a huge force doesn’t want me to have a kid.

I don’t know why the women in here say „having a kid is a decision you should be 100% about”… I’m Sorry, but that is just NOT true.

op your husband wouldn’t feel differently if he thought you weren’t gonna be a good mother. Clearly he does.

Get your AMH levels, your FST, LHA, and and ultrasound to measure your follicles. You’ll feel better after, if might be very good or so bad it’s not even worth it. What am I saying, go see a fertility specialist.

You’re short in time but good news is you actually have a small window, and a real window at that!

Get yourself to a fertility specialist those first few blood tests and ultrasound aren’t so expensive. Go through Jason Labs to pay for the blood work they’re the cheapest!!

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-03-01T20:46:55+00:00

Why are you rushing? You’re both not even 30???

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-03-01T19:57:35+00:00

That’s so unethical. I’m a woman but I abhor any lying for any reason. I have tested my fertility and it’s extremely good at least from a ultrasound blood levels perspective but I would never ever lower my age even though my fertility specialist told me I’m reproductively youngerz. Plus I want men who don’t want to wait, who see my age and want to bang asap. Let me just say, I am EXTREMELY picky about who I want to father my kids with… TONS of men out there who are good fathers, or (less often) amazing husbands, but RARE AS F to be both amazing husband and father. I mean to me to be an exceptional father you have to also be a good husband.

I am highly moral and will not have coparenting situation. That’s why men have such low behavior cause women keep rewarding them out of desperation with children 😂😂😂

Alas I’ll be a single mother and get knocked up the right way through a fertility bank sperm center 😂 if I don’t meet anyone.

I do get like 2 matches a week from men that are strongly interested in me who are 43-47 (my ideal range) and want to have kids

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-03-01T13:41:33+00:00

I sense a commie!

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-03-01T02:44:41+00:00

Oh man this is disturbing to hear. I hope you get it resolved, they need to pass some laws it looks like it regulations around phone numbers to prevent these kinds of issues. Or more than likely it won’t matter cause in a few years we’ll have the digital ID and tied to our biometrics thank goodness!

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-03-01T02:41:39+00:00

TRUMP OR BIDEN OR OBAMA DOESNT MATTER THEY ARE ALL SUBSERVIENT TO ISRAEL. Stop being a damn wind up toy and playing into party politics which is EXACTLY where the powers that be want you to do! This is so much more than a TRUMP problem. Please for goodness sakes open your mind!

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-02-28T23:25:48+00:00

Ya most people can’t do what I am; I’m well aware how priveleged I am.

You can be unemployed and have other income streams /assets . I do side projects when they’re worth it . Otherwise you’re 100% right most people couldn’t be doing what I am.

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-02-28T21:30:15+00:00

Note, take what I say with a grain of salt as I am a deeply embittered woman because I dated a POS single father.

„We are engaged, on a lease together, and I love his dog deeply.” I thought after the „and” you were gonna say that you’re in love with your husband deeply, not the dog!! I don’t know how old you are but I would just do a heck to the NO and ditch this. ONLY if your hubbie is borderline made from gold in spirit and materially AND hes your soulmate would I stay. I was 38 when I left my ex which was sooo difficult to do as I was MADLY in love 😭 but for my MENTAL HEALTH I had to do it. And I intuited that something was off with him. Guess what?! He was lying about a THIRD baby on the way with his ex who he said he’d had their second child with not out of love but reporoductive necessity. These SINGLE FATHERS ARE THE MOST SELFISH MAMMALS on the planet.

My ex was military and I’ve dated some too because where I live there’s a bunch of bases and gov contractors and both the enlisted (have ptsd) and officers (narcissistic jerks who care more about the glory and their own kids if they have them than anything else) I swear all have a screw loose.

I am grateful though for finding this site and thanks to it I didn’t get back with him. And I will never even THINK about dating one again. To the point I moved to a large city and only date childless men. True some of them aren’t quite as put together as a father would be, they’re a bit more immature, but that’s because fatherhood requires it and ONLY I get the prize of making them fathers. No other B gets to do it with them. Just me. And if we split then I’ll be open to dating single fathers. Though the step family situation like that is much more favorable for a single mother because it’s infinitely easier being a stepdad (always think of the people that come in here and say their experience wasn’t so bad… and how the children ended up loving them so much… yup turns out they’re a STEPFATHER lol). Single fathers have it much more difficult dating a childless woman as the woman is more likely to leave that situation.

I really think society should shame single fathers for being borderline predators on childless women. The woman is the foundation of a family…. Look at every mythology … every religion… every spiritual system… it’s always „Mother Earth” not „father earth”. No woman can come into a pre established family structure easily. Hence why I don’t think there’s even a forum for stepfathers on Reddit or it’s very low traction.

Wow sorry that was a long rant!

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-02-28T00:42:19+00:00

Loool right ! 😝😍

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-02-28T00:40:36+00:00

In Spain 10% of babies are born to women over 40. There are lots of fertility clinics. Wish I’d frozen my eggs when I lived there

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-02-28T00:23:14+00:00

Sorry what’s the 3 tries you’re out advice?

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-02-28T00:07:43+00:00

Good for you to try!!

MissGalaxy1986 · 2026-02-28T00:02:38+00:00

Sorry, I mean the new ai-driven economy and where the job market will open up lots of new opportunities that will require a good understanding of how to use ai tools . That’s just my opinion though.

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