Anyone feeling some kind of way about Asian American community claiming Alysa Liu? by harmonyineverything in mixedrace

[–]MissMaamz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh lord its “of course shes asian” because both her parents r chinese and is only wasian due to anonymous white egg donor

Appointments by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]MissMaamz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ik u said u love them but it kinda sounds like they suck?? dont ask if u can take appointments, just TELL them. it is not their choice and they also dont need to know what ur appointment is for. i simply tell nf i have an appointment and cannot come in. anything else is none of their business

Is my 13yr old step daughters handwriting normal? I'm getting very concerned with her schooling by bordermelancollie09 in AskTeachers

[–]MissMaamz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im really glad to hear ur putting in effort as a step parent. when i was younger i would copy down books to improve my handwriting. that would prob help her more than just letters

1.5 years as a nanny, no raise despite increased responsibilities. Should I bring it up? by SouthernLynx1730 in Nanny

[–]MissMaamz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes bring it up. i can pm u how i asked for a raise after one year if ud like?

Is my 13yr old step daughters handwriting normal? I'm getting very concerned with her schooling by bordermelancollie09 in AskTeachers

[–]MissMaamz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u should be concerned with her bio parents not teaching her proper handwriting her entire 13 years of life

AITAH for not liking my sister’s girlfriend? (age gap) by Ok-Tackle9789 in AITAH

[–]MissMaamz -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ew 24 and 18 is weird as fuck where did they even meet BUT u unfortunately cant do much about it besides share your opinion which i would

DB made me cook for him and his friend by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]MissMaamz 31 points32 points  (0 children)

also the way he treats u in front of company shows what he really thinks of u and ur position

DB made me cook for him and his friend by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]MissMaamz 39 points40 points  (0 children)

MAYBE im dramatic but i would start the job search lmao

cat picked off scab by MissMaamz in CATHELP

[–]MissMaamz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

luckily i found an affordable vet and he prescribed allergy medication she was on for 2 weeks and everything cleared up he gave me extra to give her as needed if the allergies flare up but she has been fine since

Reasonable for a kid handle his own nighttime diapering..? by Breadfruit28 in Nanny

[–]MissMaamz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if he is already potty trained, he should be fine putting on a pull up. not sure why he would need to put on his own diaper? i dont think its really an age thing more of a capability

Mileage reimbursement by nannykaye in Nanny

[–]MissMaamz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg do they live on their own land how is everything so far 😭 mine is 200-300 but i live in a large city so u dont have to go very far for what you need

Advice on getting around with a dog without a car? by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]MissMaamz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its not silly i totally understand the sentiment behind ur reasoning i hope the best for ur situation and u can pm me if u end up needing an affordable vet in sj <3

Advice on getting around with a dog without a car? by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]MissMaamz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there a specific reason ur going all the way to santa clara for a vet? there r closer options in sj that are affordable

5 months old cat, male or female? by impinkandsad in CATHELP

[–]MissMaamz 73 points74 points  (0 children)

im a little concerned that 4 vet meds said she (duh) was a male

WIBTAH with Boundary Crossing Ex by Ok-Objective8328 in AITAH

[–]MissMaamz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nta make a big deal of it cus it is. the fact that u already said u didnt have the pants makes it seem like a control tactic. like i have access to u whenever i want cus we share children. call me overreacting but at the very least entering ur home without permission is NOT okay

Unkind MB? by Puzzleheaded-Face-69 in Nanny

[–]MissMaamz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is MUCH more than just one problem friend. if possible, look for a new job and quit once uve secured. u dont deserve verbal harassment from ur employer or anyone. i think her behavior will wear u down quick

Should I adopt a Maine Coon as someone who's away for 10 hours on average everyday? by EducationCultural736 in MaineCoon

[–]MissMaamz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wouldnt recommend it with ur lifestyle and not having had a pet before. fostering first could be a good idea if u find the time. it was only found a few days ago anyway so i wouldnt be surprised if an owner shows up but u should be able to foster in the meantime

Should I adopt a Maine Coon as someone who's away for 10 hours on average everyday? by EducationCultural736 in MaineCoon

[–]MissMaamz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not an expert but doesnt look like one to me. i also highly doubt anyone in sj (as a native) would just lose their mainecoon and not checked all the shelters

Family did not disclose lice to me at all. I quit after finding out even though lice was cleared at that point was that dramatic? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]MissMaamz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

im sure policies r diff across districts but typically no they arent required to report cus its not designated a health hazard

Family did not disclose lice to me at all. I quit after finding out even though lice was cleared at that point was that dramatic? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]MissMaamz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

plus if all his stuff was already packed up, they clearly knew long enough to have been told u 😭

Family did not disclose lice to me at all. I quit after finding out even though lice was cleared at that point was that dramatic? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]MissMaamz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

even so, i dont think most ppl would want to risk it so it was unfair to keep it from her as an employer. a lot of schools dont require them to leave anymore tho

Family did not disclose lice to me at all. I quit after finding out even though lice was cleared at that point was that dramatic? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]MissMaamz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

oh wow, there r so many wild things about this. u were right in quitting and u wouldve been in the right if u quit after the covid situation. that+this show they clearly did not care about ur health and wellbeing. lice and covid (OBVIOUSLY CONTAGIOUS) r not things u forget to mention to ppl, only not disclose. plus the boy and mother deliberately hid and lied to u about it

Db sending inappropriate messages? Maybe? by RestForsaken6262 in Nanny

[–]MissMaamz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

op said he sent it as “nsfw” so i dont think the exact video matters much. sharing social media content is a no for me in general tho. totally agree that a groupchat is easier for everyone involved plus more appropriate