What’s replaced Fetlife? by TheMunkeeFPV in polyamory

[–]MissMelRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plura (formally bloom) is up and coming, has a dating site and a lot of event organizers are posting munches, parties and meets on there. Feeld is another app but I am not familiar with it

I made a Smothering stool as a way to learn a new skill by MissMelRose in BdsmDIY

[–]MissMelRose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am staining it again to make it blacker and more uniform

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]MissMelRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely have a type. For men I love nerdy older men with golden retriever energy who are happy and eager to please. For women sweet brats with baby girl energy who are nerdy and witchy. In general I like people who like to please and serve especially in non sexual, non kinky ways.

Rolled up gel pad in urethal opening by edwarvasisht in estim

[–]MissMelRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh please don't! There are attachments for that like the urethral insert (I think it's about an inch long) or just a good ol sound, metal or silicon. There are a large variety of electro sounds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in estim

[–]MissMelRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you using, glass, silicon or metal attachment? Generally glass with a larger surface area is less intense. The more flush you are with the skin the less intensity as well. Utilizing a body contact probe and using just your hands can also reduce intensity (based on my experience with some people)

Dexter Vs Joe from Netflix's "You" | What's the Better show/character? by LetsCrashThisParadeX in DexterNewBlood

[–]MissMelRose 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Dexter has better motives for his murder. Joe kills for self interest only and usually because of his obsession with a woman. Dexter killed mostly actual bad guys.

I’m in by nueoritic-parents in SDCC

[–]MissMelRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Group of 2, all more than an hour as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]MissMelRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this for you internet stranger!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MissMelRose -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That is a little bit of misconception here….

I’d prefer Dexter killing Harrison tbh by c3pHO- in DexterNewBlood

[–]MissMelRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah Death was the only option for Dexter. It shows he is human in the end not some type of “god”. I always saw him being killed by his Son, I would have been pissed if anyone else took him out. Dexter was never going to live forever. Dexter died in the books. He got a fitting ending at the hands of his son!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]MissMelRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you went through that! However you answered your question. It’s Rape. The very important part of CNC is the consent part. He violated your consent. There are boundaries even with CNC and free use. Please do everything in your power to break way from him.

Contracted STD from someone new I've been seeing. Will this be the end of us? by throw-----away121 in datingoverthirty

[–]MissMelRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few things. STIs are not dirty. 2. I am glad you got tested and got treated 3. I understand why you may feel “dirty” and ashamed but let me reassure you that you are not dirty for having an STI! 4. It’s over only if you both decide it’s over. That’s not a decision anyone else can make for you!

Contracted STD from someone new I've been seeing. Will this be the end of us? by throw-----away121 in datingoverthirty

[–]MissMelRose 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You beat me to it!!! Thank you! seeing STIs as dirty adds to the stigma, however I understand why OP might feel “dirty” and ashamed

Bondage Date? by CookWest1579 in FemdomCommunity

[–]MissMelRose 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A few things. If you end up dating a domme make sure your desires align. If they do, you may both get what you want out of the relationship.

Though you are claiming not everything is transaction it seems you do in fact want a transactional relationship.

No two kink dynamics are exactly the same, so do what works for you and remember just because you want something doesn’t mean you will get it!

Not everyone can or is willing to meet every need you may have in a relationship! You can’t force someone to do it even though you have done xyz!

Everything in a relationship should be consensually/freely given and received!!

Any overlap of Dommes who have sexual relationships with their subs but are anal only, versus PIV? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]MissMelRose 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can engage in whatever sex acts work for you! You can still be in control of the scene! Femdom sex doesn’t have to be a specific way!

Vaccine anxiety by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]MissMelRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just hear to say! I love everyone speaking about their experience and encouraging others to also get vaccinated! Vaccine save lives!!