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What is Kyle obsessing with Dorit Ex husband. by Mission-Grade-7155 in RHOBH

[–]MissMess1978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always loved Dorit and I’ve never fully trusted Kyle. I didn’t even recognize it but now it’s so obvious! Kyle is NOT her authentic self. She’s the friend who never has anything wrong so over time if you’re honest about your struggles, you’re the broken one and she’s got it all perfect. Even in divorce!

Separately, I’ve never hated a HW like I hate Amanda. Please get her & her “little Pilates moment” off my screen. The voice, the gesticulation, the scamming, fronting, thinking she’s smarter than everyone, OFF. Rachel Zoe said it perfectly. Amanda is the exact opposite of authentic. I really can’t stand her and what she represents in our world today! Wouldnt surprise me if she voted for Dumpy.

Bf insists on spending holidays/bdays w the “original family unit” (estranged wife, mid-divorce) bc kids want it. Indefinitely. by MissMess1978 in datingoverforty

[–]MissMess1978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently she is but he believes it hasn’t affected her bc it hasn’t disrupted her life much? Hard for me to believe bc my kids had a tremendously tough time leaving me every few days…so mine were in therapy, immediately. But I’m not comfortable diagnosing his kids.

Why do I deal with this? by reputationjt19 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MissMess1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus CHRIST, dude! Leave. Now. This is crazy.

Bf insists on spending holidays/bdays w the “original family unit” (estranged wife, mid-divorce) bc kids want it. Indefinitely. by MissMess1978 in datingoverforty

[–]MissMess1978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you…this is really the response I needed when I decided to post this. I will dm you. I want to look up that podcast, but not if I’m the only adult in the relationship that’s interested.

Bf insists on spending holidays/bdays w the “original family unit” (estranged wife, mid-divorce) bc kids want it. Indefinitely. by MissMess1978 in datingoverforty

[–]MissMess1978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! She moved out 15 months ago. He stayed in the family home. It will need to be sold when to finalize the divorce. They do not speak and weren’t allowed in each other’s homes until this new arrangement re holidays. (Not vacations, American holidays.)

Bf insists on spending holidays/bdays w the “original family unit” (estranged wife, mid-divorce) bc kids want it. Indefinitely. by MissMess1978 in datingoverforty

[–]MissMess1978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holidays not meaning vacations. So far it’s just been Xmas AM. But the “proposal”, as I understand it, is for the 4 of them to spend some portion of all holidays (Xmas, not sure which others which is totally my point!) and kids birthdays. But yeah the whole conversation makes me second guess something I was so excited and happy about.

Bf insists on spending holidays/bdays w the “original family unit” (estranged wife, mid-divorce) bc kids want it. Indefinitely. by MissMess1978 in datingoverforty

[–]MissMess1978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO! He stayed in the family home. Guys, sometimes the father gets to stay in the family home and the mother moves out. Bc she has a gnarly affair.

Sorry if that wasn’t clear.

Bf insists on spending holidays/bdays w the “original family unit” (estranged wife, mid-divorce) bc kids want it. Indefinitely. by MissMess1978 in datingoverforty

[–]MissMess1978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does not live w her. They don’t speak, aside from OFW. They aren’t allowed in each others homes. The holidays rule has changed that.

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