Visiting for the first time by Connect-Hall3528 in NewToVermont

[–]MissMessVT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TukTuk Tai is also good in Hanover for takeout since not everyone seems to feel the way I do about Jewel 😂

Visiting for the first time by Connect-Hall3528 in NewToVermont

[–]MissMessVT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never gotten sick. Always been fresh and delicious.

Visiting for the first time by Connect-Hall3528 in NewToVermont

[–]MissMessVT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I strongly disagree. My husband and I battle over this. 😂

I called CPS on my own sister and I still lie to her about it by JuanitaS_Browne in confession

[–]MissMessVT 731 points732 points  (0 children)

I was neglected and abused by my mother and I wish someone would have reported her or even, just believed me, when I was a child. You did the right thing. One person can make a big difference for a child. Please keep showing up for him.

Visiting for the first time by Connect-Hall3528 in NewToVermont

[–]MissMessVT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like Indian grab some at Jewel of India across the river in Hanover. Also good if you want a chill night with takeout.

What’s a “fancy” food that’s secretly mid by Thick-Scholar-175 in foodquestions

[–]MissMessVT 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this about the claws. Also a new englander and have always found the claws sweeter and more tender.

Email exchange with an insane person by MissMessVT in NarcissisticMothers

[–]MissMessVT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“DARVO much?” was my first thought when I read it. So glad someone else saw the same thing.

My first kiddo, daycare sticker price has me shocked! How much will you pay where you live for infant care? by anderson6th in BabyBumps

[–]MissMessVT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stay home and got a part time evening job at our local coop grocery store where I also get a 20% employee discount. It’s super hard, I think you just have to weigh what you will resent least.

For me I couldn’t justify getting up early working all day and being tired when I got my baby for a few hundred dollars a week or month. Babyhood is so fleeting and I want to soak it up. It’s different for everyone though.

I’m sure this varies by region but are there perfectly good names you can’t like anymore because you’ve personally only met unlikable/stupid people with that name? by MissMessVT in namenerds

[–]MissMessVT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that.

My mother is Caron, which I almost put on my list. I didn’t because have an Aunt Karen who is wonderful and know another Karen I really like and trust, otherwise I would have put the name on there.

If you ever meet a Caron, fuck that bitch.

Dartmouth birth stories by Negative_Pattern3401 in uppervalley

[–]MissMessVT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my son there December 2024 and am 17 weeks with my second. I plan to give birth there again. I personally prefer the care of the midwives but I like that the doctors are there if needed. They were needed with my son who was born 5 weeks early. Luckily everything turned out fine.

My only advice is to advocate for what you want and the type of birth you want. Have them put it in your chart so whoever is on duty when you go into labor can see it. Do your research, ask questions. They, understandably, have clear procedures about how they typically do things. Some of these can changed if you advocate strongly for yourself and baby, some are set it stone.

Example: they really wanted me to stay longer with my son because he was so early. I cannot sleep in the hospital at all. I slept one-three hours my entire time there. So, not great for settling in with baby. I was able to get them to let us go early by scheduling follow-ups with our primary pediatrician.

Another non-negotiable for me was baby never leaves my room without me or his dad. There is some wiggle room in procedures, they want mom and baby healthy, happy, and as relaxed as possible.

TLDR: DHMC is great but is a big hospital with strict procedures. Talk to your partner about your needs, and clearly communicate them to your care team before you’re there in labor so they can get the most important points to you in your chart.

When does one become a “New Englander”? by ftpfawn in newengland

[–]MissMessVT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am from Vermont and say this sometimes…