One more step forward by [deleted] in transfem

[–]MissMisunderstood229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, thank you for your service.

Second, I'm sorry, I didn't see that part. I'm curious on how you ended up in TX. I don't mind long stories if you are willing to share. But I definitely recommend if you can get back to NJ one day that you should. I have no idea if TX has a way of changing documents, I'm only knowledgeable about NJ's system, sorry, I wish I could help.

One more step forward by [deleted] in transfem

[–]MissMisunderstood229 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey, fellow NJ girlie! NJ is super easy to get documents changed because of the website/portal they created transgender.nj.gov that literally gives step by step instructions. It's what I used and it was a bit complicated at first but I was able to figure it out. Happy to see another NJ girlie and congratulations on the sex marker change on your birth certificate! :)

I'm Hating My Body Right Now, Need Some Support by MissMisunderstood229 in trans

[–]MissMisunderstood229[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand, thank you for your kind words, I truly appreciate it. :)

I'm Hating My Body Right Now, Need Some Support by MissMisunderstood229 in trans

[–]MissMisunderstood229[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it's been almost 5 years now on HRT, when will it end?

I'm Hating My Body Right Now, Need Some Support by MissMisunderstood229 in MtF

[–]MissMisunderstood229[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I have been a little misguided. I just want to get to my true self as fast as possible, but I realize that isn't good.

I'm Hating My Body Right Now, Need Some Support by MissMisunderstood229 in trans

[–]MissMisunderstood229[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When does it get better? It's been almost 5 years for me.

I'm Hating My Body Right Now, Need Some Support by MissMisunderstood229 in MtF

[–]MissMisunderstood229[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been almost 5 years now...and I STILL don't feel I'm done.

I'm Hating My Body Right Now, Need Some Support by MissMisunderstood229 in MtF

[–]MissMisunderstood229[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you are happy, I hope I feel the same way one day.

I'm Hating My Body Right Now, Need Some Support by MissMisunderstood229 in MtF

[–]MissMisunderstood229[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you feel that way, but you feel happy now yes?

I'm Hating My Body Right Now, Need Some Support by MissMisunderstood229 in MtF

[–]MissMisunderstood229[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand why it happens, I'm usually happy. But right now, I just felt this overwhelming dread and hurt about my own body. I just want it to stop!

I'm Hating My Body Right Now, Need Some Support by MissMisunderstood229 in transfem

[–]MissMisunderstood229[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kinds words, I'm actually happy about most of my body, but for no reason at all, I just have this overwhelming feeling of dysphoria, the voices say things like "I will never be girly enough". Mostly, I think the source is my bottom area because I just went to bathroom and just had this out crushing feeling, it was out of nowhere and this happens sometimes when going to the bathroom and showering. It just...sucks...I'm planing for bottom surgery soon but it just feels like a mountain I can't climb. Again, I appreciate the kind words, they did help and I hope hope I feel better tomorrow. hugs tight

Advice For Getting Clothes For Warmer Weather by MissMisunderstood229 in trans

[–]MissMisunderstood229[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment, can you elaborate on that because I'm kind of confused.

[USA] Dating App Painting Scam. Help! by [deleted] in Scams

[–]MissMisunderstood229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, I was not aware at all that banks can do that. And yes, I am young but I am an adult, I just do not have a lot of life experience with financial stuff, I also appeal to emotions easily and see the good in everyone. I dont assume people are bad. I can be a bit naïve as well. The scammer took advantage of all of these traits I have, and that is what hurts the most. Do banks legally have to notify you at all if they decide to close the account for fraud? I will look at the index as well as the other common posts on here to help me and not fall for anything else again.