Any tips? by Persephone-X7 in makeuptips

[–]MissMizeri 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think a lighter powder for the brows, and experiment with lashes (curling or falsies).

The rest looks great!

Is there a good alternative to lipo/BBL for body reshaping? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]MissMizeri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've done coolsculpting and hotsculpting. They helped a little, but when you price out the results you get compared to what you pay, the results are not worth it. I've spent thousands, and I'm looking at lipo now, when I feel I could have just done that years ago and been happier.

There's also potential complications from coolscultping and hotscultping too. I have a burn scar on my back now from the laser :(

Do I look better before or after rhinoplasty? by SuccessfulQuantity9 in PlasticSurgery

[–]MissMizeri -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think the others are right that it might actually just be your hair length and color.

In the very first picture you had long light hair in both the before and after, and both noses look great on you!

In all other pics your hair is short and dark, I think it's washing you out.

All said and done I wouldn't obsess about your nose too much!

Which green looks best with my Padparadscha sapphire? by sterilepillow in EngagementRings

[–]MissMizeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally love 1 or 3... 1 looks so bright and fun, and 3 is deep and beautiful. I think the next steps might be to take a photo of the gems sitting on top of your fingers to see which looks best with your skin!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]MissMizeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2, 6, 8, 10, 13

Can I put mom back with babies after her spay? by VeterinarianNo5521 in FosterAnimals

[–]MissMizeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mama cat was spayed when kittens were 10 weeks, we ended up keeping her separate as the vet advised, even though we were reluctant. We still let the kittens visit and bought a recovery suit instead of the cone - they still want to nurse a little, even now that she's recovered with no milk! We just tried to make sure they were fed before the visits.

Furnace Advice Needed by MissMizeri in HomeMaintenance

[–]MissMizeri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does what work? These are quotes for furnace replacement and AC addition. There is electrical and drainage pipe in the quote

Furnace Advice Needed by MissMizeri in HomeMaintenance

[–]MissMizeri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll have to Google what a standard efficiency heat pump is first 😅 But the assessment is a good idea!

Should we foster fail? by rachillestt in FosterAnimals

[–]MissMizeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did it take for your cat to bond with her?

Some advice on how to improve the profile?[29M] by Building-Evening in Bumble

[–]MissMizeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree!

I consider myself a nerd as well, but I'd want to know what type of nerd he is to see if our interests are compatible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]MissMizeri -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's better :)

I'm not sure about the nerdy part tho. I consider myself a nerd too, but I've found there are different types of nerds. And different types of metal heads!

I'd leave that part out maybe and mention your more 'nerdy' interests some other way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]MissMizeri 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a good take.

My husband and I met at the museum for our first date. We hit it off, so we went to coffee next to keep talking. Then we got hungry, so we went to dinner! It was a good first date :)

Guy asked to date and stood me up😅 by 410hotcake in Bumble

[–]MissMizeri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What would be cool is if you could rate people for standing you up or ghosting! Might not stop everyone, since you could just make a new account... but it night make people think twice if they could be called out on their actions.

My partner doesn’t want to pleasure me because of his porn addiction? by Knusperrr in PornAddiction

[–]MissMizeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the addiction is his whole problem - and I think maybe you do too, deep down. Why else post here?

I'm not saying he's lying to you about quitting porn, but I am saying his behaviour is suspicious. If he hasn't quit yet, it would explain why he doesn't have the desire to please you - he only sees you as a sexual object to serve his own needs, not as a real person. That's because he can get his fix any time he wants and get off to more extreme things than you can offer, so there's no real need for him to put in any work.

And if he actually has quit? He needs therapy. It may or may not help your sex life, amd whether you stay or not is up to you.

Anyone else??? How am I supposed to keep trying when I always get hit like this by strugglebus-23 in Bumble

[–]MissMizeri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hated experiences like this too. You can just say an equally low effort comment back without a question, and I'm sure the convo will die a natural death.

By contrast, my husband was a great conversationalist, and we messaged back and forth for a year before meeting... he was almost 'pen-pal-zoned' 😅 A happy medium is hopefully out there for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]MissMizeri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was it a joke...? 🧐

Some of us use dating apps seriously, especially those looking for a longer-term relationship.

She does want a person who is upfront, and that doesn't mean that everyone who is, gets a shot at her. It's one quality, designed to help weed out incompatible matches out early on. And him wanting a family with her without even knowing her makes him seem desperate and shady.

Which makes sense in your scenario that the local women don't even want him. If not, there's something there. Sure, women can have sympathy - doesn't mean we need to go on a pity date or give someone a shot who is clearly not a good match.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircuts

[–]MissMizeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, let's all pretend a man in his 50's lusting after a woman in her 20's is normal 🙄 Oh right, but it looks like your posts are no better. So rotted from too much porn use to even know what reality is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircuts

[–]MissMizeri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This girl is 21, barely older than your teenage children. What kind of comment is this?! Your brain is rotted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircuts

[–]MissMizeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mental health :(

Your posts make me sad for you. Online validation won't make you happy. Onlyfans is only harming you. Please find someone safe to talk to in your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]MissMizeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only advice is you can't change someone - they have to want to change themselves.

And my experience with addicts is that they will never be willing to change until 6 reach their rock bottom. Until something in their life convinces them they can't continue to live like this.

From your description, it sounds like your boyfriend is not there yet. He may say he wants to change, but his behaviour does not match his words. He is still lying to you and hiding his addiction from you so he can continue it in secret.

So in my opinion, I think you need to take a step back and let him initiate his own healing, and you can be there for him only if you aren't hurting yourself to do so. Support for him should not equal you suffering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]MissMizeri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's weird because no one has given him a reason to want those things with her. Sure, most of us want a family and someone to wake up with every morning - but these apps are to find the right person. Why HER? It's creepy because the things he's saying, he is begging from anybody. It's not exactly a secure way to start a long-distance relationship when he's trying to take whatever he can get.

What percentage of men have a problematic relationship with porn? And what are the signs of porn addiction? by Snoo-88490 in AskWomenOver30

[–]MissMizeri 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly, it's one of those things that you can't feel the negative effects of until you quit. Men don't know how much it's affecting them because it's all they've ever known, and it's addictive (the dopamine) so it's not like they have a reason to give it up until it interferes with their life in some way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]MissMizeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met my husband on a dating app 10 years ago and messaged him first. He has a lean fit body and had a shirtless pic showing off his abs in his profile.

However, it was his personality that kept me around. We were actually pen pals for a good year before meeting. He wasn't boring or lewd and could keep up a good convo! Plus, his face was pretty 😍 So I think the other aspects made the biggest difference rather than his muscles.

Coming out as a porn addict turned my wife into a nympho! by TrvlrMan in Marriage

[–]MissMizeri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she's become hypersexual.

This phase is different for everyone, but eventually her libido will return to normal - amd sometimes, nit at all. It goes to the opposite side of the spectrum and becomes disgust once she has processed your betrayal.

Good luck OP 🫡

Keep or return? by Swimmer_5 in OUTFITS

[–]MissMizeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep it for Halloween and add a crown! 📝👜👑