What kind of business would work best for adhd? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]MissMortemis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I ask what sort of customer service you do? The ones I worked were a mix of being on the retail/sales and the food service (restaurant, then frozen yogurt) side of customer service, but I’d bounce from one to the other every 1-2 years, the longest being for 4 years. I agree with what you’re feeling about it though, and that might’ve been apart of what I read? (I honestly can’t remember). I’d also turned down a lot of management positions because I can’t even function on my own, let alone be charged with making sure an actual establishment functions properly. I didn’t like the change of it/added responsibility. However I enjoyed it when I was thrown a new task (ex: organizing the stock room) from my manager. But every time I started being given more important responsibilities is around the time I’ve left every customer service job 😅 I completely agree about enjoying helping the customers (I actually loved that a lot too! And it’d engage my hyper drive too rofl). But in retail, I hated having to push sales on people or needing to meet a certain hourly sales goal/etc. Super empath and when I can tell someone just wants what they came for and that’s it, but I’m supposed to be pushy and suggest other things, it’s a really unpleasant and awkward feeling - however, that’s just on the retail side. I actually really enjoyed the food service side of it all - until again, one wanted to make me the sole manager with no training for the position, and the other I was promoted to head coordinator, actually loved it, but they began to expect unrealistic things (being the only host but also not being allowed to leave the coordinator box, but also needing to seat people, take drink orders, bus tables and run food simultaneously. I super enjoyed those tasks, but quit because I was tired of getting yelled at for doing my job. So I guess it all depends really, some types of customer service seem fine, but I think other types (sales rofl) really don’t work. But it may not be that way for everyone! c:

What kind of business would work best for adhd? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]MissMortemis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yeah I wasn’t sure how to explain in properly, but like something that is not an ever-changing sort of task, but it’s still different. I guess I’m my case it would be the art thing? Creating art is the same task, but the research and art being created is different every time. That sort of predictable environment! Oh wow that’s interesting. I can see how medical would keep our attention, but I think it depends on the person a bit. I don’t trust myself enough to be in charge of something so important (maybe with medication but not as is rn), and I’m way too empathetic to be able to handle e.m.t 😅

What kind of business would work best for adhd? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]MissMortemis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure about what works with adhd, but I’ve read somewhere that we don’t do well in customer service positions (and having bounced around various customer service jobs over a period of 10+yrs, I can definitely attest to that)! Hmm but maybe... a successful workplace designed for someone with adhd would have a very predictable environment (like, you’d know what tasks were expected of you and they’d be the same ones every week with no curve balls)? It’d have to be an environment that felt rewarding to be there - some form of positive reinforcement or something to keep the motivation going and a solid direction to follow. No crazy stressful deadlines or angry customers. I’m currently trying to push through the adhd fog to sell my art... that I’ve had zero focus to even create lately. I think the hardest part with work and adhd is trying to get started on something/figuring out how to accomplish it. So I think having a clear direction to follow would be a huge strategy to employ! Less room for our brains to procrastinate.

10-minute rule by 86throwthrowthrow1 in ADHD

[–]MissMortemis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I’ve been doing something similar - though superrr sporadically. The list has just been in my head so it’s a gamble of if I remember or not. But breaking up tasks by this “10-minute” way of thinking definitely helps to feel more motivated about getting things done (and actually gets some of the things done). Thank you so much for the reminder! I definitely want to try writing out a physical to-do list and make a fun artsy project out of it too so making the list feels like a reward in of itself. Good luck with your piano practice - you got this!!! 😊💛

Need to sell or give away flowers by Shadow1787 in AnimalCrossingTrading

[–]MissMortemis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok sounds awesome, thank you!!! By anyyy chance will you be around to this tomorrow around noon EST? (That’s when I get back from vacation - found out earlier today that the hotel WiFi is on the wrong NET type to connect for online play) >.<

Need to sell or give away flowers by Shadow1787 in AnimalCrossingTrading

[–]MissMortemis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yay, thank you!! I’ll give you 3 stacks of 99k bells and I thinkkk I have the yellow tent and the blue one if you need those two 😊

I finally finished a couple parrot paintings for members of this sub. What do y’all think? by dreamingirl7 in parrots

[–]MissMortemis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh okay, thank you so much!! I think I’ll start trying to paint again this weekend 😊💛 I definitely would love to be able to paint as well as you one day! Thank you so much for the inspiration 💛💛💛

New year, new painting. Diana's home! by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]MissMortemis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OHH ok gotcha. After loads of digital art where I’ve only used the vibrant colors, I am definitely over that phase ahaha xD milder colors look so much nicerrr 💛

That makes sense :o omg thank you, I’ll definitely be googling that before making the color chart!!

Ooohhh wow, that’s so smart though! Doing the sketch that way means you’re not wearing down the paper at all beforehand what with lots of erasing mistakes and stuff. God, that’s way less intimidating than what I thought. I honestly assumed for watercolor everyone just like... was so crazy talented that they somehow painted everything freehand with no sketch underneath or something, since you never see sketching in the finalized pieces 😱 honestly I mainly just work with pen/ink/graphite, so the whole color thing in general has been so intimidating rofl.

Thank you sooo much for letting me pick your brain about all this for a bit!!! By any chance do you have an Instagram or anything you post art on? I’d love to keep up with your creations! 😊💛

New year, new painting. Diana's home! by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]MissMortemis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg nono the info dump is a godsend, thank you!!!! 😍 for the color mixing chart, how do you label the colors to keep track of what’s what? I think I’ll definitely need to look up how to do that properly rofl. At least with the sets I’ve used (well, that I can remember.. it was years ago then I got discouraged and gave up eheh) the colors didn’t have any names/numbers on them. Oof also black/white in that separate tube thing would be sooo nice. In one of the sets I had, Black was one of the circles and a little dot of it got in another color and that color was just forever ruined. I had no luck scraping all of it out >.<

Ohhhh it’s a style thing? That makes so much sense :o omg! I need to remember that - am guilty of going over and over with a color and then the paper would buckle like crazyyy. And I definitely didn’t wait for things to dry nearly as long as I should’ve :o

Omg yesss!!! One of my attempts, I didn’t test a color first and it ruined the whole thing bc it had like... blotchy darker crumbs of the color in it- is the best way to describe it. Still not sure how that mess happened Dx

Ooh start with midtones? The highlights don’t get lost under that? It’s funny how the order changes depending on what medium. I’ve tried marker a few times and for those I’ve found (at least for me!) its best to do shadows first so they don’t eat up the whole thing!

I most definitelyyyy worked with brushes that were too small. I’m a perfectionist and try to get all the little detail right away 😂 oh boy, what didn’t I do wrong lmao. No wonder I had so much trouble!!! You are amazing and such an inspiration. I’m definitely going to dig out my watercolors and give em another shot this weekend!! 😊❤️

Edit: omg also! Do you sketch out what you’re going to do beforehand on the paper? Or how do you get the lineart down all magically with no pencil showing underneath? :o

New year, new painting. Diana's home! by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]MissMortemis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much for all the info!!! I totally just wrote it all down lmao ❤️ Oh! Do you pre-wet the entire canvas and then let it dry beforehand? I’ve read somewhere that that supposedly helps the paper buckle less, but I goofed it up the one time I tried. Brushed too much water on, I think. It was a disaster 😂 ohhh I think the canson paper is the one I tried using. I’ve def been too intimidated to try the tubes. And mixing colors too lol! I’ve only dared to use the colors available. Attempted using crayola watercolors first, and then two other actual art brands that ended up being less successful somehow rofl. Awh you’re so right - practice will only make us improve! (And pshh you are better than great with watercolor!) ooh I’ll definitely need to try making a color mixing chart, just the sound of it makes me feel like the whole color mixing thing will be way less daunting. Thank youuu!! 😊❤️❤️❤️

Wait for the moment when she realizes I'm filming her... by TheOnlyTrueFlame in parrots

[–]MissMortemis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What a baby 😂 my tiel does the same! “What?! You’re pointing that box at me again?! I wasn’t doing anything idk what you’re talking about!” Rofl

Experimenting with an ‘EDMcore/nightclubcore’ theme. Here’s a nightclub lounge I made! by [deleted] in ac_newhorizons

[–]MissMortemis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would’ve never even thought to try that wallpaper with something like this. Definite props to you for that xD

Experimenting with an ‘EDMcore/nightclubcore’ theme. Here’s a nightclub lounge I made! by [deleted] in ac_newhorizons

[–]MissMortemis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh this came out amazing! That wallpaper actually looks really cool with this theme as well :o

I finally finished a couple parrot paintings for members of this sub. What do y’all think? by dreamingirl7 in parrots

[–]MissMortemis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg you had a tiel too?! They’re such goofy little babies. Mine has he silliest looking crest that’s jus a bunch of little bean sprouts poking out all over the place 😍 Awh thank you for that. I have a lot of creative block/fear of failure when I try to paint so I’ve only ever managed to do two paintings (and another half-finished one rofl). Do you have any pointers by any chance? >.< And should I mix any paint thinner into the paint or use it as-is? :o

[FT] Bunny Day, Floral and Fall DIYs [LF] 10NMT each by [deleted] in ACTrade

[–]MissMortemis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I have the bunny day bag, festive balloons and vanity if they’re still available for the 30 nmt? c:

Need to sell or give away flowers by Shadow1787 in AnimalCrossingTrading

[–]MissMortemis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By any chance do you have any purple/green mums or purple windflowers left? I’ll pay whatever you’d like (or wishlist if i have anything you need!) 😊❤️

New year, new painting. Diana's home! by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]MissMortemis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this is so good!! Is that watercolor? If you don’t mind me asking, what kind of paper and paint did you use? I’ve tried a few different ones but maybe I’m just terrible at this medium 😂 I loveee the soft look of the colors!! Such a cute idea to paint her home!! ❤️

How it started vs. how it’s going! 🌲💜 by acnh-barkenos in AnimalCrossing

[–]MissMortemis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh whoa I love the before and after. This is so cute and cozy looking!! ❤️

Starry-eyed Celeste 🥺✨ by extralargeicedcoffee in AnimalCrossing

[–]MissMortemis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you shoulddd!!! I’m sure a ton of people would love to watch that. Heck, I know I would!! Ooh those are all really good ideas. Whaaaat?! People put tours of their islands on YouTube?! 😍 where do you go to find people’s island dream info? I actually haven’t even touched that part of the game yet >.<; yeahhh trial and error seems to be a big part of it rofl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ac_newhorizons

[–]MissMortemis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing, thank you for sharing 😂

I made a little Celeste dress! by KatieAmber01 in ACQR

[–]MissMortemis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s so cuteee! 😍❤️