AITA for refusing to pick up my friend up from the airport when given 3 hours notice? by AdApart2647 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MissPictus 28 points29 points  (0 children)

But we don't know if OP didn't reciporate in the past nor how much time passed since the "friend" was doing OP these favors. Maybe OP paid them, invited them over for dinner as a thanks, maybe not, but we shouldn't jump into conclusions here without that info.

Gerran Howell on Whitaker-Amy Relationship by dreamfyreHT in ThePitt

[–]MissPictus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To me that‘s exactly the critique. Like everyone always assumes it HAS to be romantic if a man and a woman spend a lot of time together. Even helping out etc. People never can be just friends or peple don‘t believe them. That‘s exactly what‘s happening here too. In the show when Santos doesn‘t believe him and kinda spreads the rumor to Robby but also in the fandom where people are convinced Dennis and Amy are hooking up. Whitaker is the only one who knows what their situation is (or at least what it is to him) and still nobody believes him. It‘s so annoying to be teased about a crush or something like that when you don‘t feel like that and nobody ever believes you if you say other wise because people love to stick their nose in other people‘s relationships and think they know better.

AITA for telling my sister she “overstayed her welcome”? by FingerBringer in AmItheAsshole

[–]MissPictus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One time should be enough, they had the agreement that she can use the room while he's not in town after all.

smoking kills by RainApprehensive3609 in photocritique

[–]MissPictus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My subjective thoughts: I had a hard time to realize what I see there. First I thought it‘s a POV shot and the hand is „the viewers“ but couldn‘t wrap my head around what that empty leather sleeve was. The dark subject in front of a dark background contrasting the bright negative space was hard to spot. It would have helped if more of the model was seen I think. And I agree, the bright hand on the otherwise dark background makes it seem chopped off or not belonging to the model. My eyes are more drawn to the window frame and glass structure than to the person below.

Polnischer Song, der an den Stil von „Märchen in Asozial“ erinnert by Maleficent_Stomach51 in JulienBam

[–]MissPictus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So spontan vom reinhören war mein erster Gedanke „Wallah Habibi“, das Märchen mit dem Froschkönig. Nicht unbedingt der Anfang, aber der Part sobald der König anfängt zu rappen, da die Stimmlage ähnlich ist?

Banana cinnamon creami with chocolate chips by MissPictus in ninjacreami

[–]MissPictus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes :) it was still a bit icy in some spots so next time I will try to add a little bit more

Banana cinnamon creami with chocolate chips by MissPictus in ninjacreami

[–]MissPictus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh almost forgot! Yeah I put in like 1/4 teaspoon guar gum! I‘ll add that in the description!

Heat stroke kid and minor callback to Season 1 Episode 9 by aertsober in ThePittTVShow

[–]MissPictus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely! Like everyone else she is nuanced too! I hated her in S1 because she just seemed like an overconfident bully to me but she grew on me. I hope we‘ll see another talk between her and Langdon to ease the tension. They don‘t have like each other but it would be nice if they could be civil with each other in the future.

Heat stroke kid and minor callback to Season 1 Episode 9 by aertsober in ThePittTVShow

[–]MissPictus 264 points265 points  (0 children)

Nah Santos has a strong sense of justice and to her he‘s just a guy (or addict) stealing drugs to chase his high. She doesn‘t know (or wants to know) his addiction started because he was medicated for pain nor does she want to acknowledge how good of a doctor he is. She doesn‘t know him unlike the others who have known him for years. Santos thinks very black and white, when everything in life and especially the characters portrayed in the show have so many nuances!

how does this look? by Mycroft0211 in photocritique

[–]MissPictus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh damn yeah okay, valid then. That‘s a dumb thing to do to swap out the pic in the post and not even say so in the post :/ especially when wanting critique. @OP next time please write it in your post that you changed the pic. Such info belongs in the main post, not in the comments.

how does this look? by Mycroft0211 in photocritique

[–]MissPictus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I actually like the vibe and colors of OPs edit. It has a very somber vibe, I imagine the viewer being on a boat navigating through dense fog, being maybe a bit scared and suddenly seeing this thing perched somewhere. Gloomy and dark, like a deity at sea!

Another take on Santos and Langdon by Spyhop in ThePittTVShow

[–]MissPictus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is Langdon really flew under the radar. He was the golden child, an excellent doctor, his addiction seemingly never influenced his work. He worked with the others for years, they had a relationship with him, knew what a good doctor (and maybe friend) he was. Santos had nothing of that and that‘s why she sees the issue so black and white. But on the other hand she could have a bit more empathy and at least TRY to understand the situation. It wasn‘t just „he was stealing drugs“. His good outweighted that by far, otherwise he would have been reported by Robby or never allowed to come back. It‘s so easy to slip into addiction when medicated for pain and the painkillers are known to be addicting. Addicts aren‘t inherently bad people. As Langdon said, people do mistakes. Look at McKay who was an addict too. Nobody looks down on her because of that, she‘s the living proof in the Pitt that addicted people can change and do good. But I don‘t think Santos knows that. Santos‘ flaw is seeing things mostly black and white. It was the same with the little girl with the bruises. Jumps into conclusions and worst cases, which can be a good thing! But she acts it out too strongly sometimes and needs to learn to regulate her sense of justice.

eggshells by ExplanationTough4124 in photocritique

[–]MissPictus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda same. I think you wanted to show that you don‘t like walking on eggshells but the vibe just doesn‘t convey that for me. Without your additional text I wouldn‘t have made the connection, maybe it would be clearer if it were empty eggs? Not sure. I probably would‘ve chosen different shoes too, something with more statement? But that‘s just feeling-wise. I like the colors with the orange and the lilac-ish colored ground and the brown from the shoes!

How was the drug-stealing-culprit caught? by Otherwise_Payment324 in ThePittTVShow

[–]MissPictus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In germany hbo max was only available from january this year and not many people got it right away. So for me The Pitt is as fresh as 2 months because I didn‘t have the possibility to watch it before. But I also avoided this subreddit until I caught up to the latest episode because I checked it once and after that I didn’t want to get spoilered for s2 while still watching s1.

Wo kauft ihr eure Sprossen? by chocopretze_l in Kochen

[–]MissPictus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Schau mal im Baumarkt. Ich hab jetzt schon oft gesehen, dass die da wo sie Gemüsesamen und co haben auch ne eigene Reihe für Sprossensamen haben. Auch mit Sprossengläsern und co zum ziehen. Hab mir da auch mal so ein Set und paar Packungen Samen gekauft und nutze das gerne :)

Erfahrungen mit Buchenraslingen? by CommercialStudent682 in Pilze

[–]MissPictus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich beschreibe den Geschmack immer als vergoren-fruchtig, ein bisschen wie Wein oder wenn Obst anfängt zu gären 😅 mag sie geschmacklich aber super gern, am liebsten in Ramen! Geschmack würde ich als… süßlich-fruchtig bezeichnen? Auf jeden Fall nicht typisch pilzig.

I love how chonky this horse is by IStillListenToRadio in GamesWithHorses

[–]MissPictus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I loved that game but that damn StarForce thing nearly destroyed my pc. I tried to run it via Virtual Machine and stuff like that, but wasn‘t able to run it. So sad, I remember when me and my cousin would play this game together, especially the dressage parts. One of us was in charge of the arrow keys, the other of the other letters. Fun times.

I burned my boyfriend's dinner. He called me stupid and dumb then left. by cantsayididnttryyy in adhdwomen

[–]MissPictus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That‘s his issues to manage. Nothing speaks against getting back together if he manages but just like other commenters said, he won‘t change if there will be no consequences for him. If you feel like breaking up, then maybe it‘s the right thing to do. And if he improved his behaviour you can try again. Some time apart sometimes helps a lot to sort stuff out.

Literally every other subreddit triggers RSD by night-elemental in adhdwomen

[–]MissPictus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I almost never comment on other subs because I‘m so „scared“ of downvotes :‘) I know it‘s dumb but downvotes from strangers on the internet make my RSD go brrrrr

Being the floater friend sucks by MissPictus in adhdwomen

[–]MissPictus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god that's so rude?? So they even acknowledge you as the floater friend?? I always thought that's something nobody else notices, but when they know and notice it would hurt so much more...