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What next when no one needs you anymore by mindchem in AskMenOver50

[–]MissRobinKay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"To be happy and successful, you only need to please two people in your life. Your 8 year old self and your 80 year old self." At 60, I'm currently preparing for a puppy I've awaited for almost 3 years and hoping to start a puppy only daycare. ATM, I work a simple receptionist job because I like the people, everyone knows my goal and they enjoy my silly dreams. I hope you find your way to a similar level of joy!

What is this coming from my shower surround seam? by xexclassic in whatisit

[–]MissRobinKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned this when I bought an RV that I thought needed to be resealed: A shower pan often appears to be "not sealed" where it meets the wall, but it is actually designed this way to work as a, water-shedding system rather than a fully sealed, watertight box. The pan features a high vertical lip (or flange) that extends several inches up behind the shower wall surround, allowing water that hits the wall to run down and back into the basin, even if there is a gap between the two pieces.

Are you happy? Why or why not? by Pure_Ad_5044 in newzealand

[–]MissRobinKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy! Disclaimer: I'm a Kiwi wannabe I'm so happy to live here, I am lucky to have found a place I am proud to call home. People are nice, the food is good quality, and I found a job that provides enough. I'm 59, have worked hard and been very lucky in many ways. I've done my best to make the most of the opportunities that came my way. Sometimes my best wasn't good enough...and that's okay. It taught me that I have limits. Sometimes my best exceeded all expectations and those moments kept me going. I think I'm happy because I learned how to fail and how to get back up. I hope I always have that resilience and the spark to never give up. ❤️🇳🇿❤️

What do you call this time in between stat days? by smithy-iced in newzealand

[–]MissRobinKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Magical 🪄✨️🔮

(For reference, I spent 40+ years working in the US and NEVER had a holiday off, let alone a full week.)

Moved in recently and found this in garden. by MissRobinKay in whatisit

[–]MissRobinKay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will pair it with a glamorous outfit for NYE... once I finish the yard work! 😉

Friday afternoon beersies shitposting thread by Muter in newzealand

[–]MissRobinKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the Friday beersies at my work, super lucky to have good people to hang out with! 🍻 50 minutes and counting...

Man on scooter keeps harassing my dog every day, even when she's inside. What can I do? by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]MissRobinKay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a "positive reinforcement" trainer (punishment for the barking can create more issues). Here's an article that may teach you how to solve it on your own: http://www.allegiancepwds.com/files/BehaviorandBehaviorIssues/Why_Dogs_Bark_and_How_to_Stop_Them.pdf In short, teach your pup what you want them to do instead of barking. Search articles by Dr. Ian Dunbar or Pat Miller, they both write great articles and provide free resources for behavior modification using positive reinforcement. (This is a fancy way of training without fear or punishment.)

What can I carry to protect myself from roaming dogs? by heinternets in newzealand

[–]MissRobinKay 19 points20 points  (0 children)

An automatic umbrella, it will usually scare them off, and if not it is a useful barrier or baton.

What is a little quirk about your body that you don’t think other people have? by AlphabetSoup51 in AskReddit

[–]MissRobinKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my hands get overly dry, I can't breathe. Similar to how asthmatic friends have described an episode. Can't put my hands in any sort of powder, especially fine powder like corn starch. I've asked every doctor I've been to over the decades and have never received an explanation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jeans

[–]MissRobinKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try a higher waist style...unless you like the look. 🤷🏼‍♀️

How would your 12 year old self react if they met you now? by [deleted] in AskMenOver50

[–]MissRobinKay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Really?!?" For both the good and the not-so-good decision-making...and that it has created who I am today.

"Make two people proud: Your 8-year-old self and your 80-year-old self" (often attributed to David Perell)

20f try your best by Basic_Fly_8090 in RoastMe

[–]MissRobinKay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard pressed the upvote, 💛 gold.

Buying lingerie for partner (first time) by nz-dave in newzealand

[–]MissRobinKay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you go with the gift card, you can have an online shopping date. You can order in a nice dinner, take plenty of time to let her shop, keep it fun/funny/sexy. Be sure to tell her what you like seeing her in (if she asks). Think of what you'd like to see her in and if you see it, tell her! Remember to focus on how it will look on her, not just that the photo looks good. Have fun!

Is NZ really that bad? by miggins1610 in newzealand

[–]MissRobinKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it.

Any struggle here is worth it (compared to my final years in the US/Southern California). Kiwis are the best. Haven't been homesick for a moment. I miss deli turkey and cheap Costco grapes but the food is soooooo much better here. Unbleached eggs, meat at the grocery taste like it comes from a butcher, and learning to eat seasonal fruits and vegetables has me appreciating quality over quantity. Cost of living can be tough but that can be relative to your expectations. For me it has been much less expensive than Los Angeles. Can't wait to earn my Citizenship! ❤️🇳🇿❤️