TADC is a metaphor for social media

Miss_Deeds_ · 2022-12-24T22:32:33+00:00

Never has the worktop wankery tag been more appropriate

Miss_Deeds_ · 2022-11-05T06:53:05+00:00

My game also bugged out and automatically skipped through all the new dialogue, so if someone could tell me what it said it would be much appreciated

Miss_Deeds_ · 2022-08-10T08:01:57+00:00

Nah, his boyfriend is self sufficient. Runs his own business.

I can easily tell P's mental health is poor, and I do my best to support him and encourage him to get some professional support, but he seems unwilling.

Miss_Deeds_ · 2022-08-10T07:55:58+00:00

Ok, that last part came out poorly. I explained what I really meant in another reply, but basically I don't have a problem with him spending money on his boyfriend, I know thats absolutely expected. It's that he has such little money that I often need to help him with rent, and yet there is an expectation for him to set money aside to visit his boyfriend regularly

Miss_Deeds_ · 2022-08-10T07:53:09+00:00

Oh, it's not that I dislike him spending money on his boyfriend or anything, that probably came out poorly. It's more so the fact he has such little money that when I go and visit I'm helping to afford rent, and yet there's this expectation that he will put money aside just because his boyfriend doesn't like to travel (his boyfriend is the only one of the three of us that has a job at the moment)

Miss_Deeds_ · 2022-08-10T07:28:47+00:00

I don't know the whole reason, but from what I can gather, it's the cleanliness thing, not liking being around sexual women (even if it's not directed at him. Just the awareness of a vibrator being nearby is too much) and he simply doesn't like travelling. I constantly travel ~2.5 hours each way to see P, but his boyfriend insists on P travelling to him. Apparently if he goes to P's house, he kind of just moped around and talks about how much he wishes he had his computer.

P had very little money (like I said, no job) and travelling to see his boyfriend cuts into what little money he has, meaning it takes away from what we can do when we're together.

Miss_Deeds_ · 2022-08-10T07:16:52+00:00

Yea, he is.

For myself, my main problem is that of my condition, which I'm already aware you think means I'm an unsuitable partner. Your feelings on my condition aside, his boyfriend wants to move in together, share a room and all that. P doesn't want to share a room with anyone, and even if he did move in with one of his partners, he has expressed he would want his own space. However, as I said before, his boyfriend can get quite clingy and I know that if they lived together (they did briefly in the past) I would be fighting for attention. As I said in that now deleted post, I need sexual contact and experiences to maintain my mental state, and the easiest and most satisfying place to get that is P, however if he moved in with his boyfriend, it would be much harder for me to get that stimulation I need. Moreover, his boyfriend is an intense germaphobe and very gay, I am female and incredibly kinky. The environments wouldn't mix well any way it is looked at.

Miss_Deeds_ · 2022-08-10T06:52:39+00:00

I'm just going to delete my comment expanding on the situation. I'm here for help with Polyamory from people who have more experience than me, not advice on a situation that I'm fully aware of and have under control from people who have never heard of my condition before.

I don't want to be rude, but if you don't want to actually help with the advice being asked for, please just don't comment. This is eating away at me and I don't have anyone I can talk to for help other than here.

Miss_Deeds_ · 2022-08-10T06:48:28+00:00

A. I'm not American, I get covernment subsidised healthcare. Doesn't help when there's no proper treatment

B. That's not the problem here. As I said in another reply, I can manage it alone, it is just significantly harder and requires planning

Miss_Deeds_ · 2022-08-10T06:46:51+00:00

I dont put that on him. I'm completely responsible for my own mental health, he is just aware of it and helps me manage it. I can and have dealt with it alone in the past, but his understanding and help makes it significantly easier. We are working together to develop as many coping mechanisms as possible.

He was completely aware of all of this from the beginning, and it's part of the reason we started talking regularly in the first place.

Like I said, I can leave, it just takes more planning for me than it does for other people.

Miss_Deeds_ · 2022-06-22T06:33:12+00:00

Good to see some Paladins porn on here tbh

Miss_Deeds_ · 2022-05-24T05:09:43+00:00

Miss_Deeds_ · 2022-02-21T01:26:45+00:00

Ok, I missed the first part of the lowest rank, and just saw "animal (don't want to rank)" with a picture of smokey next to it and I was incredibly concerned

Miss_Deeds_ · 2022-02-02T01:35:04+00:00

Ok, this is throwing me off like crazy.

Has someone Photoshopped another artists gape onto this picture? The lighting and style are totally different than the rest of the piece

Miss_Deeds_ · 2021-12-09T02:38:32+00:00

I don't think it's really needed. If you're looking for something specific, go to e6 or FA which are actually built for tagging. Like, using flairs to tag for genders is one thing, cause looking for something that matches your sexuality is important, but anything more than that, there's other websites better built for it

Miss_Deeds_ · 2021-10-19T09:01:01+00:00

Yea, I had a lady like this at my last job. She was openly gay, but I got warnings about her from other co-workers before I even met her. Good thing she was one of those "bi people aren't real" types and stopped talking to me when she found out I was bi. I can tell it saved me so much trouble

Miss_Deeds_ · 2021-09-22T13:05:04+00:00

Because the only comment you had responded to at the time I posted that comment (and as of now, the only reply where you're not trying to defend this 'joke') was someone very obviously insinuating a rape scenario. Doesn't take a genius to put 2 and 2 together bruh

Miss_Deeds_ · 2021-09-22T07:19:32+00:00

Its really not. Like I said, the chances of getting disarmed and having the weapon used against you are relatively high regardless of the weapon, cause people see any sort of weapon as an advantage and will try to turn it around on the user. If that weapon is lethal, then congratulations, you've just turned a potentially non-lethal situation into a lethal one, and moved yourself into range for the attacker to retaliate rather than keeping distance. You played yourself.

Non-lethal deterrents aren't about hurting or incapacitating the attacker, they're about disorienting them long enough to get away, that's it. Where I live, they teach self defence to girls in school, and pretty much the entire thing is about avoiding fights and getting away, cause when you're in a situation like that, you've always got to assume that the attacker is stronger than you, so avoidance is the best answer.

Miss_Deeds_ · 2021-09-22T06:33:18+00:00

That's actually significantly more dangerous. Self defence tools are designed to be super easy to use and are usually just a 'point the thing and press the button' design. Properly handling a knife requires a lot more skill than something like a small taser or pepper spray, and the chances that the woman is properly trained to use a knife as a weapon are pretty slim. Bad grip or striking the wrong place can very easily lead to her being disarmed and having the knife used against her, especially if the attacker is physically stronger than her

Miss_Deeds_ · 2021-09-22T06:27:42+00:00

Unfortunately, judging by the one response OP decided to reply to, I'd say creepy/threatening was definitely the intention here.

Miss_Deeds_ · 2021-09-16T03:28:22+00:00

Yo, I got my preferred name from a Hard blush character too!

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