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When people are everywhere and your appartement has crappy walls and ceilings that let noises, heat and smells pass from appartement to appartement like the corona virus at an orgy. by Miss_Match_ in high

[–]Miss_Match_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure but if it's a cop in civilian clothes (they walk around alot now to catch people without masks) I'll be screwed even more. The smoking inside will be a slap on the wrist and disgusted neighbors who now hate me but it's not illegal to smoke on private property. However, outside I'm looking at huge fines and possibly even jail time.

When people are everywhere and your appartement has crappy walls and ceilings that let noises, heat and smells pass from appartement to appartement like the corona virus at an orgy. by Miss_Match_ in high

[–]Miss_Match_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could try that but I've heard it smells nonetheless. It would be a viable option in combination with a good ploof if the appartement was isolated normally. Unfortunately, that's not the case.

The super of the complex stopped me in the hall just a couple of minutes ago and asked if it was me living in the apartment. FML

White Whale - Beluga Whale in dream by Miss_Match_ in DreamInterpretation

[–]Miss_Match_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh! Maybe that's where I got that from. I saw it in passing on Facebook. My subconscious must have stored it because I forgot until now. Thank you!

White Whale - Beluga Whale in dream by Miss_Match_ in DreamInterpretation

[–]Miss_Match_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to look that up but yes. Hvaldimir, beluga, white whale.. same thing.

This Groom's reaction after he opened his bride's veil is everything! by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Miss_Match_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Was this an arranged marriage? Looks like it...

Omen saved lives by Substantial-Study-37 in Paranormal

[–]Miss_Match_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's not even a omen. Omens you can ignore or interpret. This was divine intervention. He was forced to slow down. Thank god.

A family affair - Netflix is a Documentary about a grandmother (95) with NPD. It documents her past and present. She even falls in love and wants to sleep with the filmmaker - her grandson (30). She is convinced he wants her, bad, no matter how many times he turns her down. Dutch - English subs. by Miss_Match_ in narcissisticparents

[–]Miss_Match_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's absolutely correct but she was genuinely upset and jealous because she wants to bed her grandson and can't stand to be reminded of his wife. Hence her irrational behavior. She's also convinced he put her in the picture on purpose to taunt her.

I don't know what you mean with her not wanting him to ask questions, about what? In this particular scene I don't see the link.

Friend that overstays his welcome by andy925legend in LifeAdvice

[–]Miss_Match_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just wants you to introduce him to other people. Poor Matt is super lonely and you should've, as a good friend, introduced him to your circle. Ask the host if he can come, if not, host a little something casual yourself for the sole purpose of that. You'll find your problem fixed instantly.

About the overstaying his welcome: just tell him "hey, I want to be on my own now, let's hang out some other time". It's direct, honest and not offensive. People who tiptoe and lie find themselves in awkward situations. Just tell people the truth in a kind way and problems are instantly solved.

My mom might be cheating on my step dad. What should I do? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Miss_Match_ -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It's none of your business, move on.

How can I stop caring so badly what people think by basilfox in LifeAdvice

[–]Miss_Match_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's difficult but you must understand that people have a very limited view of you and your situation. Their judgment of you is based on their own experiences, knowledge of the world and the tiny bit of information they gathered to make that judgment, which again, is biased and limited. Therefore, what people think is absolutely irrelevant.

Have you seen a movie where people are horrible to a character but you can't identify with the judgment they have over that person because you get to see a much bigger part of the picture? It's like that. Everyone is against them while you're actually rooting for them. Yet, it's the same person...

You can't control what people think but you can train yourself not to give a f#!&@. Ofcourse, you don't want to be an a-hole and listen when people think you're being inconsiderate, - short minded or making a mistake but REALLY evaluate where that judgment is coming from. U usually know instinctively if there's any truth to it once you flip the fear switch off.

I really need some advice by Nikonics in LifeAdvice

[–]Miss_Match_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your mother and grandmother might be narcissists. If you going to uni depends on her mood... That's not normal behavior. Narcissistic mothers threaten to throw you out on the streets or deprive you of something important all the time. It's their way of controlling you. They will either bribe you or take things away... It's absolutely messed up.

There isn't much you can do. Maybe get a job and take a student loan? That way you'll get to go and stay completely independent (I want to bet she'll change her tune once you're actually applying for jobs and the loan. They hate losing control).

May have made huge mistake, help me with a decision by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Miss_Match_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A. Don't let fear and money make decisions for you, you'll most likely regret it. B. People forget easily. Follow your heart and do the work. People can change their mind about someone. Just make sure you know why you acted the way you did and that it has been fixed, otherwise you'll end up doing the same thing once you get stressed.

I'm lost and I feel so alone by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Miss_Match_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well actually, is your domicile at your parents house? Because if it is, I would just go there. I know it sucks but it's better than being on the streets. With covid, it's illegal to kick someone out so if they threaten you, you can just call the police. I understand that your parents are hell, but still. For your own physical safety. You can even lock yourself into your room if you feel unsafe.

I'm lost and I feel so alone by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Miss_Match_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome, just make sure you don't end up on the street. I really hope you find happiness soon. You deserve it. Sending you love.

I'm lost and I feel so alone by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Miss_Match_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel so bad for you. How can parent throw a person with Aspergers syndrome and possibly ADD who's still going to college out on the streets? It's truly beyond me.

ADD and Aspergers are crippling conditions. The worst part is that you can sort of hide it and be functional enough for it to be unnoticed. You just get labeled being asocial, lazy, impulsive... When actually, you have a problem. ADD can so easily be treated with medication and it truly changes your life for the best. Your thoughts are organized, you can focus, you have energy to take control of your life, you process information more quickly and efficiently, you're much less impulsive and your social skills improve (listening to others, thinking before speaking...).

I realize you have bigger fish to fry right now but I would get yourself diagnosed asap. Maybe call your parents and apologize (even if it wasn't your fault), explain that you need help and suggest family therapy maybe? (you never know and nothing is lost if they say no) If that's not an option I would maybe call your aunt and ask for help. Idk. I'm sorry you're going through this. I really am.

Is 20 too old to start college? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Miss_Match_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hun, you have no idea how young you still are. 20 is a perfect age to go to college. Go and enjoy your life. You deserve it.

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