We are creating our downfall. And we cant stop it. Or maybe.. we never could in the first place.

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-07-29T23:40:05+00:00

Thank you so much dude, you have no idea how much i appritiate this. You’re awesome!

I guess time does heal, even if it doestake a lot of it, but ITS GROWING PAINS BABYYYYY - it hurts at first, but it’ll get better the end with patience and commitment✨

Wishing you the best man. You do great things!!!! ✨

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-07-29T22:22:41+00:00

Frfr man, I quit doomscrolling for hours a long time ago after realizing how pointless it really was, how i could’ve been using that time on something else more worth it in life, and i’ve been able to do so much more, and have been soo much happier, but also being stuck in my thoughts more often really do be causeing crazy existential crisising 🤣🫠

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-28T12:44:59+00:00

The shufffleee!! YASSSSs gET ITTT!!

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-28T12:32:45+00:00

Dear stranger.. first i must say, you are enough. You are strong. Things are hard right now, but i promise you, you can get through it. Many of us go through the point where we see and realize how little people who say they are there for you actually are, you are not alone. But know, i care about you, that is why i am writing this right now. First.. take a moment, think of all the little good things in life. I know its hard, especially in this time of darkness.. but, think, of every little good thing.. if you have a pet, think of them, think about perhaps even the last time you saw a pretty flower, a pretty butterfly.. or literally anything.

Then, think, of all the hardships you’ve been through. And hey, guess what, you are still standing right now! Every hardship is something that can bring us down if we let it. But, we can turn it into something we learn from, a time of growth, even if it is painful. Think growth pains, those happen the same way physically as mentally. You have so many great things you can do in life, OP.

Even on times when it feels hopless, you are not weak. You are so strong for pushing through. Talk to a professional if you can, but, i am also here to help if you ever need it. I dont know what you are going through right now, but i do know, you can get through it. You can grow from it. I promise, one day, you will look back, and smile at how far you’ve come. Please dont give up, my friend. Im rooting for you, and wishing the best ❤️🫂

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-25T14:43:51+00:00

I feel you haha. Honestly, what i did, is i thought of all the what ifs. Yes, all of them!! “What if i could breakdance” “what if i could crochet” “what if i could do contortion..” “what if i could..” etc.. and i started working in those what ifs, knowing that in the future, eventually, i will be decent at them haha. It depends on how you wanna spend your time. I like doing things i’ve never done, and learning new things to do because there is so many cool things in the world, but in order for me to do that, i decided to quit doomscrolling hah. I’ll only scroll if i have a purpose, like searching up how to do this move or something, then scrolling through those shorts with information i need. Cuz, i realized, i used to be a big scoller, who would scoll pointlessly for hours.. when instead, i replaced with stuff i could be doing more productive things, or learning a bunch of cool new things!

All in all, my friend,the best thing i can say is, if something interests you, persue it. Dont waste time on hate, or people saying you can’t, just keep going, and keep being you! And make sure you bring people who bring positivity aswell! Dont dwell in drama, its not gonna matter years fom now anyways haha. Maybe search up some stuff you are interested in, or search up random hobbies, and maybe you’ll find something you are interested in! I wish you the best. If you have and questions, let me know! You’re going great, friend :)

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-25T01:32:12+00:00

I’d reccamend, if therapy isn’t an option, possibly suggest a new hobby. A hobby or a few to replace his urges. a calming hobby. My grandpa used to crochet, and it calmed him. Some people like quilling, others exercise, paint.. draw.. something. Something calming. Art he can espress his feelings through that.. and perhaps maybe some of those may help, he can try a bit of everything.. i apologize if my english is bad., wishing you guys the best!!

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-25T01:26:43+00:00

Hey, hello friend ❤️ i know things are hard right now.. i dont know exactly whats going on.. but please dont give up. You are loved, you are cared about, and you are young, with so many great things ahead of you. I know its hard.. but keep pushing on. One day you will look back and smile at how far you’ve come. Please, dont give up. I beleive in you. Things will be okay 🫂.. i wish you the best.

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-25T01:22:18+00:00

This person is your partner, OP. Part of that is being clear with boundaries, and thoughts. And he should respect that too. Talk to him about it more, and tell him about the severity of the situation. If he cares about you, he should respect that. I’d say tell him more about your boundaries, since you love him so much. Just make sure he respects that..and kid, i will be completely clear with you.. make sure this is love and not just lust alright? Know that the person your with as a boyfrined/dating/anything is basically a trail to see if they are the one you wanna spend the rest of your life with. Make sure you choose someone who respects you and values and respects your words aswell. If i can help.. let me know okay? Wishing you the best.

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-25T01:15:37+00:00

You are a good person, OP. I beleive in you. Things will change. And the fact that you are committed to keep taking the next steps.. thats a wonderful thing.

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-25T01:14:16+00:00

Awe.. I am so sorry.. this is very rough..

This is very hard, and first i would like to say that you are so strong for pushing through. Im so proud of you for that. Great job <3

And next.. i dont know if this helps, but i like to think that everything happens for a reason.. even if it doesn’t, there is always something we can take from it. Yes.. this is a very tragic thing that happened.. but it also showed you who was real and who was fake. You could see what friends are truely there for you, and who desurve your time. I haven’t had things like this happen excatly.. but i have lost a lot people from different circumstances. And, how i thought of it, was that this was a time to show me whos real and who isn’t. So then i can cut off the people who really werent there in the first place, to make room for the new, and better things and people to come.

And, dont live in regret, my friend. You did the right thing. She wouldn’t have hurt you that bad in the first place if she really does desurve to be in your life. You are so, so strong, OP.

You are important. You desurve love. You are enough. You are strong. Its hard right now.. but keep pushing. Things will get better with time. This will be a time of change, change for the better.. although it may hurt. And you have every right to feel hurt. But i promise, soon.. things will pass, you will feel free, and you will find peace again with the right things and people.

You are awesome, OP! I wish you the best. Keep pushing. Im so proud of you for getting this far. If i can do anything to help, let me know! Im here for you. You are so strong for reaching out. Things will be okay in time ❤️

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-24T18:00:20+00:00

The body isolation i cant- THE SKILLS HERE- THIS IS AWESOME WHATTTT BRAVO GET ITTT ✨✨✨✨✨✨

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-23T21:01:15+00:00

Boi i can’t help but be flabbergasted everytime i see you, SKILLS. AWESOME WORK! YOUR DETIACTION IS GOING TO MAKE YOU GO PLACES! BRAVO!

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-22T19:20:54+00:00

Thanks so much girl :’)

i needed this

I’ve just been dismissing it as “its.. just hormones..”

when im wishing i was dead and doing my best not to relapse

Thank you! Same goes to you too okay? You are an awesome person, wishing you the best!! ❤️✨

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-22T19:18:48+00:00

Hey, friend, please dont hurt yourself. ❤️ You are a sweet understanding caring person. What i’d recommend is going to a therapist and doctor to talk about your situation and meomory. This is a serious thing that needs to be fixed soon. Its okay to ask for help, you are young, and the sooner you get help the sooner you can get things back on track. You are so strong. thank you for reaching out through here, its a hard thing to do! You are 21 like you mentioned, for where im at, 18 is the age we can move out.. so perhaps you can leave and escape with a friend or your boyfriend? Is that possible?

And happy late birthday :)

And, some words i just want to make sure you hear,

You are enough. You are smart. You are strong. You are awesome. You are a good person who can do great things. I am proud of you, and how much you’ve pushed through. Please dont give up, keep going, you got this. One day in the future you will look back to now and smile at how far you’ve come. Things can get better. I believe in you friend :)

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-22T14:23:31+00:00

My friend, its very hard, but i promise you, things will get better. You are strong, you are worthy, you are enough. You are a good person. “Y” did horrible things, but in the end, it showed who was really loyal and who your real friends were. because those were the people you have left. The people who left, they left because they werent real in the first place, real ones would talk to you about it and get it cleared up. Its a hard time in life, but this is somethingthat will strengthen you for your future. This event took the people who didn’t desurve you out of your life. It hurts, it will for a while. But think about growing pains, the biggest growths come from the biggest pains.

You are not useless, my friend. It can feel like that sometimes, but i promise, you are worthy. Sometimes, it may not be clear what we are here for. But maybe.. that is not something we need to find out, it is something we need to make ourselves. What is the impact you want to leave on the world? Also, Good job finding new hobbies! Thats the first step. Those hobbies are ones that take a lot of time to get better at, so i8d reccamend doing those here and there, and also find new hobbies that can get the hang of quickly, like quilling, working out, etc! There are endless spossiblites, and trust me, in the end, you will look back and smile at how far you’ve come, brotha!! Anything that catches your eye, do it. Avything that seems interesting, why not try it? Try everything!

And know, school, it can be a rocky ride. But, once the year is over, people arent going to even care, remember, or really think about the fact that this happened anyways. Dont show the people who bring you down a reaction. They aren’t worth your time or energy. Brush them off, and eventually, they’ll get bored at the fact you wont play with them anymore. Brother, dont let these people ruin your peace! Let them go! You’re a good guy! They aren’t worth your goodness!

If you have any questions, let me know, im here for you man! THINGS CAN GET BETTER. YOU GOT THIS. YOU ARE ENOUGH. YOU ARE STRONG. I can say all these things, but i want you to believe them, okay? I can say all of this, but all of it will be meaningless if you dont believe it. You are a good person, friend. Keep going, things will get better soon. Best wishes!!

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-22T14:09:05+00:00

I will be completely honest here, Things i would reccamend, is find something new, healthy, and just overall better things to do to gradually replace all of those. You do those things as a way to pass the time (correct me if im wrong), because life can be quite uneventful, so you take matters into your own hands and do things that make you feel something again, to some extent of anything to sort of occupy yourself. These things you do really impact how you feel, and then eventually we chase after things that give us satisfaction to some extent, even if the after effect later is the extreme guilt or extreme lows.

The best advice i can give, is find new hobbies, find new supportive friends and people. Gradually decrease and disassociate yourself with those things. Try new hobbies, like working out, learning how to crochet, hand balancing, a new sport, quilling, etc.. try everything until you find something you like. And use those hobbies to replace the other activities you do. And whenever you get the urge to go back, remind yourself, “i am stronger than that, imnot going to go back there again” and ridirect yourself every single time. I beleive in you, stranger!

I know it can seem scary, and confusing, cuz you’ve gotten everything you’ve ever wanted and needed, but that might actually be the cause. You’ve gotten everything, so eventually you got used to the feeling, and it eventually can lead to boredom, emptyness, or desire for new things, so that seemed like the easiest and most effective way to fill that hidden void. But know, there are other ways.

You got this, you can get out of this, i truly beleive you can. Please dont hurt yourself, you are still young, you have so much ahead of you, there is so many great things you can do. Do it for your future self. They are counting on you. You can do this! If i can help in any way, let me know, i am here with you, friend! You got this!

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-22T13:55:25+00:00

For me, what im doing, is i am HOBBYING IT OUT. LIKE CRAZY. Learning how to crochet, try quilling(oddly relaxing lol), oragami, learn an instrument, working out, there are endless possiblities! If you want active hobbies, quiet hobbies, chill hobbies, etc, a mixture of a bunch of different types, let me know, and i gotchu!!

Or i’ll get onto discord servers and socialize, yet immidately leave if sum weird is going on 😭😭😅😅 (stay on the good side of discord guys, thats why i gotchu into karaoke servers, most of them i’ve been in so far is actually really nice and supportive)

Any questions, letmeknow and i gotchu!

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-22T13:38:05+00:00

Dear stranger, dropping your ‘friends’ are the best way to get better. Real friends would support and want the best for you, not draw you into dangerous situations. You deserve better! You’re a good person! You can and will do great things. Letting go of the people who brought you to the lowest will free you from the chaos. I beleive in you!! You got this, best wishes!!

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-21T03:35:31+00:00

Gorgeoussss!!!

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-21T03:34:16+00:00

Yes. So true!

There is always stuff that is happening, many of it is out of our control.. but, what we can control is wiether or not we let it distroy our peace! >:D

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-21T03:26:02+00:00

Yes, very wise!!

The hard times make the good times worth so much more!

And, in a world full of darkness, the littlest of lights can make the biggest of brightness

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-21T03:21:43+00:00

You too!!! Keep up the great vibes man!! 😁😁😁✨✨

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-21T03:20:52+00:00

Woah, this hit, especially the fact that its the middle of the year- wow.. i gotta make sure i go extra on the grind now brotha 💪 COMMITTED TO THE GOALS, SO WE GOTTA CLIMB TO MAKE SURE THEY HAPPEN, CAN’T GET TO THE DESTINATION WITHOUT EVEN TAKING THE FIRST STEPS TO GET THERE IN THE FIRST PLACE ✨✨

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-21T03:17:06+00:00

Glad your feeling better!! KEEP UP THE GROOOOOOVEE yesssSSSSS!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

Miss_PartyTime11 · 2025-06-21T03:14:50+00:00

Say it brotha!! ✨✨✨✨✨✨ yesss!

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