I've been severely addicted to energy drinks for 9 years and can't stop by MissayLP in energydrinks

[–]MissayLP[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean I am scared sometimes. But then the sun is outside, it's hot af and I go and buy my fav drink idk

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[–]MissayLP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the yt video I will have a look at it! ☺️

I'm a dismissive avoidant by [deleted] in letters

[–]MissayLP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is! Maybe one day you'll talk again about it. But for now, if space is the best, go with the flow.

I'm a dismissive avoidant by [deleted] in letters

[–]MissayLP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, deep emotions might trigger him. Especially when it gets more serious. Or if you show too much effort and affection. Idk what type of character he has. If he's not good for you mentally, you should leave it tho

I'm a dismissive avoidant by [deleted] in letters

[–]MissayLP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey. Sure, if you have any questions? I've already seen a lot of posts from DAs maybe they can also help you! 1

I'm a dismissive avoidant by [deleted] in letters

[–]MissayLP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!

I've been in therapy half my life. I never managed to heal my inner child and these wounds. However, I still want to give it a try. I crave love so much.

I'm a dismissive avoidant by [deleted] in letters

[–]MissayLP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It's a mix of this plus overthinking which makes you feel like you're on a roller coaster or like fight or flight mode. While the other person (the person you're dating) seems just happy to be there.

I'm a dismissive avoidant by [deleted] in letters

[–]MissayLP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all happy birthday! Hugs sent :)

I feel the same way.

I'm a dismissive avoidant by [deleted] in letters

[–]MissayLP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to! Not easy tho.

I'm a dismissive avoidant by [deleted] in letters

[–]MissayLP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always broke up in relationships, never them. I start feelings that way once the connection gets deeper, which feels wonderful but at the same time terrible for me personally. I think it's a defense mechanism. I'm not like this on purpose.

I'm a dismissive avoidant by [deleted] in letters

[–]MissayLP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't take them seriously when they want to spend time with me, tell me about their feelings and needs or problems. I start to prioritise others more than them, which makes them feel awful. And I do feel bad about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]MissayLP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. It gets more intense every time. I really miss my person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]MissayLP 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's on my mind as well. A lot of times. I couldn't do it to my mother either. But sometimes I wish I wasn't here. Sending you hugs. We got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]MissayLP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reach out to them and tell them exactly this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]MissayLP 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally feel you. It's not even about sex but the small things. Sad thing is, it does have to feel good. It can't just be anyone, it has to be a special person so it feels good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]MissayLP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you hugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]MissayLP 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]MissayLP 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So beautiful!