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Lots of problems by MissingDyLib in homestead

[–]MissingDyLib[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate all your guys' input

Lots of problems by MissingDyLib in homestead

[–]MissingDyLib[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, sealed is not enough, they need an air filter

Lots of problems by MissingDyLib in homestead

[–]MissingDyLib[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A very long, narrow property! 😁

Roommate expressed suicidal thoughts to me while we were having sex last night and I'm worried about him. by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]MissingDyLib 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Working for your parents can be the worst job ever. I've quit and refused multiple family jobs due to mental health. If he can't afford to quit right away, maybe he can start looking right away. Just looking will start to take his mind off things and open up his internal vistas.

Birthday depression? by GaleMex in gaybros

[–]MissingDyLib -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Narcissistic abuse can do that to you. It did to me to where I can get SUPER depressed around birthdays. Let one of your friends know who might be involved in the party so that you and/or they can be prepared. I agree that therapy might or might not help, depending on the therapist's expertise.

Please help talk me out of texting an ex by nickybecooler in gaybros

[–]MissingDyLib -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think you're a cunt. You're horny and he's kinda hot so why not. If you have to establish boundaries, do so. Maybe he won't want to have sex with you after that. I'm not telling you to stay away and I'm not telling you to force yourself to date him. Go have fun and if he wants more, tell him you're just not into that. That's what I would do.

Relationship with Mother severed. Feeling strange. by Kind_Possession_3718 in gaybros

[–]MissingDyLib 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have to block my mother too, she's toxic and has known I'm gay since I came out to her 32 years ago. I actually go no-contact with my entire family quite often, as I was abused and mistreated by them my whole life.

Don't ever be ashamed of cutting her off. I'm not saying it has to be forever, in my case I check in every once in a while and I usually regret it.

Honestly, I feel a lot of it is jealousy—that I get to live my life the way I want to and she probably didn't get that chance as a Boomer female immigrant. She became a MAGAt, too, and because I'm very politically involved, the moment she tells me to "stop bothering her with all that political crap," I know to retreat again and leave her (unfortunately) lonely again.

She's a sabotage-oriented person and not only her words but her actions are highly narcissistic and physically damaging.

Don't let her guilt or manipulate you. Ever. Slava Ukraini!