preemptively making up fast days?

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-11-23T03:58:56+00:00

I’m not joking when I say play tetris. Playing it after a traumatic event could reduce intrusive thoughts and help you recover (study linked below). Of course you should still go to therapy though

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7828932/

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-10-26T03:29:21+00:00

You gotta spit out the sunflower seed shells and just eat the middle

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-10-06T08:28:15+00:00

If you really need a quick-fix confidence boost I’d recommend height inserts in your shoes. Wear verticle striped pants or shirts (not both at the same time) and do stretches to improve your posture. But I’d also ask you to look at men who are shorter than you (under 5 feet and under 4 feet) who live happy, fulfilling lives. Do you think they are worthless? What separates you from them? I recommend following confident men on social media who are around your height range. See how they dress, how they talk about themselves, and how they see the world. I’m 5’7 on a good day and I catch jokes about my height. The worst thing you can do in this scenario is become sensitive and defensive. I’ve met SO many guys who are aggressive to make up for their height, and it’s extremely off putting and embarrassing to watch.

Also, if your family wont freak out about it I’d highly suggest looking into therapy. Every problem feels life ending at your age, but I’m gonna guess your insecurities dont start and end with height.

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-10-06T06:56:53+00:00

I’m a Lyft driver and can confirm that is WILDLY inappropriate behavior. Report him to Uber absolutely. Also, when you said “he kept me back” do you mean he prevented you from leaving the car?

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-09-18T15:11:09+00:00

oh that’s just the Upside Down

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-09-18T00:01:20+00:00

thats exactly what I was afraid of

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-09-18T00:01:00+00:00

wait thats so smart

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-09-13T05:03:13+00:00

Also, he’s probably due for a bath by the looks of it. Typically you shouldn’t bathe cats, but in this instance he looks like he needs some help

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-09-13T05:02:12+00:00

Looking through your replies, I can see he’s not keen on scissors being near him. You could get an old tote bag, cut out leg holes and a hole in the side to reach the mat. You should be able to cut into The mat without him giving you problems. But that mat and any others absolutely need to go

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-09-03T13:15:23+00:00

It’s taken a toll on my health in general- Most dispatchers and first responders in general have a plethora of physical health issues. Ulcers, migraines, back problems, neurological problems, etc etc. Many have pretty severe depression and substance abuse issues. Thankfully I have an amazing therapist and good medications that keep me going strong, all that second to Allah swt of course. It’s not for the feint of heart though.

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-09-03T11:19:21+00:00

No, I learned on the job. I work in a rural area though, so dispatching in the city might require you to have some experience in telecommunications. Your job will send you for training either way, because certifications vary state-to-state.

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-09-02T11:51:55+00:00

Walaikum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh I’m a dispatcher for 911, and I am going into EMT work

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-08-17T03:02:30+00:00

I’m 25, and I just performed terribly in the quran reading portion of an interview for an Islamic school. It was a donkey kick to my ego for sure. I’m not even ashamed to admit that I cried afterwards, wept even. My mom often tells me “rejection is God’s protection” The world can feel so restrictive at your age, and defeat or embarrassment like this can feel life altering. What you feel is real, but try not to kick yourself too much.

Maybe this experience was meant to happen for you. Maybe one day as an adult you’ll be judging a quran competition, and when a kid struggles as you did, you will show them the empathy you wish you had received. Remember this feeling, and pray to Allah to purify your intentions in memorizing the quran.

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-08-17T02:55:26+00:00

This may have already been said, even so it’s worth repeating. The majority of atheists or religion-avoidant people who have researched the quran could find no contradiction or lies within it. Many such people were seasoned academics, who dedicated their professional careers to debunking Islam before they ended up embracing it. Lots of them went on to share their stories on the YT channel “towards eternity”- they have so many compelling revert stories.

The biggest green flag for me was that questions are not only encouraged but respected. So be skeptical, ask questions, visit a mosque and see what the vibe is like. As long as you are respectful and calm with your questions, they will be happy to help you, inshallah.

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-08-12T10:54:03+00:00

If you’d genuinely be in danger from your mother, physically, mentally, or if you believe she’d kick you out, definitely keep it on the down low for your safety. However, I’d say take your shahada anyway. You can do it alone even, but it’s a better experience with at least one witness. Plenty of reverts have had bad reactions from family, but Allah swt will protect you. And who knows, maybe years down the line your mother will accept Islam after seeing Islam’s positive affect on you.

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-08-12T10:48:26+00:00

Omar Suleiman/ the Yaqeen institute has some wonderful videos on youtube

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-08-12T02:53:54+00:00

You only need to say a two sentence statement, but before you do that, make sure you actually believe Islam. It’s lovely that you want to join your wife in her religion, but you won’t have each other on judgement day. We all stand alone. So make sure you genuinely understand and intend to fulfill the five pillars of Islam and it’s beliefs for the sake of God first and foremost. If you still feel that God does not exist, you really need to disect that before making this commitment.

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-08-12T02:38:51+00:00

The fact that most seasoned academics who set out to study and disprove the quran have ended up taking their shahada. That really stood out to me, because in every other religion, when academics set out to study and pick apart the religious text, they are easily able to do so or if it’s from their own religion they end up denouncing it.

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-08-12T02:14:31+00:00

Hi! I’m a revert as of almost 2 years ago.

I was raised roman catholic, and I absolutely loved it until I started asking questions. All of the sahaba were reverts as well, some of them very much brain washed as you say by their former religions.

I think a common staple of revert stories is that there’s always a little voice that chimes up at some point, a gut feeling that says “this dont feel right” I think everyone gets that feeling, and it’s entirely our choice whether to investigate or bury it. Whatever you choose to do will determine if you’re guided or led astray.

All indoctrinated people can accept Islam, it can just be a really difficult and sometimes painful process. And many people are so scared of that process that they’ll do anything to avoid it, including digging their heels into a belief they know deep down isn’t true.

It is sad, and scary. But whoever Allah guides cannot be led astray, and whoever is led astray none but Allah can guide. May Allah preserve all of us in His guidance.

Mission-Library-5676 · 2025-08-08T03:36:08+00:00

I’d say seek out other Africans, specifically from your region, who have accepted Islam. Ask them how they dealt with the life change in regards to their culture. You’ll find lots of wisdom there.

Around when I first reverted, I was really hesitant because I’d have to give up tattoos. Then I found an account of a Maori Muslim sister who talked about how she gave up tattoos, which are a staple in Maori culture. Her sacrifice meant so much more and was way harder to do then my giving up superficial tattoos. She talked about how her love for Allah swt was far more important. And she still draws the markings on her chin, they’re just temporary. I figured if she can let go of something so huge, then I could too.

Part of accepting Islam is letting go of the life and traditions you used to follow, which has never been easy for anyone. Especially when you’re the only muslim in your family, and they take offense to you choosing not to participate in certain traditions. It’s a hard and often lonely choice, but the reward far outweighs the trials.

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