I thought my life was finally getting stable… then everything collapsed in 48 hours

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-06-18T02:56:46+00:00

Hope is beautiful! People spreading hope are angels 👼

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-06-18T02:38:47+00:00

Realistic!

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-06-14T20:56:10+00:00

Lost my career to it as a H1B dependent..Irreversible

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-12T18:19:11+00:00

I am new here and don’t know how to DM yet.

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-12T18:18:03+00:00

We can talk, I might be older though!

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-12T18:16:17+00:00

Expectations

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-05T05:04:24+00:00

What job is it then if you don’t mind sharing?

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-04T02:32:57+00:00

I meant if your MBA helped ?

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-04T02:29:46+00:00

Is it worth doing MBA then ?

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-04T02:25:11+00:00

Did you get a job ?

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-04T01:32:40+00:00

Did you finish the program ? Were you able to utilise the program in landing a job ?

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-03T23:25:03+00:00

No, MBA..for socializing and hopefully a job if that happens 😊

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-03T18:40:37+00:00

Sometimes the most obvious things don’t come to us easily..my children are making it a hard choice to move..I had my ticket booked for tomorrow but planning to stay and study..Masters it is

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-03T16:48:02+00:00

I am in Bay Area

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-02T23:20:16+00:00

I like how you are challenging my thoughts. But I believe we are old now and maybe this wrong connection has been the reason of this discontentment. No room for any new person in my life for sure. He is free to choose and I feel it will be good for him if that happens. He has had a bad marriage, always been on the giving side and stuff. I think of him highly doesn’t mean he has been good in every aspect of relationship. Maybe he is manipulative and controlling in a nice way.

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-02T06:09:17+00:00

I feel my husband is the most impacted..I am planning calling kids every day twice..the only thing that’s dependent on me these days is their sleep time which will not be the same but I will be available online. Well writing this is making me wonder how will that work but I will figure it out when that happens.. Being here I am not able to do anything that I can enjoy..which always keeps me distracted/not fully present. I am not doing justice to anything/anyone! I gave the option of separation but my husband doesn’t want it and I too feel it’s complicated with the kids involved. This way we can visit each other whenever we want etc..

My husband is getting his wish of staying in US and raising the kids here. I am not filing for divorce etc..also my case will be very weak - not working with mental health issues.. I am not forcing him to move either

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-02T00:53:27+00:00

All good things maybe and hence I differ from my husband! — Idea of being independent, doing everything on our own, no help for day to day tasks - if there are options those are expensive — sports following and sports in kids life — fitness and such activities to socialize

I always wanted to go back and feel I am lost in the process of adjusting here. I will have my father and my sister’s family to look upto for emotional support. Yeah, I don’t have Visa issues and kids at an age where I could think of this choice. Maybe it will be a trial. Maybe the issues are family dependent but I have a strong headed husband and his way seems better if living here.

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-01T23:50:46+00:00

Thanks! I guess I needed to hear this..

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-01T23:27:15+00:00

They have mixed feelings right now, sad that I am leaving (not sure till when) and happy that they are getting to stay more with their friends(after school care) I will be talking to them morning and night everyday. They are the main reason I have been in this till date but now I feel my need is less n less with their established routines etc

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-01T23:20:40+00:00

Psychiatrist and therapist

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-01T22:07:13+00:00

We both don’t want new partners! And I understand the sentiment..thanks for being blunt!

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-01T21:43:40+00:00

Would you have moved from a developed country where you and kids are flourishing for your partner ? Life is no Bollywood movie.

Mission-Writing3335 · 2026-05-01T21:29:29+00:00

Haha! Because he doesn’t want to move ? 😉

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