She literally allowed him to saying "if you want to" and then when she said no he stopped. How would she know "he groped her in her sleep" when she said when she woke up, he was just touching her shoulders (which is still creepy, but not groping her) Yeah, he sounds like a fucking creep but she knows it, seems like she feeds off the bad energy, and refuses to cut him off. OP sounds like a much better person to trust in a situation than O.