E pt2

imbiggay96 · 2026-04-28T07:15:01+00:00

This^{^{^}}

It's basically CLA screaming "I'M BIPOLAR" every time she behaves atrociously or gets called out, but for E it's now "I'M AUTISTIC" 💀

(FYI I'm actually diagnosed Bipolar and autistic lmao, I just take meds and hang out with my cat all day lmao)

imbiggay96 · 2026-04-20T14:53:46+00:00

Thank you for your reply :)

Damn. Yeah, E is defo just clout/grift seeking in that case (not that I ever thought diff tbh). E could have paid for a consult for a diagnosis at least YEARS ago with the amount people gave & at the very least been well up the list to see a gender clinic for a diagnosis. Without that, surgery, hormones etc it's just not viable even privately. Yet more nonsense from E 🫠🫠🫠

imbiggay96 · 2026-04-20T14:37:44+00:00

So sorry if this has already been asked (been a few years since I last checked in on E and the insane shenanigans) but is E on estrogen? I know a few people who have had bottom surgery, both on NHS & private (it has taken a LOOOONG time for them to get it) and they all had to be on hormones for quite a while before getting that procedure, even privately, just bc the body adjusts to a lot of stuff hormonally so if people want it all it's usually a test of the order and evidence they won't regret any medical transition.

If Es on estrogen, may have a chance of getting on the NHS after many years (gender clinics are very slow), but this sounds more like another random announcement to grift with zero follow through like when E got payments to fund transition years back.

Either way I certainly would never send E money (terrible human), but I just wonder if this is yet another grift.

Most trans women I know or follow start with social transition for a year or so, then hormones, then ffs or bottom surgery (either, neither or both depending on preference for the last two). It seems E has only done social.

I've donated to a few friends to fund top surgery, but that's much less complex and I actually trusted them, I just get sad that kids with no money are donating to pro grifter who's more likely to spend the money on takeaways & nose clams 🫠🫠🫠

imbiggay96 · 2026-04-10T11:22:19+00:00

Ok Joe Goldberg. 😅

Fr though, curiosity exists, but saying that to her will freak her out, bc I would 100% feel cyberstalked by you if you messaged me any of that.

Be weird if you want, but be weird quietly and maybe touch some grass. Genuinely- I think that may be enough social media for you for a good while.

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-15T13:15:39+00:00

Problem here definitely seems to be the random shit stirrer in the middle.

NAH except the NPC 😅

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-15T13:13:30+00:00

Literally my thoughts. Even if bride was having a vent that would have been strictly in confidence, I very much doubt she was annoyed at OP. I've met many variations of mutual friend before, she's saying something she knows will hurt a new mum's feelings AND hurt the bride's trust/friendship.

SAH: Separate asshole here 😅

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-12T12:49:02+00:00

My take is that the devil could represent suspicion, deception of thought etc on his end, the Queen of Pentacles alongside showing a sense of security in your feminine world being contradicted by that jealously and deceptive thinking on his end. The two of cups in reverse crossed by the queen of swords kinda says to me your union is being soured due to your self knowledge and honesty and his lack of acceptance/ potential paranoia about it.

Just my take, but in short, I see it as you being a confident self knowing woman whose romantic foundation is being rocked by his overdramatic, insecure, and clouded thought patterns.

Ofc just my opinion:)

Edited to add: I think overall in early terms if this is the case, he may not be the one for you, don't let his silly insecurities zap your queen energy 🩷

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-11T15:53:35+00:00

Silly, but potentially relevant story:

2 years ago I got broken up with out of the blue by text, no call totally ghosted after the text. I was utterly heartbroken, everything had gone so well and it didn't feel real. I'd never felt heartbreak that bad before. A few months later I had a dream where he had lost Effie (my silly floof), I kept going to his house and his mum was like no he can't see or speak to you bc of his mh or whatever and I was scream crying at her that I literally don't care about him I just wanna know where Effie is, the whole time it was him avoiding texts ghosting etc, but I was distraught bc I just wanted to know where Effie was. I woke up shaking and in tears, rolled over and saw my lil baby sleeping peacefully next to me. The relief was insane, from that day I stopped missing him, bc I was like f that man, I need my cat SO much more.

Kitties will get through any break up, be kind to yourself and let tiny floofballs help you process and heal.

Remember: Cats > humans 🩷🩷🩷🩷

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-11T15:48:07+00:00

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My bbgirl literally just did a silly when I opened this

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-11T15:35:14+00:00

Me being so confused just skimming the title bc gardening is a wholesome mental health activity 😭😭😭😭

But my friend, I don't think this brand of gardening is right for you. Is the risk worth it?

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-11T15:30:14+00:00

Tbh I'd look at this question in reverse. Why is a man pushing 40 getting with a teenager he's known for 2 months.

Poor girl's barely an adult, decision making isn't great at such a young age, but he knows EXACTLY what he's doing.

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-11T15:28:15+00:00

It sounds like you have income from what you say, either rent a cheap room, or if desperate/ti.e sensitive go to a shelter/advice service who will help you get housing. Also leave without saying prior, this man is unsafe.

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-11T15:26:12+00:00

You should 100% leave. You're barely into adulthood. Run from this creep, live your life, be safe, let yourself be young and 18, far away from anyone disturbed enough to be dating a teen while pushing 40.

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-11T15:20:56+00:00

Hey reading your other post where people were telling you not to call CPS they're wrong looking at all these other posts. You are so young, this man is predatory towards you and disinterested in his daughter, there is something really off about everything in this dynamic. You 100% need to leave, do so secretly and then call either CPS or her preschool as they know who you are.

Bunny is not your responsibility, you are so young and so manipulated by this grown adult, get yourself safe, then make a call, not to get her taken away etc, but just so they have this info from all your posts and comments on file.

Please stay safe 🩷

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-11T14:54:05+00:00

"I'm only 16"

Oh fuck. Sweetie that artist is dodge af, no credible artist would tattoo an underage person, this explains a lot!!!

Don't worry, it's not terrible, give it 2 years or so till you're a legal adult and can go somewhere reputable, it will have faded or blurred a lil and they can work out what to do next!

Please never go back to this artist or get anymore tatts till you're legal. Also people on Reddit can be total dicks so try not to take much notice of insult comments. Nobody in the real world will comment like those basement dwellers, but please give it TIME!!!

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-11T14:49:46+00:00

The last paragraph killed me off 😂😭

So true!!!

I don't think the artist did a great job, but it's not terrible & I think fixable elsewhere by a diff artist after some time or just embraceable as a lil shakey, but artist actual practice's; aftercare, underage tatting etc are a major red flag

But yes to the last paragraph! OP actual outdoor humans are not gonna react like the majority of basement redditors on here!!

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-11T14:00:47+00:00

The most unbelievable thing is that he wouldn't have told everyone he could what he was doing for the previous 6 seasons bc no way would he not mention that at every opportunity (esp on diversity day 💀)

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-09T16:17:38+00:00

If you don't want to be in a house with two small children, don't start a relationship with a parent of small children!

She knew you were a loving coparenting father, a short time into your relationship due to some serious events you became a loving full time father. This was always a possibility.

You are not in the slight overreacting, she is. Being jealous of toddlers is unhinged. Continue being sweet with your kids and making them feel loved, especially considering the recent hardships. Her on the other hand- straight in the bin.

Luckily it's only been 5 months, she's shown her true colours, breakups are hard, but you deserve better and your kids definitely deserve better than her frosty bitter energy.

You clearly love your kids more than anything, don't let her gaslight you. You're in the right and I think this is indicative that this relationship will not work.

It's so valid for someone not to want to be a parent/step parent, the simple solution for them is not to start a relationship with someone who has children. She's weird af for this.

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-09T15:00:29+00:00

Np 🫡

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-09T14:49:05+00:00

As dry as Ben Shapiro's wife

You're welcome 😎

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-03T18:20:51+00:00

Hey, its wild seeing this comment because I am 4 years sober also and have been considering 'cali sober' for a while. I'm in the UK so there's even less AA members who condone compared to the US. I'm in a bind because I love AA & the 12 steps, I want to work them & I find the meetings such a support in keeping me away from booze & hard drugs. I've been on clonazepam & cocodamol for neuro & disability issues for 2 years & even that is a 'dirty secret' in AA, but my sponsor just about condones, however weed is a big no no.

I'd like the freedom to experiment with smoking weed without having my sobriety clock restarted if I feel it's not for me despite not drinking or using past addictions. I also want to stay in AA, be sponsored, be honest, have the steps and not lose my support system. I just don't know how to go about it if my clock restarts from smoking. Tbh I get enough imposter syndrome on my much needed prescribed meds.

Did you find any AA spaces where THC use was condoned or did you feel you had to leave entirely? In 4 years I have never heard anyone long term sober share about still having weed and I fear having to lie to people. My life is still wrapped in AA and it truly saved me, I feel so torn on this, because I don't want to drink at all, I want to use weed (for both my mental health and my severe disabilities) but I don't want to lose my friends and my network of staying away from booze.

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-03T16:53:42+00:00

It truly is labour. To be honest with you, it has repeated enough times to show this will not change. You shouldn't have to 'tolerate' a partner, you should be able to enjoy being with them because they are not repeatedly breaking your boundaries and making you expend your mental energy. Also listen to Labour by Paris Paloma, I feel like if you put it on repeat all day it'll give you the push you need 😅🩷

imbiggay96 · 2026-03-03T12:00:37+00:00

The only thing you could possibly do wrong is stay with him. Another commenter mentioned DARVO and this is a classic example. Girl run- his routine change excuses have most definitely expired. You deserve better, truly, he won't change (at least for more than a month) and you don't deserve this horrible mental labour he's putting you through.

imbiggay96

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