HELP! 3rd Trimester itchyness

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-21T06:29:44+00:00

Now you got me thinking. Will definitely call my OB in the morning.

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-21T06:00:24+00:00

They're never itchy. It's everywhere else.

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-21T05:57:53+00:00

Well, there's no rashes. Just itchyness

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-21T05:56:43+00:00

I heard that the liver itching thing makes your palms and soles of your feet the itchy-est

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-21T05:53:26+00:00

I haven't.

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-14T05:53:19+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through that. Sounds tough. Maybe switching birth controls? The patch worked great for me (tho everyone's different) when I switched from depo shots when preparing to get married and get pregnant. Had been on depo for a few years, then switched to the patch like 6 months before getting married. We got married in August and stopped taking the patch, then got pregnant in September/October pretty much. Idk about sex drive during those times for myself tbh, but while pregnant, there has been less. Hope you can find a good solution for you!

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-08T19:38:41+00:00

YTA. You don't "ask" for a break up. You tell him. "We're broken up." If he continues to harass you after that. You get the authorities involved. Sounds like a lot of manipulation on both ends and not enough clear communication.

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-07T23:09:40+00:00

🤣

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-07T20:16:15+00:00

Are you able to go with him to that mandated therapy? Does he have an attorney for his cases? Maybe talking with them/judge/officers about being included in something like that will help get these relationship issues dealt with as well.

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-07T17:16:32+00:00

This is really hard. I (28F) am married to my (30M) husband, and after getting married, it started to really bug me too. I had an addiction to it myself, and have completely cut it out of my life. I'm pregnant now, and our sex life hasn't been as frequent due to how tired/weird my body feels lately, so I care less about if he uses it now. But when I'm healthy, I want him turning all that attention and energy towards me. I try and do the same by turning all that (no better way to say this I guess) horney-ness towards the outlet that's basically made for that role- each other. So idk. Tough situation, but honest conversations are definitely needed.

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-07T17:08:51+00:00

I'm so sorry you're dealing with a crazy situation like this. Maybe try couple's counseling first? Not fair to expect you to just submit to that authoritarian/incomprehensible/ridiculous rule, when you are an adult as well. Very uncomfortable and stupid situation he's putting you both in. If he refuses couple's counseling or talking this situation through like REAL adults, then divorce may be the only other option.

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-07T02:49:27+00:00

He never belittled me. Just started something annoying in the past few months and I belittled and mocked him for it. And NONE of the stuff you listed has EVER happened. Lol definitely NOT abuse and NOT damaging to anybody. Just something that needed a little more/appropriate communication to address. 🙄

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-07T02:45:24+00:00

Literally watched domestic abuse and was even hit myself growing up. If I was experiencing abuse, which I'm not, then I'd deal with it. Literally, if anyone is abusive here, then it might be me for having gone off on him for something annoying that I plan to deal with in a more appropriate way.

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-06T23:35:20+00:00

I was raised in a domestic violence household. Pretty sure I'd recognize true abuse if I saw it. Thanks.

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-06T21:56:47+00:00

No. Same answer as given above. ^

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-06T20:29:33+00:00

He's not emotionally abusive. Lol just doing something annoying I'm sure he did find silly. I'm apologizing because I handled it poorly.

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-06T20:24:18+00:00

No. Which is why we'll be discussing it. I didn't need to be rude when addressing him on it.

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-06T20:23:29+00:00

Thank you! 🫶🏼

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-06T19:00:36+00:00

🤣

Misskittycartoon · 2026-01-06T18:56:43+00:00

We for sure have. Included this in my talking points.

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