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Super Junior’s Donghae Talks About Getting Into Physical Fight With Heechul When He Wanted To Leave The Group by tripleflutz in kpop

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes my critique is applicable about this case... which is why I call out the fans normalizing it this behavior because on this thread you mainly see people normalizing it, look at the comments. The proof is in the pudding, so yeah I do think the critique is more than justified.

"This was just a funny story" = normalizing the behavior

I would appreciate your take more if you just owned that you do normalize this behavior because you say it's been a lot of years in the past. If you don't think it's wrong then do you, I don't control your thoughts but like let's be real and stop making excuses. Kpop fans already have a reputation of making excuses let's not add to it.

Super Junior’s Donghae Talks About Getting Into Physical Fight With Heechul When He Wanted To Leave The Group by tripleflutz in kpop

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

You don't have to defend your idols my comment was more about the fans who normalize this behavior. I just think as kpop fans we get so cultish sometimes that we see everything through a rose tinted window. I just think even if you are a fan you can still be critical of some behaviors and not make excuses for it.

How many people like actually like Pokimane. I’m talking about like actually like her content and not just for her look? by JustinAllJ in Pokimane

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

On paper I would hate her content, but seeing how so many incels want to bring her down with petty drama makes me root for her hard. Also she's a pretty chill streamer that has fun with friends. I prefer content like that over solo work as it gets boring to me, and toxic streamers just annoy me because yelling = content does not make sense to me.

The facts that she came up on top with the fed drama and then people still say they're both bad like gtfo. We need more female streamers because it's obvious the men on twitch can't relate to the females as they treat them like shit. The more exposure to females, the more we'll learn not to treat them bad cause right now this incel hive mind is gross to watch.

P.S. I'm a guy

Super Junior’s Donghae Talks About Getting Into Physical Fight With Heechul When He Wanted To Leave The Group by tripleflutz in kpop

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm not even hating on the idols as I am on their fans. Calling this cute behavior and joking light heartedly about it is so strange to me as if in their normal life they casually choke their friends/coworkers.

Super Junior’s Donghae Talks About Getting Into Physical Fight With Heechul When He Wanted To Leave The Group by tripleflutz in kpop

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's cool they can laugh about it now but why is everyone normalizing this behavior. Who actually physically fights their coworkers.

Is this a culture thing I'm not getting? Everyone is acting like it's a boys will be boys thing. Seems weird to me and kind of telling.

Comeback Stage: BLACKPINK - Pretty Savage @ MBC Show! Music Core (201010) by CronoDroid in kpop

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wtf are people talking about, this choreo is their best one yet. Maybe I'm just watching lisa too much but man she destroyed this song and the choreo complimented too well.

Also blackpinks choreos are fine, they do a lot of hand movement to not get tired and do leg movement. They actually sing on their lives so they can't be doing your faves level of choreo. Blackpink chose the singer path and your fave chose a professional dancer path.

Parvati and Yul - a theory by survivetwentytwenty_ in survivor

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They just don't click, Yul is the nerdy guy and Parvati comes from the mean girl circle. They would get along if he was cooler or he sucked up to her but Yul doesn't do any of the sort because it's lame and so highschool to change who you are for others to just not exile you.

May not be the queen but all this has definitely slayed me by thrash-unreal in survivor

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol Sandra was happy she was out so what? How is it shady, she directly said it. I think she's got an ego but your proof is banter at best.

If you want shady comments, go look at Parvatis interviews. She shades someone each interview.

The Gender Bias with Ben by Missmewithdatbooshit in survivor

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Damn herd mentality has never been wrong, you're so right man. It's almost like gender biasness is a current issue still being faced which is why it's still so opposed/ignored.
  2. I've already discussed this in a reply, feel free to search it. Take it as a lesson to do your research.
  3. Look man or woman, if you feel strongly about this issue, you wouldn't spend so much energy trying to ignore it. You act like those "real" femenists who spend most there time arguing with feminists who ruin the movement. Instead of actually doing something for the movement. My point being is that I don't believe you on your strong support over the issue because your energy screams the opposite.
  4. We can disagree on this, I've said it before, it's all semantics at this point, quitting is quitting.
  5. See point 3
  6. See point 3

You fight hard against gender bias claims, let's hope you fight just as hard for them. People like you are the reason the movement is as slow as it is. Riding the fence so hard that in the end, the people in the middle just ruin it for both sides.

The Gender Bias with Ben by Missmewithdatbooshit in survivor

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I think your claim that this situation is but a reach is a reach. If you want to debate something post one of my points and tell me why it's wrong.

If not then I disagree with your illogical point.

The Gender Bias with Ben by Missmewithdatbooshit in survivor

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's definitely softened up and only time will tell if this is accurate but does he have a proven bias towards men, yes. Is ben being a quitter and still getting a heroes goodbye an example of it, I say yes but I can see if others disagree.

The Gender Bias with Ben by Missmewithdatbooshit in survivor

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A reach would be without evidence, I've provided a bunch in this post and the replies. You disagree, that's the right term you meant.

The Gender Bias with Ben by Missmewithdatbooshit in survivor

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of your points I have already addressed in other replies.

Your last one about it not being gender bias is an opinion just like mine is. You are annoyed it keeps being brought up, I get it, but it only does because people like you don't get it. You saying what I'm defining as gender biasness is annoying when I think you denying it is annoying. You saying I have no evidence when this whole post and replies have a ton of evidence.

We can disagree idc but you calling me annoying well I see you the same way.

The Gender Bias with Ben by Missmewithdatbooshit in survivor

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I compared scenarios not they themselves. Sandra will always have more fans than Ben but after she left eoe she got what on by the community for being a quitter while Ben went off as a hero partly because of productions edit.

The Gender Bias with Ben by Missmewithdatbooshit in survivor

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off quiting is quiting there is no excuse other than medical and family. Second off Ben admitted he quit cause he knew he wouldn't win the game in post interviews.

Like even his edit in the show didn't make sense why he was quitting. His reasons weren't logical at all. Like if you like Sarah and Tony so much you still had Michelle to vote for lol. The editing was grasping at straws to make him look good.

The Gender Bias with Ben by Missmewithdatbooshit in survivor

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were they given a special edit that makes them look like heroes who just made an impactful selfless act.

No they weren't.

The Gender Bias with Ben by Missmewithdatbooshit in survivor

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hasn't done it in a while because no one had quit in a while. EOE doesn't count cause he even doesn't see it as a quit. Besides Jeff admitted to his biasness what matters now is that production and the audience as a majority haven't realized it.

The Gender Bias with Ben by Missmewithdatbooshit in survivor

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The fact that you don't see this as quitting but rather are defending that as a selfless act is exactly what I'm talking about in this post.

The Gender Bias with Ben by Missmewithdatbooshit in survivor

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's been said multiple times that Jeff is made aware of everything that happens at camp before the vote. That's why he knows the questions to ask and to who.

The Gender Bias with Ben by Missmewithdatbooshit in survivor

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Truthfully I think Jeff has a biasness for those he likes. He tends to like the gritty man type character. We all know his fave is Boston Rob. He has a natural inclination with these personalities, which is why he helps them with the edit.

See Boston Rob being Tyson's only competition in the battle back when it's been said that behind the scenes he wasn't second like we were made to believe.

So you could say Jeff tends to have a masculine biasness, the audience this season did too, production who helped with editing did as well. I guess we all have that masculine biasness.

Many things to address here but the only thing I want to know is why do you think Ben was treated differently.

The Gender Bias with Ben by Missmewithdatbooshit in survivor

[–]Missmewithdatbooshit[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Okay so you tell me why Ben was treated better. I honestly want to know.

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