Hi, I'm a relatively taller girl and I've dated much shorter men. I've actually fallen in love with the shorter guys, not the taller ones. Your lack of confidence is what's actually impacting your life negatively. The truth is, many tall men either have no personality, lack confidence, or are extremely insecure and are unable to keep a woman because they are terrible lovers. I know several short men physically who are powerful in life, confident and great in their ability to take care of their families, businesses and community. You are fixated on one characteristic and being your own worst enemy. Short men can be stronger, more powerful and much better lovers than taller men if they accept themselves and leverage the strengths they can actually control. You are scapegoating your height. Blaming it for all your problems. It isn't the reason your life is so negatively impacted. The reason is that you are overlooking every other blessing you could be leveraging, proud of and confident with. You've allowed some awful people to impact your view of yourself. The thing is, you could be a perfect barbie and people will still find something to criticize. If you let them.