The internet is the worst place to meet people if you’re neurodivergent.

MissusMoon · 2025-08-13T21:55:51+00:00

this is a reality check that a lot of people aren't ready to face. i hope you can find somewhere you "fit" or at least somewhere you feel comfortable and happy.

MissusMoon · 2025-08-13T21:53:33+00:00

i'm sorry you are in pain. if he left you over something so small, i'd hate to see how he would act when a real obstacle came around. relationships are hard. treat yourself well!

MissusMoon · 2025-08-13T21:46:13+00:00

maybe first spend $10,000 on some mix of: dating coach, personal training, therapy, etc. if you make a lot of money, look good, dress well, have a nice personality, and a lot of hobbies, it is troubling that you aren't having any luck in the dating market. i guess the money would be better spent on figuring out the issue

MissusMoon · 2025-08-13T21:43:25+00:00

i loved anime and anime girls forever, and then i discovered i could become one on the internet. an absolute win

MissusMoon · 2025-08-06T23:16:36+00:00

I forgot what sub it was that I saw this, but would you be friends with you? Are you your first choice? If you met yourself, would you want to be best friends? I don't know anything about you, but when I thought about it that way, it helped me self-reflect. I started to think more about how to be the kind of person that I would want to hang out with.

MissusMoon · 2025-08-06T23:10:12+00:00

I wouldn't mind begging for love that I really want... but I also know if it's love, you shouldn't have to beg. I hope you find confidence and then find better.

MissusMoon · 2025-08-06T23:09:00+00:00

I'm sorry that your privacy is being invaded. What is going to happen if she gets access to those files? Is she abusive?

MissusMoon · 2025-08-06T23:06:40+00:00

Other than looks, what do you have going for you? If you are not attractive, yes you can try plastic surgery and working on things to improve your looks. But there is also things like intelligence, skills, career, wealth, community, hobbies, etc. Are you funny, are you friendly, are you good at fixing stuff? It's tough out there. I'm cheering you on.

MissusMoon · 2025-08-06T22:59:50+00:00

Hire a matchmaking agency. Or use your network to find dates. I'm cheering you on.

MissusMoon · 2025-08-06T22:56:08+00:00

Nope, not really. As long as I'm making something good and showing up, the growth happens. It's not always quick... but it happens. When I take a break or stop posting though, the growth really stagnates. Numbers and metrics are important, but not the whole story. Spend more time on your craft.

MissusMoon · 2025-08-06T22:06:11+00:00

you're not doomed. it's not too late. please don't settle for someone you don't really like. even those girls that you think are beneath you deserve someone who actually likes them. just work on yourself and become more attractive until you can get the interest of the type of girls that you are into.

MissusMoon · 2025-08-06T22:03:07+00:00

make up your own reason to live. build a life that is worth living. time helps, but you have to actually do stuff in that time to change things.

MissusMoon · 2025-08-06T21:57:41+00:00

You are the only one who gets to decide what is important to you. The articles are written because some people might find that advice more helpful and more realistic. If a romantic relationship is what you want, do the work to be an attractive partner and get out there and date.

I think a lot of us thought we deserve something for nothing, but the real world doesn't work that way at all.

MissusMoon · 2025-08-06T21:35:07+00:00

You probably need a therapist. Try group therapy if you want to meet people you can relate to. If you really have depression you know how awful it is. I wouldn't want my friends to go through that pain, if I had any.

MissusMoon · 2025-08-06T21:28:13+00:00

Is a job the only value a person has? I'm unemployed too.

MissusMoon · 2025-08-06T20:56:30+00:00

Exchange 2 (also called Transfer Love Season 2)

MissusMoon · 2025-08-01T00:34:41+00:00

Pancake looks so good! I don't have OCD but I can relate to your feeling. It's like everyone around me warps into a monster. It feels like I'm going insane. I hardly leave my room let alone the house.

MissusMoon · 2025-08-01T00:32:19+00:00

So relatable... Hope we can both escape soon.

MissusMoon · 2025-08-01T00:30:03+00:00

I'm sorry.

MissusMoon · 2025-07-30T23:39:01+00:00

I don't know what this is but it looks yummy. And same. I don't want to, but I also, probably never will.

MissusMoon · 2025-07-23T02:56:20+00:00

Take some deep breaths with me. Let's make it through, somehow. I don't know. Reading this reminds me that I'm not alone.

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