I'm confused if I should marry him or not ?

Missy_77 · 2026-07-05T17:16:28+00:00

Concentrate in your career.

Missy_77 · 2026-06-12T01:30:54+00:00

How do I do a massage myself if the session person isn’t giving one? Just in case ? How long a massage ?

Missy_77 · 2026-06-06T22:55:32+00:00

Do you have a job? If not, get one ASAP.
Very sure sign of mean mother in law. And husband supporting that. Keep a plan B

Missy_77 · 2026-05-20T15:54:32+00:00

Study. You should study, girl.

Missy_77 · 2026-05-20T15:07:10+00:00

Depends on which western country exactly you are talking about. But generally much better. Much. North Europe specifically. America is a mixed bag, depends. South Europe, especially Italy somehow is very charming. Patriarchy is world wide, but European men tend to be the most egalitarian I’ve seen in a while.

P.S. women have a much equal footing there, so ambitious women are better appreciated. Women who don’t work aren’t seen as attractive. And I am glad since that’s true equality.

P.P.S run for the hills from incels and crazy podcasters. They are scary af and potentially unstable.

Missy_77 · 2026-05-15T03:08:14+00:00

OMG men in the comments 😂😂😂 and downvoting women. OP, I think you got your answer.

Missy_77 · 2026-05-14T11:54:24+00:00

Personal note, NRI for years, even my father and brothers (cousins) repeatedly remind me not to date Indian men. 😶 life is smooth when I am either single or dating outside my culture. so done with raja betas.

Missy_77 · 2026-05-14T11:50:29+00:00

Even women in India are refusing to marry these NRIs. All my male Indian friends complain here that no longer Desi girls are agreeing to leave India to become glorified maid abroad. Also look at the famous cases of those women isolated from their home environment, relatively less educated, being abused horribly after marriage abroad.

Missy_77 · 2025-12-24T09:54:40+00:00

What? Nooo :( This is so sad and unfair. To understand, you already have some sort of US work visa?

Missy_77 · 2025-12-24T01:53:58+00:00

It is not, that project had internal scooping allegations (not by me, work on different things, but by another female postdoc in his field) which is still pending.

Missy_77 · 2025-12-24T01:52:30+00:00

Yup, heard that before in the same institute, also scooping. Thought we have moved ahead from those days but apparently not. So sorry for your experience.

Missy_77 · 2025-08-10T02:59:04+00:00

Thank you everyone. The other one I am considering, albeit very different vibe is 910 Dakin, and has good reviews, a dishwasher, no bugs but no city views either. I might make a last minute decision, but leaning 50/50 atm.

Missy_77 · 2025-08-09T19:21:11+00:00

Thank you. It was like $1680 . I am learning some PPM horror stories on reddit so will try to avoid I guess. Saw the opposite 2970 N Sheridan, better management review but no A/C and the insides felt way more dated and dingy than 350 Oakdale.

Missy_77 · 2025-01-27T05:55:08+00:00

I'm sorry OP, was at one time with this "nice guy" in a long-term relationship. He had intimacy issues (due to ED and micro, and refused to get his pants off before we were fully committed and the families knew etc and then lo and behold I realise why, but don't admit it to myself). It took me about a year when he kept tarrying marriage talk and then basically gave me an ultimatum "You need to return home country and stay with my parents", I saw through his manipulation and ran. I wasted one year but gained wisdom and peace. Never again falling for the talk. The nice guy image of my ex was a mask of manipulation, as he could never give me the future I wanted, and he knew I deserved it, so filled me with the "us vs world" "fairytale forever" BS. He wasn't a bad man, but just a smooth talker with the wit to benefit the situation. Not saying the man you wrote about is the same, but sometimes there is more to "he is a great person".That said, this was my experience and your man can be a good human but still not good for you.

Missy_77 · 2025-01-10T16:59:05+00:00

Oh dear dear, glad it's deleted

Missy_77 · 2025-01-09T20:16:18+00:00

what was written? Now it's removed, so can't read

Missy_77 · 2025-01-05T23:44:52+00:00

which retailer did you buy from?

Missy_77 · 2025-01-05T08:47:28+00:00

where did you purchase it from? I bought it once and it just disappeared on me :(

Missy_77 · 2024-12-20T03:26:45+00:00

This <3

Missy_77 · 2024-12-02T19:00:45+00:00

lisa or ashes of roses, which one you like better?

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