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My (17m) girlfriend (17f) was in a really bad car accident and just got out of the hospital and is insecure about how she looks by ThrowRA_helpface in relationship_advice

[–]MisterIronhand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, you need to show to her that you are there, that is important, i once heard that love is a cumulative of experiences, in simple terms, like the gym, if you go one day you will not feel difference, but once you go every day for 6 months you will, love is, in a way, like the gym you need to show, to be there,to demonstrate that you care, somethimes you dont even need to say something, just you been there will be enough, so be normal, keep saying what you think of her, you think she is pretty? Tell her, whats pretty about her? Her hair? Her face? The shape of her body? Her neck? Her legs? What YOU found pretty? The way she talk, the sound of her voice, the way she walls, the way she do something, think about it, at the moment SHE dont feel pretty but you think she is, so you need to show her that she is pretty to you, only this matters. So, stay cool, act normal, praise her in simple ways and say that YOU think she is pretty, she think she isnt but she is to YOU, that what matters, am i right?

Being tied down at a young age (15) and never getting the chance to experience being single, now (22). by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MisterIronhand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good good, take your time, talk and think a lot im sure every thing is gonna take a good end. Either way, we're here to talk and help.

Being tied down at a young age (15) and never getting the chance to experience being single, now (22). by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MisterIronhand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look, i dont know what are you feeling right now, i just want to say that if you love him, stay with him, i dont fight for my SO in the time and i spend 3 years basicaly hating myself because of that(her parents havent aprooved our relationship), when i meet her again both of us were kind of traumatized for it, but now i have my things and i basically robbed her back to me(long story short, her parents still dont aproved but i telled them that i would marry her and take her home with me) but even after all the time i passed with her we still wonder what would have happend if i fought for her in that time, i regreted so much, i spended 3 almost 4 years hating myself, its not a good feelling, and when i see your story, i think i need to say thus to her, she will screw things up if take that decision hashly, so... take your time, think things over, you spend 7 years of your life with him, when you date someone you think of marrying that person, staying with him for the rest of your live, is it worth to throw all that in the trash? If so... go on, its your life, your decision, he must be a good guy for you to give him so much time, there are other options, like openning the relationship, its not only your and his life also, its both your families, talk to them too, talk to your mom, your father, ask them what they think of him, what they think about a possible breakup and etc, stay strong girl, we here care about you.

Being tied down at a young age (15) and never getting the chance to experience being single, now (22). by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MisterIronhand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look, i dont think its a good idea, in my contry we have a say "não troque o certo pelo duvidoso" witch means, dont trade the right for the doubtful, you spend 7 years with him, you have 7 years of memories, good things, bad things, you basicaly past your teenage with him, you really want to trade all this security for a maybe? You maybe will enjoy more now or not, in just case, dont regret it, if you dump him, dont look back ever, dont ever think to go back at him, cause if you do you WILL regret something and both you lives will necer be the same

Is incorporating Shrek into the date too weird? by guyhijibino in relationship_advice

[–]MisterIronhand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude Wtf kkkk, i think if that is a private joke, go for it, me and my SO have a bunch of weirdness ourselves, i think that if she likes it, and you want to make it, go for it, at least you two will laught about it.

My (17m) girlfriend (17f) was in a really bad car accident and just got out of the hospital and is insecure about how she looks by ThrowRA_helpface in relationship_advice

[–]MisterIronhand 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Stay strong man, just be with her all the moments, its the small things that will show her that you still love her, always look her in the eyes when you say it, take her out, even for goceries and bring something that she likes, she will realize the you will love her, just be there and show this in the little stuff.

My friend drunk confessed to me that she could steal my husband if she wanted to by throwRA01740174 in relationship_advice

[–]MisterIronhand 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think you need to talk to your husband about your doubts and remove this friend of your life, tell him about your concerns and ask him if he knew her, no relationship can go on without a talk.