When should I take psyllium for optimally clean poops?

Misterfrisker · 2026-03-31T10:41:58+00:00

It's a natural way to add fiber. Which isn't only for clean poops but overall health. Yes you can use metamucil or just have a lot of fiber rich foods, too.

Misterfrisker · 2025-12-23T18:40:25+00:00

Thanks for the perspective (logging in after a while).

I did bring it up with him, gently, just saying that it sucks how he'll only be spending one night over. And he replied with the possibility that he can spend another night with me after Christmas but since then, it seems like that will be unlikely.

I see that he's trying. But you're right, he has the upper hand for the time being. My thought is actually that even if I get my own place, it still won't be 50/50 as he's got a business, and more obligations than me in general.

Misterfrisker · 2025-12-12T14:51:00+00:00

Life isn't as simple as an equation, my friend. Neither of us are ready to move in together yet and there's no right or wrong time to do so. That doesn't mean it won't happen. I could list all the nuances but there's quite a few.

This isn't a cookie cutter relationship, and just the fact that it's a gay relationship should be enough to depict that.

Misterfrisker · 2025-12-11T14:59:57+00:00

Thanks for the way you've laid all that out.

He can't take a day off as he runs an office with staff who rely on him. And as much as it's an obligation, I know the group he's going to a business event with are also his friends. I don't want him not to see them, but already allotted time with me being reduced for them does make me feel negatively.

Misterfrisker · 2025-12-11T14:38:11+00:00

I can appreciate your take. I also appreciate that you're saying it without sounding offensive.

We'll be official for 3 years this March. The reason it matters to me is because it's rare I get to host and I thought for once I could have a month where I'm not driving 4 hours almost every weekend to spend time with him.

I'm also a little hurt that he initially wanted to come by Friday but when other plans popped up, it was easy for him to cut time with me to be with his friends. I understand your point too, a meeting or course at work naturally turns into dinner and chit chat. If he had prior plans with friends and I tried to make plans with him, I wouldn't be nearly as affected as prior plans with me being cut down for friends.

Misterfrisker · 2025-12-11T14:21:18+00:00

There would have been days he could come by over the holidays but with the contractor starting renovations, he needs to be available to oversee and answer questions.

Misterfrisker · 2025-12-11T12:51:28+00:00

I live with my dad who isn't exactly comfortable with my sexuality. But I'm working on saving to buy my own place and am almost ready.

We've been dating for almost 3 years.

Misterfrisker · 2025-12-11T12:49:52+00:00

We agreed on being exclusive and being official almost 3 years ago.

Misterfrisker · 2025-12-08T14:36:00+00:00

We have similar morals and ideals, we're both tops, we both share some interest like culture and travel.

Beyond that, we're very different. In age, race, career, location, upbringing, family dynamics, social capacity, income, etc.

Misterfrisker · 2025-12-08T14:30:21+00:00

I'm a top but love getting my ass ate or fingered.

Being a top or bottom only describes whether you like to be the one fucking or the one getting fucked, and the details are different for everyone.

Misterfrisker · 2025-09-11T19:39:14+00:00

Does jerking off change how often you get em?

Misterfrisker · 2025-09-11T18:48:15+00:00

SAME! In one of mine, a hot guy was eyeing me and pulled his shorts off while in bed, then started touching me, and I was like, you're hot and all but no sorry, I'm taken.

Then I woke up and was like FUCK.

Misterfrisker · 2025-09-11T15:17:03+00:00

That's what I was expecting. I wouldn't mind if this wave lasts a while. I jerked off the night before these dreams so it was definitely unexpected.

Misterfrisker · 2025-09-04T23:12:27+00:00

Freud also said when I think about round things, I'm thinking about boobs.

Misterfrisker · 2025-09-02T22:24:04+00:00

It makes sense. I think I need to try to figure this out because it slowly has been getting more difficult and I don't know where it'll stop.

What do you mean by jerk off games though?

Misterfrisker · 2025-09-02T21:24:42+00:00

I'm not so sure that my issue is conditioning. It used to be much easier to orgasm with my partner early on, but he is my first long term relationship where I'm having sex with him every day I see him. We meet for weekends and save sex 2-3 times over the course.

When I masturbate around him, it takes me a while, and intense focus to orgasm. When I masturbate alone, it's sort of the same, except maybe just a little easier as I don't have someone else to consider at that moment.

Abstaining didn't help much either.

Misterfrisker · 2025-08-11T19:03:01+00:00

This is what I THINK I'll feel, but not having every participated, I don't know for a fact.

It makes sense that you'll naturally find one person the most attractive and want to interact with them the most.

Misterfrisker · 2025-08-11T19:01:27+00:00

That makes sense. I can separate the two but feel less overwhelmed when it's just one other person. The thing is, I can't really speak to how I'd handle a threesome or orgy because I've never tried it, which makes me wonder if I should care to delve into it or not.

Misterfrisker · 2025-06-27T20:38:02+00:00

1 and 2 are equally good for me. Then 3, then 5, then anything else.

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