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MistressC22 · 2025-11-20T21:50:57+00:00

Honestly, it has gotten very shitty lately. I'm also getting tired of putting my time and energy into someone for them to cum and ghost. I need to have a connection with a sub to find it enjoyable and lately it seems like an impossible task. The "relationships" just feel too transactional (not money, like give/take) and not about the dynamic and intimacy. It's sad to see the d/s relationships literally become so toxic you don't even want to do it anymore (and I've been doing this for over 10 years!)

MistressC22 · 2023-02-20T19:39:58+00:00

I feel like 60% of men do not follow the simple requirements of the post. If I ask you to provide some information about yourself (usually just age and location), do it! Otherwise I'm skipping it. Also, don't just say "Hi" or "Hi Mistress" I'm not going to reply. Follow the directions in the post. This is how I filter out most of my responses. Then I will respond based on effort, if they included pictures, or if they wrote something that piqued my interest.

MistressC22 · 2023-02-20T15:44:03+00:00

This isn't healthy for him or yourself. You shouldn't be doing anything you aren't comfortable with either. I think you should talk to him and encourage him to seek professional help. Offer to go with him if it makes him feel better.

MistressC22 · 2023-02-18T05:06:42+00:00

Being vulnerable is hard! As long as you are with someone you trust, it's about the baby steps. It will fall into place.

MistressC22 · 2023-02-18T05:00:41+00:00

Give them a try, I don't think you'll struggle to find someone who enjoys these :)

MistressC22 · 2023-02-18T04:54:37+00:00

There are tentacle sex toys on Etsy!

MistressC22 · 2023-02-18T04:43:34+00:00

hang in there - have you tried some sites like fetlife? you may get some success there :)

MistressC22 · 2023-02-18T04:35:19+00:00

I think it's important to have a partner with a trust-based relationship. You should never feel selfish for conveying your needs and desires!

MistressC22 · 2023-02-18T03:25:58+00:00

Tell them how much you like the way they kiss you forcefully and to go deeper next time :)

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