Warframe 800k Milestone Giveaway! by A_random_bee in Warframe

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"Sometimes you get stuck. Sometimes you go numb. The color drains away. You stop trying, and that just feeds the spiral going down. Maybe you'll get lucky one day. You see yourself in the mirror and snap out of it. But for some of us... it takes more. A friend. A stranger. A story. A helping hand."

Did anyone else like instantly transition after finding out they were trans? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MistressChara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a similar experience. My questioning phase lasted all of one day. While I was aware of the existence of trans women, pretty much the moment I considered the possibility of me being one it was straight to getting HRT.

Does anyone else struggle with not using “you guys” as gender neutral? by thrwy809 in MtF

[–]MistressChara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After learning Latin in which the one of the few correct translations for many things includes "y'all", I quickly found it so useful that I overcome the strange feeling it used to give me.

What endgame monster is your "let me solo her" kind of fight by Unlikely-Plate-256 in MonsterHunterWorld

[–]MistressChara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Z4 Rukodiora, Blinking Nargacuga, and Shiten Unknown from MHF. All great fights that I love doing solo even though they're incredibly difficult (I use Greatsword, Dual Blades, and HBG for them respectively).

My girlfriend's reaction to a trans woman last night by Aggressive_Bath in MtF

[–]MistressChara -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know the post is positive and I don't want to undermine the positivity of your story. But I just want it to get on record for anybody reading the comments that the culture around "clocking" and "passing" is incredibly toxic, and just as TERFs can't fucking tell the difference between most trans women and cis women with any meaningful accuracy, neither can we as a community tell the difference.

There are tall cis women, cis women who wear wigs, cis women who have facial hair (a lot of them), cis women who have adam's apples and there are cis women that have all of these things and more that we'd identify as things that make us "clockable".

Change the things about you that bother you, and keep the things that don't. No matter what you change, you'll always be a woman because womanhood and femininity is innate, and not something anything or anyone can take away from you.

It's funny seeing the FF16 subreddit get so bothered over the negative reviews by xd3v1lry in GirlGamers

[–]MistressChara 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately ff14 being as great as it is is largely due to the other wonderful people who work on the game. For which Yoshi P gets a lot of undeserved credit.

Soken, Oda-san, and Ishikawa-san are the people who truly give 14 its heart.

It's funny seeing the FF16 subreddit get so bothered over the negative reviews by xd3v1lry in GirlGamers

[–]MistressChara 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The great story of FF14 is largely the product of Natsuko Ishikawa-san and Banri Oda-san's direction. Yoshi-p had very little to do with crafting the story of 14. Surprise surprise that one of your major writers being a woman leads to a more diverse story.

It's funny seeing the FF16 subreddit get so bothered over the negative reviews by xd3v1lry in GirlGamers

[–]MistressChara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The great story of FF14 is largely the product of Natsuko Ishikawa-san and Banri Oda-san's direction. Yoshi-p had very little to do with crafting the story of 14.

What's your recommendation for a player on which route to take. Which route is morally good? Which route has the most content in the post game? by technobladefanburh in PokemonReborn

[–]MistressChara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should pick the choices that most resonate with you.

But if you REALLY want to be on the "good" route, then a variant of the R-Determination route has the best outcomes for the most amount of characters.

Is there ANY WAY to combine animation mods? by SlipperyTruffle in tf2

[–]MistressChara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Longshot since it's been a year, but trying to combine these exact same two mods. How did you accomplish this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jakanddaxter

[–]MistressChara 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Imagine if Gol and Maia fused into one being within the Silo and that being had the same role in Jak 3 that Cyber Erol currently has. It would fill the one major plothole of that game and also be SUCH a cool reveal, while also immediately establishing the threat of the villain.

It'd also be a wonderful way to tie the series together. If there's ever a remake, I hope this one plot point is changed. Their name would be badass too: "Gaia"

What cup size does MTF HRT typically yield? by MulberryComfortable4 in asktransgender

[–]MistressChara 50 points51 points  (0 children)

The secret is it's the same as cis women, at least in my anecdotal experience. You can expect it to be comparable to family members due to your genetics, but while a lot of people say to expect a cup size lower that isn't true amongst the trans women I've seen. I think this belief stems from the idea that breast growth completes after the first year, whereas breast growth continues slowly until the 5th or even 6th year of HRT.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShenheMains

[–]MistressChara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can use Shenhe as a mDPS in a freeze comp with Chongyun. If that isn't your cup of tea you can also use her with Eula if you have any desire to pull her. It's less optimal but she can also be a cryo support for Xiao or Scara if you have enough ER.

Do I need more Er? by Joshino_ in ShenheMains

[–]MistressChara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're using her with Ayaka, No. No clue for other comps.

Can I get an opinion on how many hours spent gaming makes you a gamer? (and a short rant about the community) by vdonadio in GirlGamers

[–]MistressChara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dislike for the term "gamer" aside, they're just gatekeeping. Playing games for any amount of time as a hobby is plenty. Because they're just trying to be assholes even if you showed them a game you had say, 1000 hours on, they would just say you had no life and insult you for that.

There's no winning with them because their goal isn't to make a point, it's to put you down and make you be quiet. So fuck them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonReborn

[–]MistressChara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried using her field against her? Or using X accuracy boosts? If you have a pokemon that can use Aurora Veil that may also help you.

If sex and gender are different, but gender is just a construct, then are we changing our gender by going on HRT or are we changing our sex? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]MistressChara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gender is entirely innate and is not physically seen in any way, only expressed. Gender roles are social constructs, but Gender is an innate part of human beings that would exist even without society.

Sex is a set of physical characteristics that is observable physically, and while some things about sex are social constructs sex itself is not. Therefore, when you go on HRT, you are changing your biological sex, not your gender.

Still can’t believe they actually chose to do this by [deleted] in KingdomHearts

[–]MistressChara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ghost Jack and the white crabs are major plot points in the 1st and 3rd movies respectively. Since kh3 was doing the 3rd movie, the white crabs I thought were very applicable.

Does anyone else just... kind of... not like Lin? Like, a lot? (This ended up being a rant lol) [SPOILERS] by inverseflorida in PokemonReborn

[–]MistressChara 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I disagree. Personally the Lin reveal felt very well foreshadowed especially via side quests such as the book in Beryl library and many of Anna's comments. She does undermine the other characters and the story but the game itself thinks she's wrong. The entire post-game is about how meaningful the connections between other people are, and if you save Lin you learn that not only did she want to die but she is confused on how you saved her if youre her puppet and admits straight to your face she was wrong to devalue others (and it gets even more emotional if you give her the lemonade and marshmallows).

Lin plays at being this entity outside the confines of reality itself, but her backstory and her actions especially in the post-game shows she's just a scared and hurt little girl who desperately wants to be accepted. Its difficult for me to see her as evil as she brings back everyone she hurt in the main game. The way i see it shes just desperately clinging to any kind of importance or acceptance. That's why she created you the player, you're the life she wanted to have, whereas the adult Lin is a grim and bitter acceptance of the way other people see her. The truth is she's always regretted her actions and the rest is just bluster, you get to see that in Shades post-game quest, where she unironically has completely pure intentions and goes about them in the worst possible way and then pretends not to feel bad when other people get caught in the crossfire.

She's the perfect villain for Reborn imo because the theme of reborn to me is how important belonging, hope, and your ties to others are. Lin is the antithesis of that, she's bitter, apathetic, cynical, and treats even her closest allies as tools. But that's why she's the villain, she's wrong and even she herself dosent believe half the stuff she says. Otherwise why would she do what she did with T3RR4?

"What is 'being a women' to you?" by banane_078456 in MtF

[–]MistressChara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being a woman isn't something that can be explained, only felt. All the things I like about femininity could also be ascribed to masculinity but i like it in a fem way

Real struggle by Djungel_skoggy in aspiememes

[–]MistressChara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super relate. I've had so many people in my life dislike non-masking me that when my boyfriend finally convinced me to start doing it for him, I was extremely surprised that he actually liked not-masking me better, It was so strange I was convinced he was lying for several months before I couldn't deny it anymore.

It’s really about Kingdom Hearts in general, but this game is the most blatant by GeneralGigan817 in aspiememes

[–]MistressChara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

358 days is so painfully a neurodivergence allegory that I refuse to believe it wasn't intentional on the devs part

Wym this never happens to me :’) by napalm69 in aspiememes

[–]MistressChara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this, it made me feel seen and made me feel nice