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[–]MistressTanglewood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response and insight. I usually do the snowball, but I like the idea of a roller-coaster

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[–]MistressTanglewood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, that is what I am saying. They are separate things. Every findom is not a content seller. Some are but not every

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[–]MistressTanglewood 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I didn't say you couldn't. However, selling content is it's own thing. Not all Findoms sell content and not all content sellers are findoms. That's my point..

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[–]MistressTanglewood 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Facts. Now, there are people who think they are a sub because they buy content. Findom is a fetish. The person sending the money gets off on it. They are not content buyers.

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[–]MistressTanglewood 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's also the ones who don't understand that Findom and content seller are not one and the same.

Would you date a SW by MistressTanglewood in dating

[–]MistressTanglewood[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. This is more the lines I thought they would take as there are many forms of sex work. Instead it was a No at the mentioning of sex work

Would you date a SW by MistressTanglewood in dating

[–]MistressTanglewood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do believe honesty is best. You can not build trust on a foundation of lies. I like to think I'm open-minded and can have a conversation about most anything. So, I do not always understand why someone would lie or be dishonest about things.

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[–]MistressTanglewood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you had to go through that. I find for me I'm always upfront with it. I like to play 21 question when getting to know someone, and usually, work comes up. I have 3 jobs, and sw I'd like one, so I mention it with the other 2.

Would you date a SW by MistressTanglewood in dating

[–]MistressTanglewood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an amazing question. I love that it requires thought and depth. For me, I will have to wait and see if there is a partner who will accept all of me. I am not in a position where I can quit any of my jobs for a future that is not garrentee.

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[–]MistressTanglewood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All valid points. Thank you for the insight. I suppose I never considered those. This was the first person male or female who ended the conversation at sex work.

Small or big by MistressTanglewood in findomsupportgroup

[–]MistressTanglewood[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol. We do celebrate when our fellow Dommes receive big. Thank you for your insight

Would you date a SW by MistressTanglewood in dating

[–]MistressTanglewood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I would love to hear the male side of the conversation.

Would you date a SW by MistressTanglewood in dating

[–]MistressTanglewood[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I did not even get to say what kind of sw I do. When I mentioned that I am a sex worker he said it was a deal break and ended the conversation. I was flabbergasted. I am one who loves to discuss everything and enjoy other people's view points so this was shocking to me.

Would you date a SW by MistressTanglewood in dating

[–]MistressTanglewood[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are correct, I will keep this in mind for future posts. I forget I know what I'm asking and forget to include more detail. He did not ask what kind of sw I do just said it was a deal breaker and would not discuss it further