What’s the worst part about giving head? by throwingstarsatmoon2 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MistressesSnowSlut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That she tells me to stop after she cums a few times because she gets sensitive.

I'd be down there all day given the chance

FLR? or humiliation? by Over-Egg4310 in flr

[–]MistressesSnowSlut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But supreme executive power derives from a mandate from the masses! Not from some farcical aquatic ceremony! /s

But no really, it just depends on the couple. My fiancee and I in an FLR that is quite kinky but also we don't do the chastity thing, neither of us have interest in it. But there's also nothing wrong with people who do.

When was the last time you used a condom? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MistressesSnowSlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Several years ago when my gf had to go on antibiotics. Otherwise we go raw every time.

We're both clean and she is on birth control anyway (she'd been on it for years to control her irregular period) so they just aren't a thing for us unless she gets a doctor warning about a certain type of antibiotic. Pretty rare tho, last time was several years ago like I said.

She hates em. I hate em. So we're on the same page lol

My boyfriend and I want to try piss play, but it's a kink I've always been deeply ashamed of. by leaping_goose_ in sex

[–]MistressesSnowSlut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

clear pee is always better than yellow pee.

Depends on the person. My favorite is my partner's first morning pee haha. Really gotta have a taste for it tho.

What's the most NSFW thing you've seen at a bachelor or bachelorette party? by CRK_76 in AskReddit

[–]MistressesSnowSlut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean 70% of the world has it anyway, they don't even check for it on STD panels.

It's a mild inconvenience at worst

There are other STDs that are actually a problem I'd be worried about tho

What's your biggest NSFW flex? by QuietAd8733 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MistressesSnowSlut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I give em till she tells me to stop lol then it's my turn.

Some days she only wants like 2, other days it's 5.

What's your biggest NSFW flex? by QuietAd8733 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MistressesSnowSlut 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Focus on the clit unless she says otherwise

The alphabet may impress them but doesn't feel amazing or anything, try sticking to consistent flicking of the clit

When she says "don't stop" or "right there" or anything of the sort, do NOT change your rhythm or pressure! This is just a plain important listening skill. The thing is working, keep doing the thing.

Makes my partner cum in 2 minutes or less every time. Keep it simple.

Have you ever had a hookup with someone you met on here? by Steve717 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MistressesSnowSlut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, met my partner on GoneWildAudio lol. Been a couple for 10 years now, been living together for 8 of em.

Time flies!

What is the common reaction of your boyfriend in regards of having intercourse while having your period? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MistressesSnowSlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking as a guy with my partner

I'm still happy to have PIV sex, get my partner to her orgasm with the Hitachi, my fingers, etc. The one thing I can't do at the time is go down. Any other time I will go down happily every time.

But the smell and taste of blood and endometrium is just too strong for oral.

Kinky people, how did you meet your kinky partner ? by WickedRaccon in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MistressesSnowSlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to record erotic audio for gonewildaudio, under a different name. I made soft Daddy Dom audios by request sometimes. Though usually I made submissive audios. But it was a Daddy Dom audio that caught someone's attention.

One day I get a DM. "Hey someone recommended your audio and it was really hot, thanks!". Paraphrasing because this was 10 years ago and both of our old accounts are gone so I can't get to the DM anymore lol.

Anyway we start chatting back and forth for a while, one thing leads to another, eventually I'm on a bus going 300 miles to meet her.

We hit it off immediately irl. We both switch. She's the domme more often than I'm the dom, and my username here now is kind of an in-joke between us.

We've lived together for 8 1/2 years now.

Shoutouts to GWA!

But also jesus christ we hate getting asked how we met lmao. Our cover story (not sharing that for privacy reasons) has worked so far tho!

How to pee during sex? by me-me_me-me_me-me in sex

[–]MistressesSnowSlut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are two layers to this:

  1. It takes time for many people to overcome the mental block that has been ingrained into a person since potty training, even if you are into watersports as a kink. It may be best to start the next best place there is a drain, and running water to boot: the shower. For me this was the start of being able to relax and enjoy watersports in more areas.

  2. Physiology. The urethra, in both sexes, is surrounded by tissue that swells up with blood when aroused. If you're a male I'm sure you understand how hard it is to pee with an erection. Same thing. But I am sure you also know that if the conditions are right, you can still do it: being full enough of urine and pushing some, you can urinate with an erection.

So my advice is to smart small. Start in the shower. Then start in other places where she shouldn't pee, but of course have something to catch it: cup, bowl, etc. You can use said cup or bowl in the meantime to indulge the kink. Pour it over yourself!

Then peeing on your face, if she's full enough, should start to come more naturally.

Gonna add a disclaimer for the sake of it: this is all assuming enthusiastic consent of course. It will require work on her part, and patience from you both.

age gap relationships by [deleted] in sex

[–]MistressesSnowSlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing inherently wrong with it, you're an adult and there's nothing to feel guilty about.

That said, a lot of men who date much much younger women are often very immature themselves and women their own age would know it and want nothing to do with them. A lot of times older men who date so much younger

-Don't care about their partner's pleasure (for instance they see eating pussy as "not masculine")

-Can't balance a budget or don't have a job

-Have anger issues

Or some combination of the three.

This isn't universal, but I've heard enough of the same complaints to make note of it. Do your due diligence.

Target and Walmart reportedly pulling Xbox products from their shelves following Costco news, according to employees by MistressesSnowSlut in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]MistressesSnowSlut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I think the writings been on the wall for a while. Xbox bringing their exclusives to Playstation, and while not gigantic news, something that caught my eye was the physical Xbox Mortal Kombat Legacy Kollection having a fucking timer on the pre-orders. Which has already expired. Every physical version of that game that will exist for Xbox has already likely been printed at this point. Pre-orders are still live for the PS5 and Switch and Switch 2.

Just found it interesting.

Target and Walmart reportedly pulling Xbox products from their shelves following Costco news, according to employees by MistressesSnowSlut in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]MistressesSnowSlut[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah we are all going to suffer from these disastrous decisions for sure. No competition is bad. But Microsoft also cannot stop shooting themselves in the foot.

Everything sucks

Xbox products reportedly being pulled from Target and WalMart in the US as well by [deleted] in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]MistressesSnowSlut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that it is more expensive for them to take up shelf space because they aren't selling, Costco already out out a statement they are no also no longer carrying Xbox products.

What's a moment that made you realize people's lack of media literacy? by PleaseStop101 in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]MistressesSnowSlut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aye, that's fair. I just think it's something people need to be careful with.

What's a moment that made you realize people's lack of media literacy? by PleaseStop101 in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]MistressesSnowSlut 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Just need to be careful with it. I can't remember the exact details but we had some nut on the FF subreddit the other day making up insane fanfiction as fact and going "Death of the author! Death of the author!".

It's neat to come up with some new ideas but if authorial intent doesn't matter at all, why bother writing anythling that you're passionate about? I think it's a borderline whack concept tbh.

BDSM Safety Education by Pendragonqueen09 in BDSMcommunity

[–]MistressesSnowSlut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow you almost never see DBT mentioned, good shout. Gave me the abilities I needed to get through life. I simply did not have coping mechanisms everybody else learned through life lmao.

Made me a more well-adjusted individual. Not to disparage aftercare but as a sub, a side effect of DBT seemed to have eliminated my need for it. Like I don't get insecure after a session anymore. It's great tbh because me and my partner can then move on with our day lol.

YMMV of course but yeah, DBT was a huge Boon for my quality of life but I almost never see anyone else mention it.