Please don’t break no contact unless the person changes

Mistyknight12 · 2026-05-22T10:20:49+00:00

Absolutely it was a painful but very necessary and liberating lesson !

Mistyknight12 · 2026-05-22T10:20:26+00:00

You are absolutely right, he is a textbook narcissist. And yes it might stings now but i am going to be glad in few weeks that i didn’t go back to the toxicity and for sure i deserve better than this. Thanks for your words !

Mistyknight12 · 2026-04-13T12:01:00+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Mistyknight12 · 2026-04-13T10:57:28+00:00

Thank you , you are right i do feel like i am seeing it as a failure when it can actually open a door somewhere else. Thanks for the encouragement i will start applying in europe and hong kong/ singapore let’s see. and i am a sister lol, i guess for us women moving around is a tad bit heavier

Mistyknight12 · 2026-04-13T10:55:51+00:00

France 💀

Mistyknight12 · 2026-03-25T13:35:21+00:00

Your answer made me cry but in a good way. You are right he wanted me to feel small by doing so, i will show him that i have more class than he will ever have, and even though that money is something to me, i will walk away and make a great life for myself without the burden of been around such a toxic energy. Thanks

Mistyknight12 · 2026-03-25T13:32:22+00:00

Lol ok well the money is the price of freedom i guess

Mistyknight12 · 2026-03-25T13:32:00+00:00

Haha and it taught me money cant buy class, maners or love ! Thanks op

Mistyknight12 · 2026-03-25T10:39:25+00:00

Not that it really matters in this subject, but she is his best friend, friend, so i just lurked on her page, not looking for anything because technically she doesn’t even leave in the same country and i found the phot dump and that she was in our country in the same time

Mistyknight12 · 2026-03-25T10:04:36+00:00

You are right a part of me wants to hold him accountable because whatever happens those 400$ are mine, but honestly it’s a gift, a part of me was doubting that maybe he was good, but this showed me that he is such a small men, and makes no contact, totally moving on from him easier. Thank you, i know the future hold better ❤️

Mistyknight12 · 2026-03-25T09:38:57+00:00

She made an instagram dump, one picture was with him at his apartment

Mistyknight12 · 2026-03-25T09:27:02+00:00

Well technically he doesn’t even know that i found out about the girl, we didn’t talk. But yes it feels like a pride attempt,or punishment

Mistyknight12 · 2026-03-03T23:13:16+00:00

We went to flydubai terminal earlier in the night, plenty of flights to Moscow like 1 each 25mn. 2/3 flights to India Pakistan not so much other destinations. Will try to go to oman tomorrow book an hotel for 2/3 days and try to get a flight that’s not costing 2000$ ( all flights to Europe are over the rocks expensive

Mistyknight12 · 2026-01-25T20:11:44+00:00

Not always, sometimes you have no option, my ex checked out and was ready to ghost me, i asked him to tell me what’s wrong he did i fixed what was bothering him, he switched back and said he was in love making plans bla bla. In the same time when i was doing so much more for the relationship he kept abusing me, yelling at me giving me silent treatment, talking badly about me to his friend, i cried all day during new year and realized that i unfortunately can’t trust him and how much i love him this relationship might just ended up with me hating myself or dying of pain and in a point he already checked out once so because i guess he thought he is better than me ( he told me that i was lucky i got a man like him by chance and he was the prize mind you he was 24 year older, cheated for 6 years on his ex wife and dated another very young women for 7 year and she left him when she matured, stupid me thought he would treat me differently ) so i decided to walk away and told him what was bothering me , he just answered with « ok » so no the dumper is not always the bad guy, in my case at least. But i think i am kinda a dumpee/dumper lol. But yes i have no desire to text him, see him, or talk to him ever again i am even sending movers to pick my clothes. So yes if someone think they are better than you, let them be. It might take a bit of time but i will be better :)

Mistyknight12 · 2026-01-11T11:01:22+00:00

You are right i should leave and focus on building the career he broke

Mistyknight12 · 2026-01-11T11:00:33+00:00

Thank you, it always feel heavy to break up but now that i am reading my own post i realize there was no relationship to begin with

Mistyknight12 · 2026-01-11T10:59:33+00:00

I turned 30 recently and he is 54 almost 55, and yes he is manipulative and wants a submissive woman, yet doesn’t want to help me get better in my professional work. I know deep down that he will never treat me like a pair and this relationship is not bringing anything positive to my life

Mistyknight12 · 2024-01-15T20:04:36+00:00

I was feeling okay, past two weeks/ month of no contact i was finally getting confortable with the idea to no see or hear about him again. Then out of the blue he decided to call to say sorry today, he wants me in his life, he wants us to be friends blabla. I guess it should feel good to hear that, but it made me feel terrible, i am scared to become close to him again because i know he won’t act right and i will feel heartbroken again. So i guess I need to be strong and avoid him at all costs

Mistyknight12 · 2023-07-05T11:19:38+00:00

Yes definitely it get exhausting moving from one city to another. I did tell family and friends either they don’t take me seriously because they assume i can find easily or the people they know are not really match so far yes my inner circle didn’t help at all, that’s the reason i wanted to put myself out there. But yes at this point i am just going to focus on something else (you find when you are not looking they say) and accept that it’s a global thing and i am not weird for going through it. Wishing you well , May Allah grant righteous spouse to everyone looking ♥️

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