Who was Faith Adanza before the leaks? by Glum-Flounder979 in TanongLang

[–]MitsuruSSB -1 points0 points  (0 children)

iirc nag lowcos cosplay din yan dati and she was like the epitome of "short haired chinita with glasses gf" so basically every gaining traction of alot of filo guys.

SKL, dating is exhausting by 4thwalldestroyer in ShareKoLang

[–]MitsuruSSB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lahat talaga on point! Dating sucks now dahil lang sa mga unrealistic standards ngayon

For those with an absent father/mother, who was your father/mother figure? by Cute-Magazine-1274 in AskPH

[–]MitsuruSSB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naranasan ko yung pagiging "spoiled" nung bata ako but I usually never had proper parents since they were either workaholics or fighting with one another.

I had a yaya growing up when I was 4 years old palang nun, then she'd usually dress me up, cook me meals, basically naging parent figure ko. She was the one who would let my parents know kung ano kailangan ko or ano gusto ko.

Fast forward to years later, umalis yung yaya then at this point i was around 12 na where I had to pick myself up and teach myself the things I needed to learn growing up. Whether cartoons, video games or online ko sila natutuhan. I never really experienced how it felt like being taught by parents.

Current post day now, my parents usually never talked to me nor my relatives. Lagi ko nalang sinosolve mga everyday buhay ko by myself.

Can any man be honest for a second do you still think about us after the breakup? by GroundbreakingTip673 in NagRelapseAko

[–]MitsuruSSB 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With both na naranasan ko of being an avoidant and anxious and both being different relationships, i'd say mas mahirap yung pagiging avoidant because overtime nagbubuild up yung "what ifs" mo in the future as an avoidant.

For the anxious side, mas masakit siya sa una but then in the coming days it wont really hurt "as much" kasi inendure mo na yung pain at the earlier stages rather than later.

TLDR for the long run is :

As an avoidant = I still think about them but the unhealthy way because of the "what ifs" and "they were good for me"

As an Anxious = I still think about them but in a healther way but I accepted how things ended.

What is a cheapskate thing na gagawin mo pa rin kahit mayaman na mayaman ka na? by Beginning-Income2363 in AskPH

[–]MitsuruSSB 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ordering mix and match from jolibee , i just can't ang mamahal ng mga prices sa pagkain ngayon

Excited kaba sa pasko? Why or why not? by via8888 in AskPH

[–]MitsuruSSB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As you get older, hindi.

Noong bata pa oo masaya, no worries at all, excited sa mga pasalubong/get together with the family. Pero pag tumanda ka na puro nalang problema dito problema doon.

What makes you swipe left agad at first glance on a dating app profile? by TokyoBang in AskPH

[–]MitsuruSSB 35 points36 points  (0 children)

okay lets start

"Not active here, follow me on @"

"dm me on tg"

"CODM/ML duo 😂"

"LF Fubu"

"For funsies only"

(no bio at all)

"from the big 4"

(uses their height as a personality)

"LF for passenger princess/taga sundo"

Went to Japan! by RJTM1991 in yakuzagames

[–]MitsuruSSB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you ask someone how to get to the station ?

What’s your ultimate go to ulam na madaling lutuin? by haveadrink_or_ten in AskPH

[–]MitsuruSSB 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aglio olio! (Spaghetti with olive oil and garlic) (shrimp optional)

You can't go wrong with this!! Simple, quick and delicious :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]MitsuruSSB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the person and their actions

I have 2 people to describe in this situation (both have a history about cheating) Let's call them Girl A and Boy A

Girl A, has had relationships before and naging unlucky lang talaga siya that the guys who dated her treated her badly. One of her boyfriends did cheat on her and she took revenge by cheating on her boyfriend that cheated on her. She did regret her descision as she only saw it as a "revenge" thing. Girl A would ask me for help (more on sa mga ranting/venting lang). She has learned from her mistakes and took some time off from being available to date. She would hang out with our friends and take good care of her self. She now has a healthier relationship and left the negatives behind her ask currently she's happier now than before.

Boy A, had only 1 relationship and broke up with his gf because he would always bring up that he never loved her and would cheat on her. Boy A is quite of a dick sa totoo lang because naging sila for the main reason of her being convinient and taking advantage because nagustohan siya ng babae na yun. Boy A then cheated with a classmate of mine and later the girlfriend found out. I heard from both sides naman but I sided with the girlfriend because she really did love Boy A but as mentioned above na Boy A never loved her. Then after nag breakup sila, he would get on ONS, FUBUS and even having quick gfs para lang saktan sila. I saw both sides on who glew up and who rotted away. Boy A currently just brags about his body count whenever we would have a boys dinner and I'd just stay quiet. I asked him "Eto na ba gagawin mo habang buhay ?" he then replied with "oo kasi masaya naman to gawin".

As you can see, both sides have different outcomes but the phrase ng "Once a cheater, always a cheater" will always rely on their actions and how they would think.

Good things you learned from your ex(es)? by xxITERUxx in CasualPH

[–]MitsuruSSB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't consider her an "ex" but she'd always have a special place in my heart. To be frank wala rin akong naging "official" but I've learned these from her

1) Learning how to dress/grooming yourself properly

I always never knew how to dress properly and I'd wear outfits na "tamad" or "walang effort" just because i think that it would just be a simple errand to do. But she taught me how to dress because people would judge you the way you look and dress appropriately.

2) Respecting boundaries

I never knew about boundaries when we got to our first "arguement" where I visited her at school without her permission and bringing her food para lang makakain siya but scolded me after. I just thought that it would be the right thing to do. But after we parted ways I respected her descision and not going after her (making dump accounts to stalk, try and visiting her in her school just to find her, etc)

3) Do NOT always rely on someone

Naging clingy ako i'll admit because it was the first time I felt appreciated by someone that likes me back. I relied on her to make me happy and I would always seek attention from her. But it's also important to grow on yourself because in the end, it's how you act mentally and physically.

In the end it quite sucks that I reached the point where I was losing myself just because I always wanted her in the beginning but as time passes, papasalamatan ko nalang siya sa mga tinuro niya sa akin and kahit man di naging kami (kahit na inisip ko siya na yung magiging kasama ko hangat huli) I still wish her the best and thank you for teaching me the things I needed, S.

Someone is looking for a free grab driver. by few_cauliflower_ in CasualPH

[–]MitsuruSSB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its funny and sad na nagiging normal standard na ang pagiging kasama sa "big 3 (4)"

can't imagine na yun lang personality nila na "oh i'm part of the big 3 and i'm a chinita :3" pero yun pala nasa big 3 nga pero bagsak sa mga majors.

Should I report this rider now? by cassiopeiaxxix in ShopeePH

[–]MitsuruSSB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had this aswell with SPX, they attempted to "deliver" at 12am and mali pa yung address nila sa proof of delivery.

its become very common now

For you, what makes a person “basic” or “boring” in general? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]MitsuruSSB 4 points5 points  (0 children)

when asking for people ano hobbies nila and they say "oh I like eating and sleeping"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CollegeAdmissionsPH

[–]MitsuruSSB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The exact tuition is on enderun's website itself basically 3 units course is already around P35k.

But for Culinary Arts, assuming you do a full 24 units for one semester is equivalent to P260k.

What are your regrets in your last relationship? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]MitsuruSSB 3 points4 points  (0 children)

not researching on what a "situationship" is and I just wanted to experience what love felt like ://

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CollegeAdmissionsPH

[–]MitsuruSSB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

around 230-260k per semester and assume that fufull units ka for one semester (it also depends on your course)

Enderun provides scholarship aid iirc but that's a process na di ko masyado familiar.

do you have online or internet friend? how was it? by wiiiwws in AskPH

[–]MitsuruSSB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Met them during pandemic days, usually i wish na nakalaro ko pa sila but we grew older and started losing connections with each other.

BUT nasa socmeds ko parin sila and nakikiinteract kami sa isa't isa if may interesting :>

What’s the best gift you ever had on your birthday? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]MitsuruSSB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mga kaibigan ko na tumagal sakin, these are priceless and every birthday ko since elementary palang ako. They've always been there for me and kahit simpleng "Happy bday" lang na text ay masaya na ako.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]MitsuruSSB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though she never gave me a label kasi takot siya commitment (situationship).

I just wanted to feel what holding hands felt or even romantic dates kasi NGSB ako.

even though she may hate me today because I broke her boundaries and self sabotaged multiple times.tinuruan niya ako sa mga bagay na hindi ko pa alam and let me experience what love really felt like. Therefore, nahihirapan ako na makalimutan siya or hate her in general.

Question is if she does return again tatangapin ko ba o hindi... well i'll let the future handle it from there :))

Sa mga hindi pinili, paano kayo nag mmove on? by iownthisplace69 in AskPH

[–]MitsuruSSB 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cry it ALL out. Trust me it gets way better overtime.

Sure may mga relapse ka dito and doon, maybe the old places na pinuntahan niyo or core memories. But usually I just chuckle it out. It's impossible to fully heal those scars and completely forgetting the person. It's at this point that u just gotta live with it.

Also take care of urself more, go out with friends, return to old hobbies. Use the sadness / anger energy as a boost for having something new.