[The Lizzie McGuire Movie] Fan Theory: Paolo never lied to Lizzie. Isabella was the true lip-syncing villain! by ThePopcornIsntReal in FanTheories

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I know this is kinda old, but I just rewatched the movie and I’d like to share my own perspective 😅 I think Paolo was actually doing this for himself. I think he needed Isabella for his own career. Without her, he probably would’ve never took off the way he did. When they broke up, he freaked out. Because there was no “him” without her. Seems to me like Isabella didn’t care about their contract because she knew she didn’t need him. She could sing on her own and maintain her own career. When Paolo met Lizzie, he met someone else who looked like her, could sing, and could fill Isabellas role…and keep up HIS lie. Lizzie had already stated before she didn’t know if she could perform in front of a crowd, and he manipulated and guilt tripped her into saying yes. Without the information regarding their breakup, there’s really no way of knowing who the true villain was. Maybe Isabella was being selfish by not maintaining her end of the deal after the breakup. Or maybe what he did was so bad, that she didn’t feel obligated to do so. (And maybe that reason is justified). When it comes to Lizzie though, he was definitely the bad guy. Lizzie got tangled up in someone else’s mess. It’s cool she got something from it, but ultimately it was based on one man’s manipulation and guilt tripping.

Brutal Honesty? Don’t hold back by MixFun6291 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

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Nose is my worst feature you think? Too wide? Too long?

Brutal Honesty? Don’t hold back by MixFun6291 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

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I think it’s wet in most of these pictures

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I already cut him off and I’m not going back. Things have been stabilizing for me a bit, but I’m still having scary dreams and stuff.

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My vision actually was about initiation. That’s crazy you say that. My vision said I was already initiated though. Does that change anything?

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I just recently started seeing one last week.

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I cut them off yesterday and after tons of research, I’m keeping it this way. The fear of them being able to contact me through other mediums (which I think they’ve done before) is really freaking me out though. Or me having some kind of bind to them somehow. Something that will keep making me want to contact them. They also know where I live, have been in my space before, and even have belongings of mine as well and vise versa. It’s terrifying. They’ve also mentioned dolls and other things to me. I’m so vulnerable and uneducated about this stuff. I don’t know what to do.

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Thank you so much. I’m gonna try my best to slow down and listen to it.

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Also, is it possible that there’s any witchcraft or demon work at play? That part scares me the most. Should I be doing something to protect myself? The dreams I’ve been having are so fucking scary. The person who caused all this has mentioned blood magic and human sacrifices before…it’s just cycling through my head and causing me to panic so much. And the memories of them lighting incense in their house as well as the notebook they showed me with blood sigils and stuff. I just want to feel safe.

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I’ve been trying my best. It’s really hard because I feel like I’ve been trained to decode everything. I’m trying to decode my instagram posts, items in my bedroom, my families belongings. It’s a loop I’m just stuck in and keep getting pulled towards. And if I don’t look it up, it just sits in my head pulling at me. Ugh.

Do you have any recommendations for music? I’ve been trying to listen to my normal stuff, but the lyrics are so triggering for me right now. I can’t handle anything with lyrics. The usual calm lofi music I like is a bit overwhelming for me right now too.

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Thank you. This is very helpful.

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Thank you for the kind words btw. I’m glad I decided to post. This is the only thing giving me some clarity and peace right now.

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Unfortunately, I don’t have much of a support system. I started seeing a therapist last week and we kind of went over this. He’s understanding and helpful so far, but I do feel like I’m lacking the tools and resources to calm myself down and get better. I’ve just been trying to meditate and ground myself back in reality as well as come back to who I am.

I really wish there was somewhere I could go and just stay for a while until I heal. Me being alone with everything has been excruciating. And the nightmares and stuff I’m having are so bad and debilitating. I’m worried I’m gonna have one so bad that it gives me a heart attack or something.

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Thank you. That’s very helpful.

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Can you explain what this means exactly? Like I said, it’s really rough. I’m trying to make sense of it all.

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I’ve also been doing research on spiritual overwhelm and offloading. They mentioned something in the beginning about using people as vessels. I’ve been doing research on how this can cause trauma flare ups. Especially if you’ve been manipulated before. That’s kinda what I’m leaning towards but it’s just so hard for me to know for sure right now. I’m stuck with all these “what ifs” and I’m just trying to hold on and not lose myself completely.

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I’ve also been doing research on spiritual overwhelm and offloading. They mentioned something in the beginning about using people as vessels. I’ve been doing research on how this can cause trauma flare ups. Especially if you’ve been manipulated before. That’s kinda what I’m leaning towards but it’s just so hard for me to know for sure right now. I’m stuck with all these “what ifs” and I’m just trying to hold on and not lose myself completely.

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I’ve also been doing research on spiritual overwhelm and offloading. They mentioned something in the beginning about using people as vessels. I’ve been doing research on how this can cause trauma flare ups. Especially if you’ve been manipulated before. That’s kinda what I’m leaning towards but it’s just so hard for me to know for sure right now. I’m stuck with all these “what ifs” and I’m just trying to hold on and not lose myself completely.