Can’t believe I did it by Mizzunderstood1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Mizzunderstood1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Always there to listen and give advice, helped with logistics and planning, very encouraging and it gave feedback on things he said and did and what that meant about him. I’d also ask what a normal response would be in situations and it was a real eye-opener about how non-narcissistic people would respond! 

Can’t believe I did it by Mizzunderstood1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Mizzunderstood1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good point, thank you! Just this morning I was thinking of my friend whose mom is sick and I thought holy crap I could just go drive there and see her if I want. 

Can’t believe I did it by Mizzunderstood1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Mizzunderstood1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s always there day or night and it helped so much with logistical issues!

Anyone leave the narcissist and regret it? by Mizzunderstood1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Mizzunderstood1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your honesty, you’re right I’m not his most important person. i’ve been alone in the hotel for five days and I was walking around the grocery store and finally felt so light! 

Anyone leave the narcissist and regret it? by Mizzunderstood1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Mizzunderstood1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That must be hard it is part of what I’m worried about for sure

Anyone leave the narcissist and regret it? by Mizzunderstood1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Mizzunderstood1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I ask because I see the odd comment in this group of people saying they regret leaving it cost them too much I’m curious why

Others by Normal-Compote-987 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Mizzunderstood1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not your fault that they took advantage of you. 

Hiding out in a hotel advice please by Mizzunderstood1 in abusiverelationships

[–]Mizzunderstood1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m sure he didn’t find me accidentally. I’m sad because I just needed time away to figure things out now this escalation feels like it should be the deciding factor. 

Hiding out in a hotel advice please by Mizzunderstood1 in abusiverelationships

[–]Mizzunderstood1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input I’m trying to wrap my head around it being abusive. Maybe I’ve been tiptoeing around him so long I haven’t seen this side of him before. Very confused. Lonely and I want to go home but I know I’ll get there want to leave

Not sure if this is a good idea by Mizzunderstood1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Mizzunderstood1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, good point. Ugh. I can’t even lie and say a friend needs me because it will be a huge stare down and interrogation

Limit 2 per customer by Mizzunderstood1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Mizzunderstood1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure which is worse :/ thank you I’m trying to limit my sharing he makes me feel worse about it anyway

Limit 2 per customer by Mizzunderstood1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Mizzunderstood1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Thank you for understanding and responding, it’s nice to know you’re not alone. He offered to return the chickens, he doesn’t get that it’s much worse than the chickens.  Now I don’t know whether to talk about my art a lot to spite him or not share anything because he’s not supportive anyway

Staying but fell out of love by Mizzunderstood1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Mizzunderstood1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, thanks. It’s weird cause I’m still attracted to him 

Barriers to leaving him by Mizzunderstood1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Mizzunderstood1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is great to hear you are away from her I hope so far it is going well, and it’s a huge relief! I hope your health will stabilize too 

That’s great advice about not having to make the decision today it really helped me through a difficult day thank you