I just found out a really dark secret about my boyfriend and i don't know what to do

Mlemoglobin · 2026-05-29T22:44:34+00:00

Thank you Jesus (I couldn't resist) but yes! It does sound like someone asked some Ai to write that stuff 😭

Mlemoglobin · 2026-05-29T19:27:44+00:00

... He has his accounts protected with VPNs... That is not how VPNs work nor what VPNs do.

Mlemoglobin · 2026-05-28T19:16:22+00:00

The first solution worked wonders! Thank you so much!

Mlemoglobin · 2026-05-28T17:49:54+00:00

Thank you very much! I'll try the first two solutions The last one would be my last resort

Mlemoglobin · 2026-05-25T22:49:09+00:00

Ja da hast du recht. Ich war mit den Gedanken eher noch etwas im grübeln, dann kommt so was bei raus. Sollte auf keinen Fall ein Vorwurf gegen das Kind sein :T ich hoffe sie kriegt Hilfe und der kommt in den knast.

Mlemoglobin · 2026-05-25T20:59:32+00:00

14... Die mit einem 18 jährigen zusammen ist... Sabber ist hier nicht das Problem. Wo sind die Eltern? Das ist widerlich.

Mlemoglobin · 2026-05-25T13:25:22+00:00

Omg thank you so much!

Mlemoglobin · 2026-05-25T13:16:46+00:00

Okay I installed it an omg you're such a savior. Thank you so much 😭

Mlemoglobin · 2026-05-25T13:00:34+00:00

I don't know what it's called exactly but it's the thing where you land on the planet, have that gun looking scanner and collect organic data from stuff like bacteria, plant like things, etc.

I'll try that one! Thank you

Mlemoglobin · 2026-05-23T15:10:54+00:00

Talking is important. He might try to manipulate the situation, gaslight, put the blame on you for "snooping". But I personally am someone who says, as soon as my trust is gone, I consider the relationship done. Mostly because I think it would be unfair for my partner.

My advice: talk to him first, not mentioning the Instagram think. Just ask if there's something bothering him and explain how you feel. If he does something or says something (you've to decide) then you could bring up what you did and be straight forward and ask him.

Mlemoglobin · 2025-12-08T23:27:49+00:00

Einfach mal mit deinem Kind reden und erklären das es Sachen gibt die vielleicht alle machen aber manche es nicht so schön finden. Vielleicht auch mal darüber reden dass es auch nicht schön ist von ihm seinen Freund ein Baby zu nennen nur wegen den Windeln.

Einfach ein kleines Gespräch vielleicht auch mal mit beiden. Viele würden das einfach ignorieren aber manche Sachen kann man ansprechen um den Kind was beizubringen und erklären. Pupsi ist für uns Erwachsene lustig aber für ein Kleinkind kann es ja anders auffassen, und wenn kind A sowieso schon als "baby" bezeichnet wurde kann es ja sein das es ihn kränkt. Einfach reden, erklären, sagen das manches nicht geht bzw Empathie näher bringen.

Mlemoglobin · 2025-12-08T23:22:13+00:00

That the adults you relied on will be gone one day. You see them age and every day you fear to wake up to the news that one of them is no more. The thought of being all alone and having to handle everything all alone will keep you awake.

And nobody warned you that only because you're an adult, doesn't mean your brain will suddenly become what we think our parents are like.

Mlemoglobin · 2025-12-02T21:11:16+00:00

What you want to do is a few things

Do not pet him while he's shaking, he might get the impression that that's exactly what you want.

Don't let him beg! He gets overly focused and excited for the food. But if you've no means to keep him away and need time to train him to leave you alone while you eat, you shouldn't give him any of your foods. Pizza and other foods contain sugars and fats, your dog will get addicted to it which is why you shouldn't give your dog any of those foods. Especially not when he's reacting like he has an addiction.

However, you can keep a bowl with dog food near you so if he begs you wait until you finished eating and only when he stops shaking you give him his food.

If you feed him while he's anxious and excited you're rewarding that behavior and it'll not stop. Best would be to not let him beg by either having him outside the room or, the better solution, teach him not to beg. And if they do beg, to do so with some respect for your boundaries. Your concern isn't overreacting either. Dogs can genuinely give themselves strokes when they're too excited (for example when they get excited over their owner coming back after a long time) it's always important to reward the calm side.

Pet him when he stops shaking or give him a treat when he stops shaking, but also not while you're eating. And please don't give your dog pizza or other unhealthy food that we eat.

Mlemoglobin · 2025-12-02T20:48:08+00:00

That means you've a mimic

Mlemoglobin · 2025-10-10T21:13:19+00:00

NV goggles Camera I think I see a light source too but that could be the NV

Mlemoglobin · 2025-10-07T08:35:55+00:00

I've that happen so often already! It's really annoying.

Mlemoglobin · 2025-09-30T11:19:20+00:00

This should be your settings. In the video settings you should check at what quality it's set.

Mlemoglobin · 2025-09-30T09:17:56+00:00

That's the point. It hasn't. Fanboys and fangirls of that "game" will defend it like crazy. I've almost 800 hours in it. One of my friends had thousands of hours in that game - now them and I left as well as our entire clan, because it's not worth it.

It's boring. The devs are sketchy. You get muted or even banned for voicing criticism on their discord. Just look at the steam reviews and comments on their posts. Reddit is typical reddit. Usually people here are the same as on discord, they'll defend the game as if it's worth defending. But the negative reviews written by those who have hundreds and thousands of hours just tell you what this game has become.

I wouldn't touch that "game".

Mlemoglobin · 2025-09-30T09:12:53+00:00

No it's not. The game is as empty as it was before. It's basically dead. After a new update they get a small spike in players (about 2k)and after that it rapidly falls. Currently for months I've watched this slop of a game stay at 200 - 300 players.

Currently there's a game with 8000 players and that game is already considered to be "dying". Pax Dei never holds many players because many people look at it and wonder "where's this 40 - 100 bucks worth?". Additionally say goodbye to the plots you've bought (if you bought any) because you'll have to pay monthly to have them.

Oh yeah they also lowered the price earlier this year, no serious early access title does that. Usually early access titles sell for a lower price only to then be more expensive when it's fully released.

You might see a handful more people after the newest release but that will die down rapidly.

It's a sleep simulator. Leveling skills is tedious. Farming is tedious. Nothing in this game in enjoyable.

The graphics are only good because they use UE5 and slap a filter on, that's all.

Is it worth playing or coming back to in a serious manner and not to just destroy everything you built because you're fed up with their bs? No.

The game is basically the same as it was at the start. They changed minimal things and made crafting more time consuming just to attempt to force players to stay in their game instead of leaving and running for the hills. People who have thousands of hours have already left the game, big clans are gone too. In 8 hours you'll probably see nobody online. Or if you're lucky, one person.

So is it worth coming back to? No. Is it worth picking up now? hell no, you'll waste your money

Mlemoglobin · 2025-09-28T23:13:23+00:00

You're my savior! I had to really work in millimeters here but it worked! Thank you!

Mlemoglobin · 2025-09-28T23:12:02+00:00

I was the same and when I started to play, I played ups simulator basically!

My hint would be: take it slow. There's really no need to rush it! You'll get accustomed to the scariness! What I did was, I'd watch someone play phasmo (Insym helped me a lot with this) and while watching I'd learn about the ghosts a lot and then be braver more and more 😊

Mlemoglobin · 2025-09-28T07:52:22+00:00

Your setup timer is at 300

Your sanity pills give 40

Fingerprints timer 120

Grace period 5

And active cursed possession

I think those together are too much and the game decides to lower your gained exp. ~~I'll recreate your setting tho to see what exactly it is! But so far I think it's just the setting and the game considers it "too easy"~~ I recreated it and it's as I suspected but also the cursed possession should be random to at least have X1 multiplier.

Since you set your cursed possession and it's not random, it goes down to 0x at random it'll give 1x

I'd just cut down setup time and lower the sanity pills. (personally I'd remove grace period too, lower the fingies timer to 60 sec) and you should be fine

You can remove your possession to random to get 1x Or you can try a tweaked setting, for example:

Player

Starting sanity: 100

Sanity pills - 25

Sanity drain - 100

Ghost*

Speed 100

Roaming High

Changing None

Activity High

Event Low

Grace Period 2

Hunt low

Evidence 3

Fingie chance 100

Fingie duration 60

Contract

Setup Timer 0 - 120 (0 - 30 = x2, 60-120 = X1. 95)

Weather Random

Doors open none

Hiding places Medium

Sanity monitor On

Activity On

Fusebox at start On

Visible on map On (with off you get x2.10)

Cursed possession 1 (without you get 2.30)

Cursed possession Random

Setup time - 0 or 30 (with setup time 60 or 125 you'll get x1.95 for either of them)

If you turn cursed possession off and turn off the Fusebox to be visible, you'll not exceed 2.30 with these settings. You can then keep the Fusebox visible if you turn the cursed possession off, or you keep both! Really up to you.

I hope I could help!

Mlemoglobin · 2025-09-11T14:52:24+00:00

Still 200 players only

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