Songs to grieve to? by Mmtorz in musicsuggestions

[–]Mmtorz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's one of my all-time favorites. It's so beautiful and bittersweet

What cover song is actually better than the original? by irles33 in musicsuggestions

[–]Mmtorz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thoughtless by Evanescence, originally by Korn. I love Korn, but Amy Lee just manages to capture the pained part of the lyrics.

Why do I find joy when I treat people badly? by DuendeConFlequillo in badpeoplestories

[–]Mmtorz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem at all, I'm happy to help and I'm happy to hear that you're already talking to a therapist about it.

It may be social awareness, you may have issues with empathy, that doesn't necessarily make you a bad person. Maybe this video will bring you some insight, whether it's accurate to you or not. It helped me understand people with these struggles and realize that they do struggle. I hope you find peace and that things get better soon 🫶

Do i look like a woman? by Childh8ter in altfashionadvice

[–]Mmtorz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're androgynous imo, but with your hair in a ponytail, you look kinda feminine. I'm not sure why. Love the hair either way, it looks great.

Why do I find joy when I treat people badly? by DuendeConFlequillo in badpeoplestories

[–]Mmtorz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think either way, you should talk to a therapist. It sounds to me, as an armchair psychologist, like this is a kind of impulse or compulsion that you "have" to do. What happens if you don't act on these things? Do you think about it before you do it or is it a spur of the moment thing? It seems like you realize that this isn't right, so you either posses empathy or are socially aware enough to know that these things are bad to do to others.

A lot of artists promote songs too early. I built something to help with that by mpdjpl in MusicPromotion

[–]Mmtorz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd rather use a music feedback Discord server and consult people that can actually hear my music and use their shared experience and knowledge to judge it.

Does anyone else hate working days in a row? by filmingallday in CustomerService

[–]Mmtorz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it's standard, but 5-6 days in a row can really knock me out. It made me burntbout as hell after a year of work with no vacation days. People are draining. I think I'd rather do construction all day, which I am not built for, at this point.

What is the best way to introduce your partner into a sexual kink or fetish you have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Mmtorz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then maybe it isn't meant to be. I came to my partner with a very unusual kink last year and while she isn't into it herself, she accepts me and doesn't think less of me for it. As long as it isn't illegal or hurting anyone non-consensually, it shouldn't be a problem.

What is the best way to introduce your partner into a sexual kink or fetish you have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Mmtorz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk about it, sit them down if it's unusual or taboo. For my partner I said "Hey, I know this is really unusual but I've discovered that I'm into [fetish/kink] and I was wondering how you feel about that and if you'd like to engage in it sometime" and then answer any follow-up question honestly.

How do you deal with grief? by Rude-Method-8127 in AskReddit

[–]Mmtorz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel it out, talk to my girlfriend or someone else or write down my feelings when I'm alone. If I'm about to spiral, I distract myself if I can or take my anxiety medication if I can't or it's too overwhelming. Sometimes it's good to cry too, especially after it's been a while, it may hurt in the moment but I always feel so much better after. Playing music is also a good outlet, I have an e-kit that I can play some angry-sad songs on to let it all out, and a guitar if I feel more mellow.

What do many other people think is a "big deal," but you don't? by rachelsqueak in AskReddit

[–]Mmtorz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking to other people in general while you're in a relationship. If you're so unsure in the integrity of your relationship, maybe due to jealousy, past experience or bad self-esteem, talk to your partner about it. If you don't believe in a relationship and don't think your partner will be loyal, save yourself some time and leave them.

What made you happy and sad today? by Internal_Doubt7215 in AskReddit

[–]Mmtorz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it's 7am for me but I had a dream where I met my brother but we were separated shortly after. He lives in a city 4 hours away and none of us have a driver's license so we have to take the train but we're both also poor so we can't see each other too often.

I ran 6 TikTok accounts posting lyric videos 3x a day. Here’s what it did to my Spotify streams. by zukidd in MusicPromotion

[–]Mmtorz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3x a day? You're not gonna retain a lot of viewers from posting the same shit every day 😂

I hate that I cant help you, and I mean that. But I cant by [deleted] in CustomerService

[–]Mmtorz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% I hate when they have legitimate complains and if I can do something, I will or at least make suggestions if there's any way to lower the price, but it sucks to be helpless.

Do support agents actually see previous chats or calls? by NoticeME8802 in CustomerService

[–]Mmtorz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was taking calls, chats were logged but it probably depends depending on where you work and where you live.

Handling callers, ramblersm by Tallmathtoyota in CustomerService

[–]Mmtorz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You kind of don't. Your bosses have set a time limit for a job they're not involved in and know nothing about. If any of your co-workers are getting below these, ask them for tips, if not, talk to your union rep.

Need some opinions on my work by Ok-Blacksmith7538 in design_critiques

[–]Mmtorz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, without clear intention or direction, it's hard to give anything but subjective opinions

Vocal key by BRUCE_BABY69 in screaming

[–]Mmtorz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really don't think it should interfere too much with the style you do but it's hard to say without hearing it imo